Just lonely now...

[Aidoon123]

It's happened, I have finally reached the point where I really really do feel lonely in my life. Since coming to terms with my sexuality I feel more alone then ever. I have friends around me every day of the week, in school and outside of it, but I just feel empty. Most of the time I am distracted, with school and friends. But when I am home after school, or a night out I just become majorly depressed, and feel like I am in a black room with no way out.

Does any one else feel like this? Does anyone else know how to cope with this?

[Gumleaf]

I understand this and get it. The emptiness is always there and other life activities can hide it for a while, but it always comes back. I'm like this too. I can't really offer any suggestions, but can definitely empathise with you.

[Ainsleyshea]

i have the same probolem and im still look for advice

[tasminsmith]

my bestfreind just moved away and although I have other friends its not the same and I feel lonely so I see what your saying. maybe get a dog/pet if your allowed my dog never fails to cheer me up I love training him walking him etc.

[Ainsleyshea]

my bestfreind just moved away and although I have other friends its not the same and I feel lonely so I see what your saying. maybe get a dog/pet if your allowed my dog never fails to cheer me up I love training him walking him etc.

no i feel a differnt emptynuss

[tasminsmith]

no i feel a differnt emptynuss

as you mentioned your sexuality perhaps getting a partner could help. maybe a close relationship with someone could help release some of this emptiness you feel

[Ainsleyshea]

as you mentioned your sexuality perhaps getting a partner could help. maybe a close relationship with someone could help release some of this emptiness you feel

no i have lot of close friend but still feel as if im alone

[tasminsmith]

no i have lot of close friend but still feel as if im alone

im sorry you feel this way. take up a hobby, tell people how you feel and im sure every one would be there to support you and try and make you feel less lonely because there are people out there that feel the same way

[Ainsleyshea]

yes but it a small amount of people and in order to come out in volves telling people and
all im saying i hate people saying stuff be hind my back it just agrovates me

[tasminsmith]

well hey I hate most people and I hate ppl being sly too so maybe youre better off with out them if they would do that and just be a lone wolf or somthing :)

[Ainsleyshea]

and drive my self deeper in to depreshion

[tasminsmith]

well if you have depression then it might be good to see a therapist and get some meds or something like Prozac. and not bein perv but it says you live in wales and wales is great don't be sad in wales go to the beach ride a horse just do things that make you happy and ignore anyone that makes you sad and tell them to fuck themselves for being a pessimistic little bitch

[Ainsleyshea]

hahah beach lol i do smoke anti depresants

[tasminsmith]

smoke anti depressants? srsly you carnt be sad on a beach unless you drowned that woulde be very sad ...

[Ainsleyshea]

well im not sying i havent tryed suiside

[tasminsmith]

thts terrible my aunty has tried 3 times and it was awfull. don't commit sucicide theres SO much better things to do than commit suicide , eat waffles buy puppies ride horses go shopping get a job theres soo much to live for.
look at puppies don't be sad think of everything good.

[tasminsmith]

im so bad at cheering people up :/

[Ainsleyshea]

dont you think ive tryed to think posative but i keep geting worce

[tasminsmith]

I know its hard sometimes. as I said my bestfreind has moved, my head of year wants to kick me out of school, my bf dumped me to go with another girl, my ocd is getting worse, my other dog has mouth cancer and my mums an alchoholic but what keeps me going is thinking that one day it will get better and things will change and every cloud has a silver lining (sorry for being so corny :/)

[Ainsleyshea]

no dw i kind of helped :)

[tasminsmith]

well im glad. trying to help other people makes me happy also makes me feel like ive done something good.

[Ainsleyshea]

at least some one got some thing out of it