Not sure what to do?

[Johnking1996]

Hey, at school I have a mate in my year and he's got a girlfriend but in ICT and Food Tech when we don't have a strict teacher he comes over and sits behind me on my chair and pretends he's humping me, then sometimes when he is sat next to me he will say things like let me suck your dick or I will fuck you in the arse if you want, and now and again he sends me dick pics on snapchat. IM not really sure what to do, what would you do? We are good mates though

[CanadianJake]

Okay that's just weird on so many levels, however the fact he's sending pictures of himself naked while he's in a relationship is something of concern. Does his Girlfriend even know about this? because yeah I understand if he's bisexual and I don't see a problem with that but either way, I'd recommend talking to him about it. If it bothers you and you aren't into guys then I'd tell him that it's really making you uncomfortable when he does it plus with him being in a relationship you should tell him that he shouldn't be talking about sucking a guys dick or even talking sexually with someone else. Unfortunately it draws into the line of cheating even though he hasn't really physically done anything other then sending pictures. Either way I'd just talk to him about it and hopefully he'll understand that you only wanna be friends with him, nothing more.

[JerseyGuy]

Tell him that he's gotta stop, you're flattered, but not interested. If he keeps on doing it shout out what he just said to you, and say stop saying it. In class. That should be a show stopper.

[SethfromMI]

if you want him to stop tell him to knock it off. you can do it in a nice way but make sure he understands you do not want to be a part of it

[hockeyfan]

It sounds to me like he might b gay, bi or just want to experiment.

U need to talk to him about wat u r or r not willing to do with him.

[Darth Vader]

Send his snap chats to all the girls in your class

[jeans_kid]

Do you like him, and would you like to do those things with him?

[JavierDolan]

You could ask him if he's gay or not, but I highly doubt that he'd be truthful if you asked him. Even if he is gay, you need to talk to him and make sure he understand that behaviour such as that is unacceptable because what he's doing is sexual harassment. If you feel uncomfortable (which there is a chance that you don't, in that case, don't do anything if it doesn't bother you that much) let him know. Communication is the greatest tool that humanity has and I think we should utilise it as much as possible.

[Zachary G]

You could always call his bluff, when he sits next to you and says to let him suck your dick, say "okay" and see how he responds to it. If he is just joking then he will laugh it off and probably cool off a little bit, but if he is serious he will take you up on your offer. Chances are he is curious and wants to experiment with you because he feels more comfortable with you. Now the question is, would you be willing to do those things with him and are you interested in doing any of those things with him?

[Bull]

First, what he is doing in school is totally inappropriate! If you are interested in a sexual relationship with him tell him that the actions need to be reserved for a more private environment. Also, sexting has the strong possibility to come back and bite you, so do NOT respond to his sexting in kind. Also, do not, as someone suggested, forward his sexting to anyone and you should delete such from your phone immediately. If you are not interested in him sexually, you need to tell him to knock it off as he is putting your friendship in jeopardy.

[riverboy]

Okay that's just weird on so many levels, however the fact he's sending pictures of himself naked while he's in a relationship is something of concern. Does his Girlfriend even know about this? because yeah I understand if he's bisexual and I don't see a problem with that but either way, I'd recommend talking to him about it. If it bothers you and you aren't into guys then I'd tell him that it's really making you uncomfortable when he does it plus with him being in a relationship you should tell him that he shouldn't be talking about sucking a guys dick or even talking sexually with someone else. Unfortunately it draws into the line of cheating even though he hasn't really physically done anything other then sending pictures. Either way I'd just talk to him about it and hopefully he'll understand that you only wanna be friends with him, nothing more.

First, what he is doing in school is totally inappropriate! If you are interested in a sexual relationship with him tell him that the actions need to be reserved for a more private environment. Also, sexting has the strong possibility to come back and bite you, so do NOT respond to his sexting in kind. Also, do not, as someone suggested, forward his sexting to anyone and you should delete such from your phone immediately. If you are not interested in him sexually, you need to tell him to knock it off as he is putting your friendship in jeopardy.

I agree with this. This is just weird and he could be messing with your mind.

[Darth Vader]

That would just be plain mean. How would you like it if somebody did that to you? :C Plus that would ruin his friendship :( don't do that...

I normally don't send nudes to my friends it would creep them the hell out you see.

[BraydenD]

Tell him you dont feel that way about him if you dont.

[tasminsmith]

that's creepy ask him what he thinks hes doing espeicially if he has a gf

[Catholic Guy]

Does it make you feel uncomfortable?

[Qabex818]

It's pretty weird. But I guess it's just his hormones or whatever

[Fire-3]

At the end of the day do you care? It may be that he is curious and wants you to be the person he tries it with or is just having a laugh??? If he's in a relationship just sit down and have a chat to him about it - say what are you playing at? What about 'insert name of girlfriend'?? Depending on what his reply is, and if you want to go for it do so! Hope it works out! Let me know :-)

[fast8]

Well talk to him alone and talk to him about it if you don't like it tell him u want him to stop if you like it then talk about it

[euan35]

If you really are good friends, just tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he is a good friend, he'll understand. Hope this helps :)

[Coleton]

He's either bi or just wants to mess around because he's curious. If you two are god friends then I don't see why you can't mess around - if you want that is.

[Bluebyrd]

No offense but he sounds pretty messed up in the head. If you don't think it's scary then there's no problem but if it freaks you out then you need to tell him.

[pie134]

if u really don't like it and want it to stop try talking to the teacher or principal