Is he joking?

[Lottie]

I have a friend from my old school who I don't really see that much anymore but we still talk on fb alot. Anyway the last few weeks everytime we chat he starts talking about sex and making jokes about sleeping with me.

He knows I have a boyfriend and we dont even live in the same town anymore.

Any ideas why he is doing this?
Is he just messing about or does he really think I'll have sex with him?

:confused:

[Magenta]

I'd tell him to knock it off. This isn't appropriate from someone who is aware you're in a relationship already.

He could be joking but if it makes you feel uncomfortable, just tell him to stuff it.

[Lottie]

yeh I guess I know I should tell him, I just dont wanna upset it as I like chatting with me. It does make me feel weird tho

[CanadianJake]

I got myself into a mess like this, however she wasn't in a relationship but I just made sexual jokes and stuff. I didn't really mean it and just did it jokingly but either way she called me some names and yeah it didn't end well. I kind of got upset by it, I did wrong and I fully accept it. I've already tried apologizing but I think she blocked me. Either way as you being in a relationship, it's best to tell him to knock it off. You don't want this ruining your relationship with the guy your with but tell this guy you only want to be friends, nothing more and nothing less. Also tell him it makes you uncomfortable when he does do it since you are in a relationship, if he can't accept it then he isn't really a true friend.

[SethfromMI]

if you got a boy friend you got to tell him to knock it off. honestly, unless he really is "just joking" my guess is he is trying to figure out how you will respond and if you are possibly open to doing something with him. that type of stuff needs to end. if your bf found out, he might think you are in on it. could go wrong in so many ways, just tell your friend flat out no and enough of it

[David_L2]

What everyone else said. Guess he thinks he has a shot, but if its not happening, better to be honest, even if it is harsh...