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JoshDude
April 1st, 2008, 02:09 AM
Well, as far as I know I would classify myself as straight. See, I really like girls, and would have sex with them. I have never wanted to have sex with a male, like, I don't really want to have sex with one. But one my male mates, I find like attractive? But I dont want to have sex with him or anything like this. So would that make me Bi because I find him attractive? Or just straight? Because I would never have sex with him?

Oblivion
April 1st, 2008, 02:26 AM
I think that to be Bi you would have to tell yourself "I Like men and women both physically and mentally"... If you like Women mentally and physically, but you only like men physically, then i would say you might not be 100% straight (which i dont think anyone is) but mabye a little bi... but you can still consider yourself straight.. or if you like to consider yourself bi, thats fine also, no shame in being bi or gay

robbiehay1
April 1st, 2008, 04:39 AM
dont worry its perfectly normal for your age, its just your hormones theres nothing to worry about

GRB123
April 1st, 2008, 08:01 AM
You are who you are. As simple as that

Requin
April 1st, 2008, 10:32 AM
I think your straight, as your not attracted to men, physically AND emotionally your probably not. Also, i want to make a point here, can't we all tell who is attractive and who's not even if we're not gay. I mean we know what we are attracted to, in both male and female's there is no difference. Sorry i went off on a ramble there.

happytimes
April 2nd, 2008, 12:48 AM
I don't know actually. it's kinda sticky situation. If you think the guy is good looking, handsome, etc... then I guess your still straight since that's really common (people don't say that out loud but we all know secretly that we think some guy celebs are handsome). if you're like sexually attracted to him then that would make you bi.

NextToNormal
April 3rd, 2008, 05:30 PM
look, dont label yourself. just be who you are. sometimes when people label themselves, its not what they want to be. i wouldnt say you are gay or bi. just accept yourself for who you are and what it is you like and let everything else fall into place.

The Entertainer
April 3rd, 2008, 05:49 PM
I think your straight, as your not attracted to men, physically AND emotionally your probably not. Also, i want to make a point here, can't we all tell who is attractive and who's not even if we're not gay. I mean we know what we are attracted to, in both male and female's there is no difference. Sorry i went off on a ramble there.

Spot on, Id say

ThatCanadianGuy
April 3rd, 2008, 07:57 PM
I honestly don't even think this should be a question as to whether you are even remotely attracted to them. It's clear that you really aren't! You can be secure in with your own sexuality enough to JUDGE if someone is attractive and that doesn't have to label you as being gay or bi! People notice if other people are UGLY all the time! And then nothing ever comes in to question, so why here? Simple as that really.

MoveAlong
April 3rd, 2008, 08:02 PM
id say that you are straight, but we really don't know because you may not like any of your mates enough to want to have sex with them (if that makes sense), there's still a possiblity of being something else but you sound straight.

maybe you have mancrushes on them. You admire their looks but aren't sexually attracted to them.

Antares
April 4th, 2008, 12:14 AM
I dont think so. I think you are straight regardless.

theOperaGhost
April 4th, 2008, 12:19 AM
I'd say you're straight. I don't think there is anything wrong with finding another guy good looking. You don't have to be physically or mentally attracted to a person to think they are good looking.

IfPiratesCouldFly
April 4th, 2008, 01:27 PM
Straight I'd think, its perfectly normal to be attracted to those of the same sex as you, I mean I do too. Juss cos you like them doesn't mean you find them attractive doesn't mean you like...want them.

Kietkarbad
April 28th, 2008, 11:10 PM
your straight dude i mean i think guys are hot who cares doesnt mean i want them or love them or anything they are hot and i wish i could look like them... that simple

Tree
April 28th, 2008, 11:22 PM
Being curious in your head doesn't make you any less straight. If you where to act on these thoughts with this friend of yours then it would be a different story. But other than that if you claim to be straight then you are.

dogman
April 29th, 2008, 05:22 AM
i dont think you could call yourself gay/bi because you dont have a physical and emotional attraction to them, you might just be a little curious