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june3000
January 12th, 2015, 02:26 PM
So I've had a crush on my BFFs brother (lets call him bob) who is 1 year older than me for about 5 years now. I only recently told my BFF that I had had a crush on Bob (had meaning in the past). But after I broke up with my previous boyfriend the feelings for him that I tried to forget during that relationship are starting to come to the surface again. This wouldn't be such a problem if me and Bob weren't friends because it would be easy to keep it a secret but I'm really bad at hiding my feelings especially if I'm talking to that person. I have a feeling that he already knows about my feelings but I really don't want things to be awkward between us because I enjoy spending time and talking with him and he seems to enjoy it too.
I guess the question that I'm asking is should I try to forget these feelings or just see where it goes.

all advice welcome THX!!!

kay_jay
January 15th, 2015, 09:39 AM
I think you should talk to him, he might even feel the same way for all you know.

Melodic
January 15th, 2015, 10:16 AM
Yeah you should talk to him. You'll never know if you never ask.

SethfromMI
January 15th, 2015, 03:15 PM
see where it may go

David_L2
January 15th, 2015, 04:44 PM
Yup, I'ld talk to him

maniamsmart
January 16th, 2015, 07:00 PM
Simply put, see where it goes, and talk to him.