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TipoRimvis
January 12th, 2015, 01:19 PM
Hey everyone.
So i'll tell you my story, i hope to get some good advice.
I changed schools and obviously my class. There is one girl which broke up with her boyfriend a month a go and I started chatted randomly with her, we chatted until 4am on vacation and we still do it everyday, just till 1am or so. Last week she invited me to her home and we spent 5 hours just laying there and talking to each other, but nobody knows, we keep it a secret. We also have a group in school which does everything together, for example go to cafeteria, make food on weekends, but when we are with others we do not talk so much, but when we are left alone, we talk endlessly. I've recently started noticing that i really like her, should I invite her to somewhere? Or is she just being friendly?
sunnieseason
January 14th, 2015, 08:33 PM
Girls are not direct or clear. I think you need to be the one to say something first. Ask her for more clarity, tell her you like her and see what she says.
I think girls do this horrible thing to boys where they keep them in an ambiguous spot when it comes to relationships. I think you need to break that ambiguity and tell her you like her. If she likes you back then you are all happily ever after. If she tells you she doesn't feel that way then you need to move on otherwise she'll put you in that "friend zone" and will keep on using you as her emotional crutch.
SethfromMI
January 14th, 2015, 11:07 PM
Girls are not direct or clear. I think you need to be the one to say something first. Ask her for more clarity, tell her you like her and see what she says.
I think girls do this horrible thing to boys where they keep them in an ambiguous spot when it comes to relationships. I think you need to break that ambiguity and tell her you like her. If she likes you back then you are all happily ever after. If she tells you she doesn't feel that way then you need to move on otherwise she'll put you in that "friend zone" and will keep on using you as her emotional crutch.
Amen sister!
but to the OP yea go for it man! I think there is a good shot of something happening between the two of you :)
David_L2
January 15th, 2015, 04:48 PM
Think you should act soon. Don't want to end up in the friend zone...
sunnieseason
January 15th, 2015, 07:58 PM
Think you should act soon. Don't want to end up in the friend zone...
Exactly!
Straya
January 16th, 2015, 03:50 AM
i think you have a shot man just tell her your starting to get feelings for her and see if she feels the same way
TipoRimvis
January 20th, 2015, 01:42 AM
Thanks for advice! A few friends of mine adviced me the same, because last friday I was going out with friends but she got angry because I wrote to my female friend an SMS, but at about 7pm I've asked her to go with me, she tried to refuse, but when I said "I'll be in front of your house in 20 minutes" she wrote "i hate you" and we met. I'm so confused now, because she agrees on going with me, but she often talks about how she can't find a boyfriend and that I need an awesome girlfriend.
tasminsmith
January 20th, 2015, 01:36 PM
I think you have a good chance with her but when you get really friendly she could view you as just a friend, invite her out somewhere
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