Too big of a penis

[Jerry123123]

I think I am too big and don't know what to do. Me and my girlfriend recently tried to have sex, and we had to stop because it didn't fit and it was hurting her. I'm 15 and 7,5 in long and almost 6 in girth. my girlfriends 14 and not even a virgin. So girls and guys what can I do?

[Ricky.h]

I've had the same problem with a girl on New Years, and I'm 8in even...what you have to do is invest in lube, and go slow, like put the head in and wait until she gets comfortable and take each inch slow until she gets used to it. LUBE and SPIT are your best friends

[Meh Guy]

Well, you can use lube, and lots of it. Go slow to ease her into it. You may try just going half way in instead of all the way each time. To be honest, 7.5" long and 6" girth isn't that uncommon or unnatural so I'm sure she must just be fairly tight. The only thing I can see is being 14, she might not be fully developed or something, just a thought.

[Greggity]

get a differnt gf. not that hard

[dsmith1919]

get a differnt gf. not that hard

i agree

[Cognizant]

get a differnt gf. not that hard

Dumping someone cause you can't have sex with them is kind of a douche-y thing to do.
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I had the same problem as you, OP, when I tried to loose my virginity. It was too much for my boyfriend and I got tired and gave up (mind you he decided to have sex at like 2AM, I'm a zombie at that hour). But yeah, just use hella lube and take it super slow.

[Zachary G]

why not try letting her be on top so she can control how much of she can take at her own pace until she gets used to it.

[Uranus]

Is she relaxed? Is she sexual aroused? There's many positions where it can be easier for penetration. You'll find a way. Also try some lube. Just a little bit of it can go a long way. And you can never use too much. (Unless you're literally swimming in it, then you're on your own) good luck man with banging your girl.

[Jerry123123]

Thanks for the answers people

[JerseyGuy]

7 isn't too big. It's awesome that you're big like that.

[Tyler97]

7 isn't too big. It's awesome that you're big like that.

it can be too big for some girls and painful, you want to please your gf, not hurt her. Sorry about your problem, there is penis reduction surgery, but it's expensive, I would just stick with what you got and be gentle with your gf.

[JerseyGuy]

True, Tyler. And you've got good advice. Part of it is how you use it on her. Try stuff gently and talk to her thru it. Find what feels good to her too. Take care of ur girl if you wanna have her be your girl.

[hudson19]

im 8.5 long and about 6.25/6.5 girth and have sometimes had the same problem. it all depends on the girl...for example my current girlfriend and i first had sex when I was about 7.5 long and 5.5 girth...she was a virgin so she could hardly take even a few inches past the head. it took her a few times to get used to it but now she can take most of my cock just fine and really loves the size. just be patient and work it in inch by inch, be gentle and careful. long term, she will probably start getting used to it. just be patient and respond to her cues

[SevenRhye]

Well, 7, 5 inch is a bit of monster size and there are girls, who like to have big penis in vagina, there are some, who have really smal vagina and they can't fit 7, 5 inch penis. You must know, that the vagina usualy is around 10 cm long, so you have 7 cm more :0

[mrjc]

try different positions to see which is best

[Babs]

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