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Jason The Great
January 10th, 2015, 01:13 PM
Could a group of boys and girls whom are actually great friends provide sexual needs of each other?
I mean it's a need and only based on rules of our societies it could be weird and kind of embaressing. But like eating , comunicating and etc. sex is a need too.
I really like to know your ideas about this!:lol:
Uranus
January 10th, 2015, 01:15 PM
Anyone can provide sexual favors for anyone. Friend or stranger, anyone. It just depends how they themselves feel about the situation.
suzzysmith2012
January 10th, 2015, 01:20 PM
I'm sure they could manage together. Especially if they all happened to got stuck on some deserted island somewhere.
Me and my "few friends" manage just fine.
SethfromMI
January 10th, 2015, 01:57 PM
it is called with friends with benefits. and yes I have done it haha. does not always work out though so be careful about who you do it with
Jason The Great
January 10th, 2015, 02:00 PM
it is called with friends with benefits. and yes I have done it haha. does not always work out though so be careful about who you do it with
Did it effect your relationship with her?
SethfromMI
January 10th, 2015, 02:02 PM
Did it effect your relationship with her?
well with one girl not at all. another girl, it did, we really don't talk at all. guys a lot of times are way more open to it than girls. that's why if you are bi ahd have a guy you can do stuff with, it can often work out very ncie
riverboy
January 10th, 2015, 02:27 PM
It could work as everyone has said but if emotions or personalities got involved then I can see a disaster. Watch reality shows. I know they are fake but it could happen.
Meh Guy
January 10th, 2015, 10:00 PM
Yeah it's called being friends with benefits. So yeah I guess this could work although there are some complications that could come up. Just be wary that you don't ruin your friendship.
As for sex being a need... Well I'll let you think what you want. ;)
LITTLEANGEL19
January 11th, 2015, 06:04 AM
Yes they could. But it could also ruin a friendship and even end up pregnant.
Zachary G
January 11th, 2015, 09:02 AM
it is called with friends with benefits. and yes I have done it haha. does not always work out though so be careful about who you do it with
Seth took the words right out of my mouth.
Pensive
January 11th, 2015, 09:51 AM
Basically don't have sex with anyone of the opposite gender unless you would be willing to have them in your life for the rest of it, even at a distance. And have a child. That's a massive lifelong commitment you just made in 2 minutes of cheap 'fun'.
Decent partners will be repulsed and rightly apprehensive of your previous sexual ambivalence.
More partners, especially ones who are willing to perform sexual acts on just friends, greatly increase your chances of getting an STI. Think about it, if they're drinking water from the same pool and one of them is sick, it'll spread to them all sooner or later. Massive problem in 'swinger' communities in the UK.
It's been shown in Psych studies that the majority of girls who have sex with boyfriends at a young age (say 15), have lower self esteem and feel 'cheap' and 'slutty' - premised by the stability of that relationship and if it ends.
So it would be fair to extrapolate that it is possible those outside a relationship would feel these effects more-so.
Yeah, it may seem like a fun idea with the hormones tap fully cranked open. But reality is, any chimp with genitals can have sex. There's nothing special or 'big' about that. It's the connection with the person you love that makes it wonderful and fulfilling. Don't bastardise, pervert and cheapen such an incredible expression of love.
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Theater freak87
January 11th, 2015, 11:00 AM
yes they can, just talk it over with everyone first to make sure you are all on the same page of what you want, what you're comfortable with, and what will come of it
ImagineRepublicCity
January 11th, 2015, 12:36 PM
Puberty For All :arrow: Relationships and Dating
I think it's more suitable here.
Nevertheless, to respond to your question, what you're talking about is Friends with Benefits (which everyone has already said), however, I do so believe, the stronger your connection with the person, the more risky it is. I feel like fwb is only something you should do with someone you don't 'love' too much and isn't too close to you.
I did try and do a fwb thing with someone before, and I believe I only did so to try and gain acceptance from the person, but it totaaaally didn't work out. xD
mattsmith48
January 11th, 2015, 08:17 PM
yes they can as long its only sex
Tap27future
January 11th, 2015, 08:55 PM
Yes, but it's risky and not exactly safe. I have been involved in one of these once, and it was great and all but some people get too desperate or committed and it falls apart.
twirlgurl
January 11th, 2015, 09:30 PM
clearly i need new friends. lol
maniamsmart
January 12th, 2015, 12:56 PM
They have that today, it's called friends with benefits.
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