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twirlgurl
January 10th, 2015, 10:42 AM
if you catch a boy trying to look down your top or notice your like accidentally exposed, how do you feel?

Are you embarassed, excited, ashamed, offended, upset, or don't care?

i dont let anything happen on purpose, but when it happen, like a swimsuit "malfunction" or a catch a boy staring down my top, it kind of makes me happy. like some boy is interested in me, or at least my body. And even if its obvious that i caught him, which has happened a cpl times, i never say anything or act all upset. I just pretend i didnt notice he was looking. isnt that wierd to think like that?

who have you caught with wandering eyes? Mostly for me, it was just a random boy but nothing i would remember. I did catch a teacher once though...and apparently he's like known for peeking.

Ninni
January 10th, 2015, 11:51 AM
I don't mind if it happens to me. I am not ashamed or something. I just don't like boys who do it, allthough i can unterstand them for doing it.

Taryn98
January 10th, 2015, 12:41 PM
Honestly it kind of turns me on. I'm sort of an exhibitionist that way so I enjoy it when people are looking at me.

Laraa.01
January 10th, 2015, 02:06 PM
I can't say it bothers me all that much, I mean I check the guys bodies out so only fair they check mine out ;)

Elysium
January 10th, 2015, 02:10 PM
I'm embarrassed or offended, usually. It depends on who. I'm very shy and very modest, so I don't really like the thought of receiving that kind of attention.

Char1999
January 10th, 2015, 02:19 PM
It depends, with some guys it just feels creepy with others its a real compliment and turn on!

LITTLEANGEL19
January 11th, 2015, 05:40 AM
I don't mind if it happens to me. I am not ashamed or something. I just don't like boys who do it, allthough i can unterstand them for doing it.

Good answer that does for me.

Abbeys
January 11th, 2015, 07:11 AM
If it's accidental!!!! ?????

Of course it's embarrassing BUT,


say for example,you are walking down a dark street at night,all the curtains and blinds on the houses are closed except for one.the lights are blazing and you can see inside.

Do you look?

Pensive
January 11th, 2015, 10:03 AM
I'm embarrassed or offended, usually. It depends on who. I'm very shy and very modest, so I don't really like the thought of receiving that kind of attention.

Do you mean modest or is it not more like, you want to choose who you share something so intimate with, like a loved one - not just some random guy?

That's how it is for more, I mean I'm confident in my body as I'm very athletic, but I don't want anyone even seeing the outline too much of my bum or cleavage...

Elysium
January 11th, 2015, 10:46 AM
Do you mean modest or is it not more like, you want to choose who you share something so intimate with, like a loved one - not just some random guy?

That's how it is for more, I mean I'm confident in my body as I'm very athletic, but I don't want anyone even seeing the outline too much of my bum or cleavage...
Generally, I don't like any kind of attention on me. Lecherous attention I find perturbing, and I couldn't really tell you why. I'm confident in my body as well, though I'm not athletic or fit at all. I'd rather decide who sees what and when, you know?

Theater freak87
January 11th, 2015, 10:49 AM
I feel kind of embarrassed and excited depending on who is looking.

twirlgurl
January 11th, 2015, 12:19 PM
If it's accidental!!!! ?????

Of course it's embarrassing BUT,


say for example,you are walking down a dark street at night,all the curtains and blinds on the houses are closed except for one.the lights are blazing and you can see inside.

Do you look?

meaning...cute boy walking in front of a window in his undies...or better. :P OF COURSE I would look!

Abbeys
January 11th, 2015, 02:18 PM
meaning...cute boy walking in front of a window in his undies...or better. :P OF COURSE I would look!

YUP!

You got it!!!

:):):):):)

I don't think theres any harm in girls admitting they check out a guy's ASS/etts!!!!

Becca029
January 11th, 2015, 03:15 PM
i dont mind it that much

suzzysmith2012
January 11th, 2015, 05:04 PM
I don't always mind, I can be daring at times. I guess it depends on the who, where, why, and what.

Dying Ember
January 11th, 2015, 08:18 PM
I would be so embarrassed and kind of upset. Wouldn't matter if it was a girl, boy or friend or whatever I would still hate it if anyone saw a part of my body I didn't want them to see.

Jennboh
January 11th, 2015, 09:12 PM
meaning...cute boy walking in front of a window in his undies...or better. :P OF COURSE I would look!

like the biggest turn on for me is a cute boy in just his underwear with the outline of his cock head showing through the underwear. yum yum yum.

cutie123
January 11th, 2015, 10:34 PM
I feel kind of flattered actually if I catch a boy looking at me! I take it as a compliment

Gren64
January 12th, 2015, 02:53 PM
Hasn't happened to me yet, but I'm not sure id mind as long as they don't comment on it.

amgb
January 12th, 2015, 03:31 PM
Hasn't happened to me yet either, but if it does I'll probably feel a thrill through my body and I'd be pretty embarrassed

Daniella98
January 13th, 2015, 06:52 AM
Honestly it kind of turns me on. I'm sort of an exhibitionist that way so I enjoy it when people are looking at me.

Me too. But some times I do it on purpose

Claire Asteroid
January 15th, 2015, 04:52 PM
I noticed one guy was staring at me on the bus, then I realised he could see down my top. I didn't like it.

TinyDancer
January 15th, 2015, 05:26 PM
I don't always mind, I can be daring at times. I guess it depends on the who, where, why, and what.

That's me too.

lilg
January 15th, 2015, 09:48 PM
I don't really mind at all, sometimes I sorta help them out

anarita_fbs
January 16th, 2015, 12:29 PM
like the biggest turn on for me is a cute boy in just his underwear with the outline of his cock head showing through the underwear. yum yum yum.

hahaha you just read my mind :D

LilEmma
January 20th, 2015, 06:12 AM
I dont really mind, i am not shy about my body. I am just starting to grow breasts, so it is actually cool if someone notices that i am not totally flat any more... :yeah:

RachelW
January 20th, 2015, 10:20 AM
If I'm out there showing what I got I don't mind but if it's an accident I gelt a little embarrassed but I realy don't care that much

tasminsmith
January 20th, 2015, 01:32 PM
totally depending who it is, but if its someone I know quite well I might play up to it for a laugh if you know what im saying

emmasmith1256
January 20th, 2015, 04:32 PM
I usually don't care

Cangirl
January 21st, 2015, 12:50 AM
For me it really depends who I catch looking and my mood and where I am and how much theyre looking and seeing. I wear leggings so yeah I know my bum shows but I'm ok with that and I see or know guys look. Same with looking down tops if they can but it depends if its a creepy guy or blatant staring. But I'd rather them look than ignore me i think haha

Natasha
January 25th, 2015, 11:31 AM
It depends who it is. If it's a guy my age I don't mind, but older guys, eww! that's creepy.

Becca029
January 26th, 2015, 10:31 PM
If I'm out there showing what I got I don't mind but if it's an accident I gelt a little embarrassed but I realy don't care that much


couldnt have said it better ;)

Brenda1997
January 29th, 2015, 09:13 AM
It turns me on when a guy is looking at me. I just act like I didn't see it, but I like it a lot

TheGentleHerbivore
February 2nd, 2015, 10:43 AM
I usually feel either embarrassed or offended when guys look down my top.

It depends on what happened, if my shirt collar was riding down and my boobs looked like they were trying to escape I would feel embarrassed, because it's my fault for not paying attention, and I don't blame him for looking.
But if some dude was just being a pervert and trying to look down my shirt I would feel offended.

Generally speaking though I'm not fond of even having boobs and plan to buy a chest binder in the near future.
So guys looking down my shirt and boobs falling out will rarely be an issue.

Lori
February 2nd, 2015, 10:35 PM
It depends who it is. If it's a guy my age I don't mind, but older guys, eww! that's creepy.

same here. Like I said somewhere else, I sometimes go on those online webcams and show a little boob if I feel daring :P but I don't do it often I like watching more :P im kinda voyeuristic :P but I don't like watching old men or that old men watch me it is creepy :/

At the old town I used to live I had a neighbor that was an exhibitionist, she was around 19 and every night she used to walk around her room naked or do stuff to herself with the lights on and the blinds open. Everybody on the block knew her and had seen her at some point. I must admit that I would watch her every night since she was just oposite to my house, it turned me on. One time she saw me looking at her and she just stared at me while masturbating and doing her business! LOL :whoops: it was embarrassing and hot at the same time. Too bad we had to move :(

Stephanie 15
February 3rd, 2015, 03:49 AM
I know guys look, but a really old guy looking at me or try to look down my shirt or whatever I would be offended. But I don't care if a guy looks at my bum because I look at there and other things. I have small boobs so if they see anything its going to be blatant and that's offending.

soccerbeth
February 6th, 2015, 05:15 PM
I know guys look, and I guess it doesn't bother me as much if it's someone I know, especially some one that I like. But it does bother me if it is a complete stranger leering at me. That's just creepy.

kentucky girl
February 8th, 2015, 02:14 PM
It is actually a turn on to me, I love for guys to look at me and like some others have said if the right person I might help them to see

Emolga
February 8th, 2015, 04:45 PM
Depends on the guy looking, I guess. If its just some random creep I don't like it, but if it's like my crush or something I react accordingly.

smileyface2001
February 13th, 2015, 12:45 AM
Doesn't happen to me, but I would be embarassed and happy at the same time, and I would pretend I didn't notice though.

Isabella_
February 13th, 2015, 01:03 AM
I don't need or like bras so I guess my nips have been seen enough times, everyone has them

fairmaiden
February 13th, 2015, 05:31 AM
If your teacher deliberately peeks at your chest *shudder*, do not hesitate to tell another teacher or your parents about it. He's an adult and he should know better.

Jour_Nuit
February 25th, 2015, 10:52 AM
if it is a nice guy ... I do not care if he looks at my ass or my breasts ..of anyway it means he finds me sexy and likes me .. I was in the metro and a man about 45-50 years old looked under my skirt and I did not like it ... It depends what guy look at me ;)

Sardintroll
February 25th, 2015, 12:09 PM
Like in so many similar cases, it depends on the boy. If it was someone I didn't know well, I'd tell them to fudge off if I caught them, but if it was a close friend of mine, I'd probably find some way to just tease him about it. ;)

Teachers peeking is under no circumstance OK.

Stephanie 15
February 25th, 2015, 05:12 PM
I agree teachers trying to get a look is so wrong on so many levels. But if a guy wants to look at me I'm ok with it.

cami
March 7th, 2015, 12:38 PM
I don't care about it, really. People can look whatever they want.

Also, sometimes it's a turn on to me and I like to tease a bit :P they usually like it if I smile or wink too.

Beth
March 8th, 2015, 04:40 PM
If it was a boyfriend I wouldn't care only flattered knowing he's interested. If any other boy I'd be embarrassed. I surely wouldn't expose myself on purpose but accidents do happen.

Wildsassygirl
March 15th, 2015, 05:39 PM
I let the boys try to look down my top and sometimes act like I accidentally expose to excite them, I don't care if they look. I like being noticed.

The last time I had a swimsuit "malfunction" it wasn't on purpose it by a swim raft with a bunch of boys like 10-12. I didn't notice my top was loose enough to look down, seeing everything, and they were looking. After I heard them talking about it too, so it was a little weird for me.

Who have you caught with wandering eyes? Boys at school, friends dads, a couple of teachers and my younger step brothers friends lol.

One teacher at my school was fired for doing things with a girl that was senior last year.

jenni31
March 19th, 2015, 08:07 AM
I rember the day I went to McDonalds and put a looser top on. I leaned over and realized I went out without my bra and when I stood up realized the cute boy was staring at my breasts. I blushed was embarrassed but excited at the same time cuz he was sooooooo cute. Grabbed my food and went home to my room and masturbated. I was 15 at the time

Dyri_14
April 10th, 2015, 01:16 PM
I dont worry..

Sugilite
April 11th, 2015, 12:10 PM
Hate it. I usually dislike it when certain people (especially strangers) find me sexually attractive, it makes me feel like I'm on some kind of display on a shelf.
I really hate the fact that nowadays women and girls are so sexualized, and those who don't have any lecherous tendencies are made fun of.

Avey
April 12th, 2015, 07:27 PM
I don't mind, no point in becoming upset about it.

stepht
April 13th, 2015, 06:54 AM
I guess I could say I'd be all embarrassed and I guess that has been the case but if I'm being honest I pretty much always wind up being a bit flattered or even turned sometimes.

neledisapersonne
April 28th, 2015, 07:07 PM
Totally depends on the situation and the person... Can be a huge turn on as well as embarassment, or plain disgust...

SarahFox
May 10th, 2015, 10:40 PM
Depends!!! Is it a cute boy or some weirdo or dirty old guy?

I like wearing revealing clothing and I like it when men go a bit crazy, if it's a hot guy it's a MEGA turnon. But I dont walk around dangerous areas like that.

Im bi so I check out hot girls all the time. Some times theyll check me out too, and that can lead on to interesting things!!:yummy:

emmy_smith
May 13th, 2015, 03:48 AM
What if it was a guy you know that's in his 30's looking at your breasts or ass??

LucieP
May 13th, 2015, 09:13 AM
That's a complicated question in my view. Im in San Diego so the weathers always (well almost always) warm so I dont usually wear a whole lot of clothing - usually shorts and tank tops, unlike in New York where you would freeze! Part of me likes showing off. I do track & field so I think I'm in pretty good shape.

So yes, it can be quite flattering to be checked out. When Im out (eg party) I go with the full outfit, with heels and usually pretty revealing dress or skirt, and its fun knowing that your distracting boys!! Same thing at the beach with a bikini. IDK, Its empowering?

But thats only when its boys my age or a bit older. Ive had to deal with some pervy dads and coaches and to me thats pretty disgusting, especially if your in a mall or on public transport. I want to tell them "Im the same age as your daughters you perverts!!!"

ClaraWho
May 13th, 2015, 11:00 AM
I dress modestly and never had any problems attracting guys, I'd rather not attract the guys who are just lusting after my body anyway. It's not empowering to be thought of as a sex object!

dezzy2020
May 14th, 2015, 12:48 AM
So what about besides down your shirt? What about someone trying to look up your skirt, or trying to see your thong down the back of your pants or through your leggings? Do you mind if some one sees if they get a glance? Do you ever show it on purpose?

Linda2001
July 17th, 2016, 09:19 PM
I dont usually mind if it isnt super creepy. I like it more when I wear something on purpose that I know will get looks :whoops:.

sara___
July 19th, 2016, 08:28 PM
I love the attention , peek all you want !!!

Phosphene
July 19th, 2016, 09:01 PM
I'm shy so I would either be embarrassed or wouldn't really mind, just depends on who it was.

Croconaw
July 20th, 2016, 06:26 PM
I don't like when anyone does it

Laibachd
July 21st, 2016, 04:29 AM
i would be kinda flattered haha

NatteDroom03
July 30th, 2016, 06:44 AM
If that should happen, it depends on who sees me, really. If it's one of my friends, it's no big deal. And they got something to dream about. :P

Sarah16
August 5th, 2016, 02:14 AM
Honestly it kind of turns me on. I'm sort of an exhibitionist that way so I enjoy it when people are looking at me.

I love it when guys stare at me. I sometimes provoke this situation of a too deep cleavage. Too many buttons open too much bent forward...gives me a kick I love

FernyGirl
August 6th, 2016, 02:45 PM
I usually get excited with that as long as he isn't creepy. Sometimes I show a little more bc of it

pippa
August 6th, 2016, 06:32 PM
I really love the attention. it's exciting for me and it's actually what i think about to mastrubate

deepthroat_tacos
August 8th, 2016, 06:17 PM
I kinda like it...

Barbara.
August 8th, 2016, 06:43 PM
I would be very embarrassed at the time. But kinda turned on after the fact.

LanaPole
August 8th, 2016, 11:41 PM
i like the attention. i get looks whenever i wear something skimpy. it makes me feel excited.

Phosphene
August 8th, 2016, 11:46 PM
i like the attention. i get looks whenever i wear something skimpy. it makes me feel excited.

Wearing skimpy things excites me anyways xD

SooperDooper
August 9th, 2016, 08:28 AM
When I was younger, I was terrified of the idea of getting caught naked somehow. Then when I was 14, I had a tumble while going down a water slide and in the process I lost my bikini top and also banged myself on the head. I was so dazed from banging my head that I didn't realize that my top had come off so I made no effort to cover up my boobs. It was a school trip so I was surrounded by most of the guys in my class who all got a real good look for a while I was still trying to figure out what happened.

I was super embarrassed at the time. I didn't want to go to school the next day, but my mum made me. I was expecting all sorts of comments and to be laughed at. Luckily nobody said anything, though I did catch a lot more guys than normal looking at my chest (or maybe I just was looking for it).

Once i got over the embarrassment and realized it wasn't the end of the world and that nothing had really changed.

A couple of years later, I got caught out again. This time, I'd gone to a party straight from work and had found an empty bedroom to get changed from my work uniform into a dress I brought with me. I locked the door, and started getting undressed. I'd just taken off my comfy undies to put on something sexier when two guys came in from an en suite that I'd thought was a cupboard. I was stark naked, facing toward them and I completely froze for a few seconds, as did the boys. When I saw the looks on their faces I was more amused than embarrasses, and I didn't really make much of an effort to cover up as they stumbled past me apologizing. Once they left I did feel quite exhilarated.

These experiences haven't turned me into an exhibitionist. I don't try to get guys to see me naked, but I do sometimes go sunbathing with friends either topless or nude, and sometimes I like it when I catch a guy staring at me, and some times I'm just indifferent to it.

TheSix25
August 20th, 2016, 12:24 AM
Is try to play it cool I guess. I can't say I'd be embarrassed.

Regina
August 21st, 2016, 02:37 PM
tbh if it's an attractive guy, it's actually a little flattering as long as they're not being a total creep about it.

MaeFae
August 23rd, 2016, 10:08 AM
I feel like it depends on who it is. Hasn't happened to me a whole bunch but there have been times where I'm embarrassed and times where I'm excited. All just depends

Madison78
August 23rd, 2016, 11:13 PM
it totally turns me on!

Snjezana
September 12th, 2016, 12:10 PM
100% me :)
Honestly it kind of turns me on. I'm sort of an exhibitionist that way so I enjoy it when people are looking at me.

darla
September 12th, 2016, 02:58 PM
I get embarrested and flattered

shy_indian_chick
September 12th, 2016, 08:38 PM
i'm quite shy generally, but get very turned on by exhibitionism and do get quite turned on when this kinda thing happens... especially if it's obvious the boy/girl looking is enjoying the view.

SammiB
September 13th, 2016, 10:10 PM
It can be flattering...

Nicole4All
September 21st, 2016, 12:37 PM
It's flattering and gives me a sense of power I guess, so long as it doesn't cross the creepy line.

Blondhairedbeauty
September 30th, 2016, 09:18 AM
if you catch a boy trying to look down your top or notice your like accidentally exposed, how do you feel?

Are you embarassed, excited, ashamed, offended, upset, or don't care?

i dont let anything happen on purpose, but when it happen, like a swimsuit "malfunction" or a catch a boy staring down my top, it kind of makes me happy. like some boy is interested in me, or at least my body. And even if its obvious that i caught him, which has happened a cpl times, i never say anything or act all upset. I just pretend i didnt notice he was looking. isnt that wierd to think like that?

who have you caught with wandering eyes? Mostly for me, it was just a random boy but nothing i would remember. I did catch a teacher once though...and apparently he's like known for peeking.

Honestly I don't mind. Boys looking up my shirt gives me some thrills lol.

Brooke2001
October 5th, 2016, 11:11 PM
I just get super turned on... Depends who's looking of course ;)

Miss Ophelia
October 13th, 2016, 02:05 PM
Honestly it kind of turns me on. I'm sort of an exhibitionist that way so I enjoy it when people are looking at me.

Especially if its a cute girl looking at your boobs, because you just know she is thinking about them. :lol:

shamrockgirl02
November 12th, 2016, 07:39 PM
Usually I'm flattered and a little turned on when this happens, as long as it's an accident or I cause it intentionally. That's part of why we wear revealing clothes, right, for attention? I've had the occasional nip slip and my guy friends that notice brag and I let them. But it's annoying when it's guys doing shit like dropping pencils over and over to look up my skirt. There's a line

PandaLeah
November 18th, 2016, 01:14 AM
I love it.

Especially if i like the girl that is checking me out. When I was younger I would try to "malfunction" my apparel just to see who would check it out.

angelina
November 20th, 2016, 04:50 AM
I will not be taking too much as you said it happened accidently....just ignore them

Jamy
November 20th, 2016, 06:56 AM
Very often it really turns me on of course when it's an attractive guy and it flatters me cos you know then that somebody thinks you're attractive. I only don't like it when it indeed crosses a line.

kentucky girl
November 22nd, 2016, 09:46 AM
I really don't care if they are looking and like others have said I might even help them out if I am in the right mood if you know what I mean. It is a turn on to me.

Nudistflower
November 26th, 2016, 09:24 AM
In situations like that I almost always give them a better view. I love that so much and like it's a turn on so hey.

LITTLEANGEL19
November 27th, 2016, 01:21 AM
Accidental Exposure is NOT the same as Exhibitionism, That lots of posters here think they are the same thing.

Svetlana2000
November 29th, 2016, 02:28 AM
I really don't care if they are looking and like others have said I might even help them out if I am in the right mood if you know what I mean. It is a turn on to me.

just the same for me. :metal:

Raven111133
December 20th, 2016, 07:28 AM
It actually tends to turn me on for real, I'm 14 with a D cup already so usually boys and the occasional girl will tend to check me out.

Croconaw
December 20th, 2016, 09:14 AM
I'm c

Mina
December 21st, 2016, 01:14 AM
I think it's funny XD. Sooo many diff reactions.

Dyri_14
February 17th, 2017, 07:19 AM
I dont really mind, i am not shy about my body

veroda
February 24th, 2017, 07:08 PM
I was taught to consider it offensive... both that he was watching AND that he actually saw something...

Abby98
March 11th, 2017, 08:16 PM
It really turns me on. I was in Magaluf last summer and there were about 5 really cute boys same age as me staring at me and my mates. Lol

IzzyB
March 19th, 2017, 06:31 AM
I don't mind it, does kinda turn me on. If I notice a boy staring, I try not to let him know I know :P and if I feel like it I just let him keep staring.

ChloeF
March 19th, 2017, 10:30 AM
lt can be a real turn on and most of the time it has that effect, there's a point where it becomes creepy though.

amelia_
March 19th, 2017, 10:37 AM
lt can be a real turn on and most of the time it has that effect, there's a point where it becomes creepy though.

I agree. I think as long as you're careful about who you do it around, its ok.

kalha123
November 29th, 2017, 02:02 AM
I don't really like the thought of receiving that kind of attention.

Dalcourt
November 29th, 2017, 03:48 AM
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