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mattsmith48
January 9th, 2015, 08:14 PM
I played hockey earlier tonight and after the game there was me and 2 other guys left. The 2 other guys were already in the shower when I got in, when I enter the shower I started getting a semi-hard for no reason. I take shower with other guys after sports since I was 14, I never had any attraction to boys and it’s the first time it happened to me so I’m wondering why it happened.
Uranus
January 9th, 2015, 08:20 PM
It's probably just a normal thing. You're 17, guys around your age normally get erections at the most random times. Which would also explain morning wood.
shybi15
January 9th, 2015, 09:05 PM
I play hockey too, and trust me, erections in the showers does happen! No worries.
canadienudist
January 9th, 2015, 09:35 PM
its normal don't read anything into it
mattsmith48
January 9th, 2015, 09:46 PM
why does it happen tho?
CcRoder
January 9th, 2015, 10:33 PM
Testosterone + the oxytocin of a hot shower + the loosened blood flow + hormones that are only active during the most unfortunate times all have played into account.
It's 100% normal, doesn't mean you're attracted to boys, and it's just an unlucky incident.
mattsmith48
January 9th, 2015, 10:39 PM
Anything I can do to prevent this from happening
I play hockey too, and trust me, erections in the showers does happen! No worries.
you ever got one what did you do about it?
Posts merged, next time please use the edit button. ~Hannah
sdude
January 9th, 2015, 11:43 PM
Just turn the water to cold it will go down fast!!, or just enjoy it and if anyone says anything, just tell them they are just jealous of what u have....I've gotten major boners in the shower before, made some real good friends that way!!!lol
jssixna
January 10th, 2015, 12:16 AM
You can think of something disgusting that's a turn off to help your erection vanish! Anyways it's very normal and doesn't mean you are gay.
Tendencies
January 10th, 2015, 01:53 AM
Getting an erection by being around guys doesn't mean that you're attracted to boys. You just see something that your body considers arousing. Or it could have been something completely different.
Omniscient
January 10th, 2015, 04:18 AM
Testosterone + the oxytocin of a hot shower + the loosened blood flow + hormones that are only active during the most unfortunate times all have played into account.
It's 100% normal, doesn't mean you're attracted to boys, and it's just an unlucky incident.
This is probably the best way to explain it without getting a doctor involved^
So yeah, don't worry about it. I've gotten them as well while in a communal shower.
mattsmith48
January 10th, 2015, 10:13 AM
You can think of something disgusting that's a turn off to help your erection vanish! Anyways it's very normal and doesn't mean you are gay.
Im not scared of being gay I know Im not its just that is kinda awkward
SethfromMI
January 10th, 2015, 10:22 AM
happens to lot's of guys, straight, bi, gay, whatever. guy get erections at random times and has some described, there are a lot of things about a locker room/shower which can give you an erection, even if you are not attracted to guys at all. no worries man
mattsmith48
January 10th, 2015, 10:52 AM
happens to lot's of guys, straight, bi, gay, whatever. guy get erections at random times and has some described, there are a lot of things about a locker room/shower which can give you an erection, even if you are not attracted to guys at all. no worries man
im not worrying about being gay or anything i just want to know how to prevent this because its awkward
SethfromMI
January 10th, 2015, 10:54 AM
im not worrying about being gay or anything i just want to know how to prevent this because its awkward
well you can try to think unsexy thoughts, but I got to be honest with you; we do not always get to control when boners are going to happen. I guess one thing you might be able to do to help is try jacking off that morning or sometime before you even go to the locker room to suit up for the game if possible. that can sometimes help. even then, there is no gurantee
Zachary G
January 10th, 2015, 11:02 AM
for me when it happens (not like I really care if it does or not) I usually turn the water on clod first to give my body a shock and that gets rid of my erection immediately, so you might want to try that, but other than that I wouldnt stress it, its normal
mattsmith48
January 10th, 2015, 11:19 AM
well you can try to think unsexy thoughts, but I got to be honest with you; we do not always get to control when boners are going to happen. I guess one thing you might be able to do to help is try jacking off that morning or sometime before you even go to the locker room to suit up for the game if possible. that can sometimes help. even then, there is no gurantee
unsexy thoughts doesnt work I try that yesterday. im playing again today and I dont want to jerk off cuz I know Im having sex later tonight and I want to keep that load for her.
Anything else that could help me you ever got a boner what did you do about it did you try to hide it or something?
SethfromMI
January 10th, 2015, 11:22 AM
unsexy thoughts doesnt work I try that yesterday. im playing again today and I dont want to jerk off cuz I know Im having sex later tonight and I want to keep that load for her.
Anything else that could help me you ever got a boner what did you do about it did you try to hide it or something?
I understand you wanting to keep the load for your gf. trying to hide it will bring more attention to yourself. personally, I do my best to ignore it and realize it is a part of life. I try to think of something nonsexual but realize it is puberty and I know I get boners at different times throughout the day, even when I am not thinking about something sexual at all. it is part of being a guy, your teammates have to deal with the same thing
Sam-9876
January 10th, 2015, 12:26 PM
im not worrying about being gay or anything i just want to know how to prevent this because its awkward
The more you think about it, the more likely it is to happen, so try to forget all about it. Don't try to think specifically unsexy thoughts, just think about something else all together and it'll probably be fine.
Liam TWB
January 10th, 2015, 01:07 PM
There's a good chance it would have happened whether the other guys were there or not. Seems to happen in the heat of the shower, after exercise to a lot of guys, especially if you're rubbing and stimulating all over your body when you wash.
Even if you did get slightly turned on by the situation this one time, it doesn't mean you're gay.
hockeyfan
January 10th, 2015, 01:50 PM
It would b interesting to know when the last time u jacked off before the game was.
benchpress
January 10th, 2015, 05:16 PM
semi is ok. as long as your not fully erect in the showers dont worry about it
Meh Guy
January 10th, 2015, 09:55 PM
Hormones, or you might have been aroused already, for whatever reason and your body responded to the "sexual" nature of the situation you were in.
nklarke
January 10th, 2015, 09:59 PM
I played hockey earlier tonight and after the game there was me and 2 other guys left. The 2 other guys were already in the shower when I got in, when I enter the shower I started getting a semi-hard for no reason. I take shower with other guys after sports since I was 14, I never had any attraction to boys and it’s the first time it happened to me so I’m wondering why it happened.
Did they notice it?
mattsmith48
January 11th, 2015, 01:16 AM
It would b interesting to know when the last time u jacked off before the game was.
I had sex 2 days before that game that was the last time i came before the game didnt jacked off in between.
mattsmith48
January 11th, 2015, 01:22 AM
Did they notice it?
I dont think they notice. It happen again today but this time I was fully hard there was another guy with me in the shower and he notice it
devon14
January 11th, 2015, 03:05 AM
I play hockey too, and trust me, erections in the showers does happen! No worries.
Just turn the water to cold it will go down fast!!, or just enjoy it and if anyone says anything, just tell them they are just jealous of what u have....I've gotten major boners in the shower before, made some real good friends that way!!!lol
Had the same experience in the showers after hockey - can definitely vouch for the cold water reducing everything back down! ;)
SevenRhye
January 11th, 2015, 10:42 AM
In puberty there are spontaneous erections and they're very often.
dsmith1919
January 11th, 2015, 11:35 PM
I played hockey earlier tonight and after the game there was me and 2 other guys left. The 2 other guys were already in the shower when I got in, when I enter the shower I started getting a semi-hard for no reason. I take shower with other guys after sports since I was 14, I never had any attraction to boys and it’s the first time it happened to me so I’m wondering why it happened.
Use to happen to me all the time
Usually I jerk off before to it doesn't happen
When's the last time you jerk off before that?
mattsmith48
January 11th, 2015, 11:36 PM
Use to happen to me all the time
Usually I jerk off before to it doesn't happen
When's the last time you jerk off before that?
I had sex 2 days before that game that was the last time i came before the game didnt jacked off in between.
Wyatt 13
January 12th, 2015, 05:44 PM
Easy I think on my English teacher. LMAO
Dennis98
January 12th, 2015, 05:57 PM
You must get use to sudden and unwanted erections during puberty ... And , don't think that you are BI or Gay , that can happen anywhere .. You can think about Jesus Christ on Cross , but still to get erection- as my friend says xD .. So , don't worry , that's normal part of puberty
dsmith1919
January 12th, 2015, 06:08 PM
I had sex 2 days before that game that was the last time i came before the game didnt jacked off in between.
2 days!!! How can you do that?
mattsmith48
January 12th, 2015, 06:08 PM
Easy I think on my English teacher. LMAO
Too bad mine is pretty hot
2 days!!! How can you do that?
self control
riverboy
January 12th, 2015, 06:42 PM
I get hard or close to it when ever I get nude. My friends are use to it and don't make a big deal out of it. Maybe being slightly cold could have done it. Next time take a really cold shower and then you won't have to worry about it. lol
dsmith1919
January 12th, 2015, 07:00 PM
self control
And your wondering why you got hard. Next time jerk off before that's what I do. Why you didn't jerk off before 2 days is a long time
mattsmith48
January 12th, 2015, 07:27 PM
And your wondering why you got hard. Next time jerk off before that's what I do. Why you didn't jerk off before 2 days is a long time
I took 2 days break before and never got hard in the shower its probably not the reason it happen. I had a date later that night so I didnt jack off cuz I was expecting sex (didnt happen her parents came home early). When it happen again the day after and I was fully hard it was 3 days since last time I came it was probably part of the reason.
dsmith1919
January 12th, 2015, 07:54 PM
I dont think they notice. It happen again today but this time I was fully hard there was another guy with me in the shower and he notice it
What did he said
dsmith1919
January 12th, 2015, 07:58 PM
I took 2 days break before and never got hard in the shower its probably not the reason it happen. I had a date later that night so I didnt jack off cuz I was expecting sex (didnt happen her parents came home early). When it happen again the day after and I was fully hard it was 3 days since last time I came it was probably part of the reason.
I get why you didn't jack off the first time but why you didn't when you got home after your date?
mattsmith48
January 12th, 2015, 07:59 PM
I get why you didn't jack off the first time but why you didn't when you got home after your date?
when plan a second date for the next night and to have sex in her car after
mattsmith48
January 12th, 2015, 08:04 PM
What did he said
I tried to hide it he ask if im ok he saw it ask why i had a boner I told him idk then he ask if I wanted a HJ
DavidNorton
January 13th, 2015, 10:18 PM
That's normal. It happens to me for no reason too
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