Xephinar
January 8th, 2015, 11:45 PM
Let's just say, that a friend of mine, has an obsession with Movies... And, it may, or may not be contributing to these issues.
There has always been some issues with this certain friend, but nothing major, until Monday.
Before the situation
The issues that I have had with her, was that she'd constantly cancel on me. This was because she claimed Movies are my first priority". She would also refuse to hang out with me, the only time she would, was when there was a movie involved. I'd ask "Would you like to come over this weekend?" She's like no, it's ok. She has claimed that if she doesn't go to movie within two weeks, she has movie withdrawals. And, she really does seem to freak out when she can't be at the theater for awhile.
Also, I was told by a friend, that she is controlling her in the kitchen[this is a foods class.), basically saying that certain people can't do things. She has burned people, accidentally of course, but she never seems to know that has happened.
What is happening right now.
She constantly talks about movies. So, my other friend(2)talked to her about this,& said while you can still talk about them, try to talk about something else. She got really offended... If we asked her different questions at school? She'd ignore us. She'd make a remark and say "Stop controlling me! Stop controlling the movies I see.".My friend(2) started crying,& she didn't do anything. She knew she was crying. So, later that day, 2 apologized. Nothing. No response. She still hasn't responded. So I tried talking with her,& she's like "NO! Your controlling me! STOP! STOP! NO! " Were not, we've said that, and she keeps repeating. We've said countless times we are NOT trying to control her, but whenever we bring up the topic , she says the same thing.
I've said sorry, many times. So... I thought she'd be fine if I talked to her. No, she ran away. No joke. She's been running away, whenever we see each other.
Another thing was, is that she says she never lied,& doesn't lie, but during this whole situation? I believe that she is lying,& I don't understand why she'd say
that.
Why's this happening?
There has always been some issues with this certain friend, but nothing major, until Monday.
Before the situation
The issues that I have had with her, was that she'd constantly cancel on me. This was because she claimed Movies are my first priority". She would also refuse to hang out with me, the only time she would, was when there was a movie involved. I'd ask "Would you like to come over this weekend?" She's like no, it's ok. She has claimed that if she doesn't go to movie within two weeks, she has movie withdrawals. And, she really does seem to freak out when she can't be at the theater for awhile.
Also, I was told by a friend, that she is controlling her in the kitchen[this is a foods class.), basically saying that certain people can't do things. She has burned people, accidentally of course, but she never seems to know that has happened.
What is happening right now.
She constantly talks about movies. So, my other friend(2)talked to her about this,& said while you can still talk about them, try to talk about something else. She got really offended... If we asked her different questions at school? She'd ignore us. She'd make a remark and say "Stop controlling me! Stop controlling the movies I see.".My friend(2) started crying,& she didn't do anything. She knew she was crying. So, later that day, 2 apologized. Nothing. No response. She still hasn't responded. So I tried talking with her,& she's like "NO! Your controlling me! STOP! STOP! NO! " Were not, we've said that, and she keeps repeating. We've said countless times we are NOT trying to control her, but whenever we bring up the topic , she says the same thing.
I've said sorry, many times. So... I thought she'd be fine if I talked to her. No, she ran away. No joke. She's been running away, whenever we see each other.
Another thing was, is that she says she never lied,& doesn't lie, but during this whole situation? I believe that she is lying,& I don't understand why she'd say
that.
Why's this happening?