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JonnyH
January 8th, 2015, 01:20 PM
I don't if I put this thread right on this section... Anyway;

Why I feel that I regret having sex with someone? I am really confused.

shewolf
January 8th, 2015, 01:42 PM
Everybody have that feeling in every situation when i made something. Probably is not what you wanted?

Zachary G
January 8th, 2015, 02:56 PM
its pretty common to have those feelings, its like you feel as though you have done something wrong and will be judged for it. as long as no one was hurt and everything was consensual, the there is nothing to be stressed about, eventually the feeling will go away.

Sam-9876
January 8th, 2015, 02:59 PM
Who did you have sex with? Perhaps you feel that it has changed your relationship?

jordanhardy
January 8th, 2015, 06:35 PM
I've had sex with a few people and regretted it afterwards, but there is usually a reason behind it. I don't just get random feelings of regret.

Hermes
January 9th, 2015, 12:29 PM
This is exactly the same as the situation when people masturbate and feel guilty afterwards.

Being horny alters your outlook and something that includes sexual release, whether that be sex with someone else or masturbation, looks increasingly like a good idea the more horny you become and, at some point, you go ahead and do it. As soon as you've cum and are no longer horny it seems strange that you wanted to do that.

How you feel about sex when you are not horny is a matter of your attitude to sex and the attitude you have picked up from those around you. If you are at an age where sex would normally be considered to be underage in your culture, or if sex is really taboo in your family or culture, or you have string religious beleifs that it shouldn't happen outside marriage that can certainly have a bearing on that.

It seems to me two things can happen from here:

1. Carry on and start to embrace sex being a fine thing to do, or
2. Realise that whatever makes you feel guilty is something you want to comply with and switch back to masturbating instead.

Wyatt 13
January 9th, 2015, 03:24 PM
I have done stuff and I know I was not ready for it but I dont feel any regrets

SethfromMI
January 9th, 2015, 05:28 PM
after being done with sexual activities it can create different emotions for people. feeling guilty is actually not an uncommon one. so you are not alone

mattsmith48
January 9th, 2015, 08:30 PM
It happens to every one.
If it was your first time maybe you realize it was with the wrong person or that it wasnt what you expected. alot of things could cause this.

Tendencies
January 10th, 2015, 01:58 AM
I sometimes feel guilty or sad after masturbation so maybe it has something to do with releasing all of that stress and all of that emotion in one given time frame that leaves you with certain emotions for awhile and that could mean being sad for awhile or maybe even really happy for awhile.

hockeyfan
January 10th, 2015, 02:06 PM
U could think that they were a waste if time

They might have been bad in bed.

U could be worried that they r pregnant.

Andy1998
January 10th, 2015, 09:10 PM
Because you lost 10,000 of your friends (sperm). Really I think its kinda the same as when you masturbate, excited until you cum then regret after.

Meh Guy
January 10th, 2015, 09:48 PM
Common feeling, however, we can't tell you because we don't know the situation. Try to think of the things that happened, before and during, or maybe after. You'll probably figure it out.