What am I?

[PatrickStar69]

So I'm just really confused right now. I like girls, but haven't really gone out with one like for real but I'm still interested in them (kinda). Now the porn I look at is like always gay porn, and I seem to fantasize more about boys than girls and usually check boys out instead of girls. I also used to chat with boys on the web and trade pics... but idk if I'm just curious, bi, or gay

HELP

[Serenity]

What am I?

You're a human being. That's what you need to realize first. It is perfectly normal for teenagers to have strange and confusing feelings and attractions, but there is no guarantee that these feelings will last past puberty. Right now with your hormones raging, you can't really rely on your physical attractions to determine your sexuality- the key is the emotional component of your attraction. If you're emotionally attracted to guys, want to have relationships with them, etc. then yes, you might be gay or bi.

I think, though, that you should just focus on tackling school and such and let your body grow and figure itself out before you stick a label on yourself. There's absolutely no reason whatsoever for us to be so obsessed with labeling ourselves, and yet we are. Just wait things out and see what happens. In the meantime, enjoy what childhood you have left and don't stress so much :daisy:

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

For now, we'll call you curious. If you've never had a romantic relationship with either sex, it can be hard to tell how interested you are in either one. It's perfectly normal for a straight guy to look at gay porn or fantasize about guys--its just how your hormones work sometimes, especially during puberty. There's also a possibility you could be bisexual, though I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. To qualify as bi, one must be able to feel emotionally and sexually attracted to members of either sex. So, if you can seriously imagine yourself being in a romantic relationship with a guy or a girl, you could be bi. I say COULD, because it's never good to put a label on these things too soon. You have a long time to figure it out still. There's also a slight chance you could be gay but still slightly interested in girls (even gay guys can have the occasional crush on a girl). Right now it's all pretty open though. Only you can tell for sure, and I encourage you to do some thinking and to allow yourself plenty of time to decide how you feel, but it sounds to me like the most likely answer is curiosity. You're normal, and you can continue to like girls and look at gay porn for as long as it works for you. :)