Hey question

[orchadork]

OK, so this guy at my school we had a class together and I didn't like him at first. He tackled me on my birthday (unknowingly :D ) he then looked horrible the next day when he found out he tackled me on my birthday, and he keeps asking me questions in my favorite fields (cryptids, Philosophy, aliens, Biology, etc.) I know he's gay (told me) and he also told about 3 others. I haven't told him I'm Bi.

I know it's all kinda weird stuff, but does he like me? Should I ask him out?

[gads]

You said that you did not like him at first. So what changed your mind? Anyway, I guess there is no harm asking him out since he is openly gay.

[orchadork]

He's REALLY nice, and has helped me through a tough time. I also sat with him and his marching band friends last year, so that gained him brownie points. OH YEAH! He also really wanted to sit in front of me at the lunch table last year.

[SethfromMI]

well if you are interested in him, maybe get to know him more then ask when you feel the time is right

[maniamsmart]

So you've known him for quite a while. Why not try and tell him that you like him, or ask him if he likes you and see if you can spark something. He obviously seems too shy to ask you out of confront you with his feelings.

[Meh Guy]

Yeah you could always ask since he's gay. Even if he doesn't like you in that way, it wouldn't be as awkward since you know for sure he is gay.

[orchadork]

What you guys have been saying is helpful, but what if he starts to suspect something about my sexuality, I don't want him to know yet, but I also don't want to get disconnected. I have fewer classes with him, and I work on the school newspaper during lunch, so I can't talk to him then. I just don't want to lose him.

[gads]

Well, do you want to get into a relationship with him? If yes, there is definitely no harm telling him that you want to be his boyfriend.

[orchadork]

yes, I do, but is now the right time to tell him? He figured out over the summer that I'm an atheist, and I fear that this might make him confused. (in a sense)

[Bull]

What are you waiting for? Invite him to a movie, or to get a snack after school. Do something. Time, it is not standing still and you are.

[orchadork]

You know what you're right! I'm going to ask him to go see a movie :P

Now there's this issue, what movie :D

Thanks guys :)

[orchadork]

HE SAID YES! WE'RE GOING TO GO SEE EITHER THE INTERVIEW OR THE NEW NIGHT AT THE MUSEUM! (haven't decided) :D :D :D :D :D

[maniamsmart]

HE SAID YES! WE'RE GOING TO GO SEE EITHER THE INTERVIEW OR THE NEW NIGHT AT THE MUSEUM! (haven't decided) :D :D :D :D :D

Great! Glad we could help, let us know how it goes :)

[orchadork]

Great! Glad we could help, let us know how it goes :)

It went great! Before the movie we ate at Panera Bread, then we went to go see the new Night at the Museum (Totaly recomend it). And that was that :D

I didn't tell him I'm Bi, but I will tell him soon :)

[maniamsmart]

It went great! Before the movie we ate at Panera Bread, then we went to go see the new Night at the Museum (Totaly recomend it). And that was that :D

I didn't tell him I'm Bi, but I will tell him soon :)

Awesome, well I hope your connection with him grows, and hopefully you've gotten some confidence from this.

[riverboy]

Great things went well. I think if you become great friends your relationship will develop along with it and you will know what he wants too.

[maniamsmart]

Great things went well. I think if you become great friends your relationship will develop along with it and you will know what he wants too.

That's right, the more you get to know someone, the more you get to know what they want in a relationship or friendship, and the more you can share what you want as well. It's all a growing process.

[orchadork]

Thanks again guys, it was really helpful :P

[DoodleSnap]

Get to know him and understand him. Once you fully understand the situation and his feelings, then I would consider opening up to him about your sexuality (considering he is gay, then he will probably be supportive). If you feel like you want to try a relationship go for it! A relationship takes two, so make sure you understand everyone's feelings. Hope all goes well C: