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Barin
March 31st, 2008, 06:20 PM
OK I REALLY like this girl I was too shy to ask if she liked me. but one day it was blurted out by somebody and she didnt really care:( she already has a boyfriend should I just give up?

Kaleidoscope Eyes
March 31st, 2008, 07:21 PM
Well, if she has a boyfriend, your chances of becoming her boyfriend are pretty slim. That doesn't mean you can't still get to know her though. Try talking to her in class, saying hi when you pass her in the hallway (even stop for a moment to ask how her day's going, if she's not obviously hurrying to get somewhere or hanging all over her boyfriend), be her friend. You might even find out you don't really like her once you get to know her, but you could still become friends.

And, the best part? If you do still like her after getting to know her, well, some day she and that boyfriend of hers are going to break up. When that happens, she'll already know you and think you're a cool guy. Then, once she's over him, maybe you'll have a chance. :)

I think you'll find though, that waiting's no fun. Get to know this girl, but keep your options open; you never know when you might find a girl who's even better.

dudesweet101
March 31st, 2008, 07:48 PM
Just be really nice to her, say really nice things to her when ur talkin to her. Just be your self. Maybe she might still like you.

happytimes
April 2nd, 2008, 01:23 AM
yea if she has a boyfriend you should just give up. you shouldn't have told your friend about your crush either. especially that guy since he/she sounds like a big jerk by blurting out what you trust them to keep a secret for you.