View Full Version : sooo....?
Foamy
January 5th, 2015, 08:52 PM
Alright, so I met a guy who just makes me feel so much better. We began talking, and the feelings were mutual. We've talked about being in a relationship but have had differing opinions about it. At first, I didn't want one but he did. Then, he was unsure when I was warming up to it (and him more). And now, I wake up to a text saying it wasn't gonna happen. He doesn't think that we'd work out. I asked him only two questions: is there a chance and why do you feel like that. The responses were vague. So I ask you: Do you guys think theres a chance for us?
I probably left out a bunch of stuff so I'l fill in what I need to.
Bmble_B
January 5th, 2015, 08:56 PM
I would need a little more background info to ultimately decide. Though there's always a chance, maybe you came off too strong and too fast. Maybe he was warming up to you but it went to fast and he got uncomfortable. Can you say how long exactly you've been talking and how long you've been implying that you've had feelings for him?
Foamy
January 5th, 2015, 09:46 PM
I would need a little more background info to ultimately decide. Though there's always a chance, maybe you came off too strong and too fast. Maybe he was warming up to you but it went to fast and he got uncomfortable. Can you say how long exactly you've been talking and how long you've been implying that you've had feelings for him?
Tbh I felt in the beginning that he was moving too fast. We've been talking since early November-ish, caught feelings pretty soon after. It was a little before thanksgiving when I warmed up to being an item and when he shut the idea down for the time being. My main reason I thought we were going fast was being things were getting a little more intimate.
I think that should cover what you asked for.
gads
January 7th, 2015, 01:00 AM
So have you done anything intimate with him?
maniamsmart
January 7th, 2015, 02:23 PM
If he isn't interested, you shouldn't force it, there could be a chance but not right now. Let the chance come on its own.
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