Purely Sexual

[Leemac1999]

Hey I'm sexualy attracted to girls AND boys but I'm only wanting to be in a relationship with a girl, is that normal?

[Avacon]

I think it's normal that you have your own personal preferences, even if it's slightly different from the norm.

Personally, I'm pretty sure I'm gay (in terms of sexual attraction). The idea of being in a relationship with a guy seems pretty weird though, and the idea of living together seems even more weird...

I'd say it's different (as in not necessarily the usual), but still normal.

[fast8]

Yea it's normal

[JDubs]

Totally normal, I use to be like that, but now I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with a guy. I guess you just change as you get older.

[Pyro99]

yeah, it means ur bisexual but heteroerotic, ur sexually attracted to men and women but emotionally attracted to girls

[jordanhardy]

Yeah it's normal, I'm similar to yourself. I'm attracted to both and have done things with other guys, but can't see myself in a relationship with one. I only look for relationships with girls.

[SethfromMI]

Yeah it's normal, I'm similar to yourself. I'm attracted to both and have done things with other guys, but can't see myself in a relationship with one. I only look for relationships with girls.

I am a lot alike on Jordan on this one. though there are some guys I could see myself being in a relationship right now, I am currently dating a girl (who I am very happy with) and as a whole, would see myself with girls as far as a relationship goes. even for hookups I have been with more girls than boys

[Pablo]

I'm similar to Jordan and Seth too. I can only see myself dating a girl at this point.

[Hermes]

Any combination of sexual and romantic attraction is normal.

Who you feel romantically attracted to, and end up having a relationship with, is much more significant to how you fit in with other people and the community and, obviously, taking an opposite sex romantic partner is the much more common option and the one that gives you the easier ride.

Sexual attraction that is wider than your romantic attraction is probably much more common than people have hitherto thought. I wouldn't worry about it.

[Straya]

Hey I'm sexualy attracted to girls AND boys but I'm only wanting to be in a relationship with a girl, is that normal?

yea its normal its what your preferences are

[mattjh-]

I think that's hormones making you curious, that's absolutely fine! It happens to me as well!

[David_L2]

that's normal, sexually I am much more attracted to girls, but often develop feelings for both guys and girls I am close with

[Joenard]

That's exactly the same as it is with me so I find it normal

[TheRedViper]

Yes, quite normal. When I'm horny I sometimes wanna have sex with a guy, and have even arranged it a few times, but whenever I'm not horny I'm 100% straight.

[Zachary G]

its fairly common for bisexuals to be sexually attracted to one sex while being romantically attracted to another, nothing abnormal about it.

[Bull]

Been there, done that. Absolutely normal as we explore our sexual urges.

[Wafflenado]

Yeah, I mean there is an entire spectrum, so there really isn't an abnormal sexuality. Personally, I'm pretty sure I'm gay, but I'd have sex with a girl if the opportunity presented itself. That doesn't mean I have any sort of urge to have sex with a girl. Let's call it gay but curious lol

[Xxrdgfinestmxxx]

I think ur fine Im in relationship with girl yet I love crossdressing wearing thongs and bras..... Dressing like a slut as I fuck my ass with dildo and I have sucked a guys dick before he then fucked me till he came in me but I hate the idea of making out with a guy or feeling his body I'm just interested in his cock in my mouth and in my ass not even his personality go figure

[Uranus]

You could be bisexual or bi curious.

[BraydenD]

Ive never had feelings for a dude, but ive done stuff with guys and im straight, so yout all good

[hockeyfan]

It makes sense to me.

[DavidNorton]

I think your hormones are kicking in and making you curious

[Josh75]

yeah, it means ur bisexual but heteroerotic, ur sexually attracted to men and women but emotionally attracted to girls

Sorry, but I have to disagree.
The definition of a str8 person is that they can only have a loving, emotional relationship with someone of the opposite sex. If that's the case with him, he's not bi, he just enjoys sex with a guy, not abnormal.

A gay person may be able to have sex with the opposite sex but if they can only have a loving, emotional relationship with someone of the same sex.

A bi person is capable of having this type of deep emotional relationship with either sex.

[Ivorystick]

I feel the exact same dude, don't worry about it

[riverboy]

I think that's hormones making you curious, that's absolutely fine! It happens to me as well!

Same for me.

[athleticteen]

totally

[Luminous]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[Josh75]

Totally. Experimenting is normal, studies have shown that over 84% of all teen boys fool around with another boy once or more, and if they're str8, it's a phase of curiosity they grow out of and go on to live heterosexual lives.

The gay & bi boys are often experimenting too, to find out their sexuality, and many of them may experiment with girls. I did with 4 girls. But I'm totally gay now. The other gay/bi boys either already know what preference they are or will discover it when they're ready. But when they start messing around with boys, they just keep going and going and going, like the Energizer Bunny! Lol!

[ImHotBeans]

Perhaps it's social conditioning to only feel emotional attraction to gals?

[DoodleSnap]

I used to feel this way, but that has changed recently. But try not to let a label define you; choose who you want to be attracted to, and who you want to have a relationship with. As I have said before, being comfortable with yourself is more important than fitting one of society's many labels.

[TheGentleHerbivore]

Could be a hetero-romantic bisexual.

Romantic and sexual orientations are two different things.
And although they're usually the same (hetero-romantic and heterosexual, bi-romantic and bisexual, etc.), they can be different (for instance I am pan-romantic and asexual).

Your romantic orientation seems to be hetero, and your sexual orientation seems to be bi.