What to expect from relationship

[Body odah Man]

So I like this girl and might wanna ask her out some day. Only the thing is: what exactly does a relationship constitute? Is it hanging out with someone you love and enjoying their company? Or is it crazy sex/sex acts only?
Please let me know what to expect

[Zachary G]

a relationship is what you make it out to be, but it is not all about sex. a good relationship is built on mutual respect and feelings for eachother. hanging out and spending time together doing things you both enjoy. it sometimes means that you have to sacrifice for your partner and they for you. but as i said before, its what you make of it, just remember to love and respect eachother.

[churris]

It's what you both want it to be. Enjoying their company seems like a good way to describe it, because you do even in the crazy sex. Anyway, it's not just sex, or she would be a fwb, it's finding out things about that person, good or bad, things you have in common, things you do not. Go out, get air, learn to trust each other, learn more things you'll like about her and learn to accept those you do not.

I think, at first, it'd just be you two hanging out and see if you like each other enough to continue doing that.

[queenofcontrariety]

This is actually a really good question, so props to you for thinking of it. Relationships should not just be physical, yes it is a perk of being in a relationship but it's something which should be explored once you are both comfortable with each other. I mean a lot of it should he talking to someone you really do care about, it's all about give and take. Not relationships are awkward at the beginning, especially if it's your first. Just stay calm through it all and see what happens, you'll have to work actively at it from times but generally it'll feel very natural.

[maniamsmart]

I can't really give you a definite answer. Every relationship is different, and for everyone it is different. For me however, it's a combination of many different things, among the ones you stated. No one is going to judge your relationship, some maybe will, but those with an open mind won't. Relationships are meant to make you happy. Are you happy? Then you're doing it right.

[Body odah Man]

a relationship is what you make it out to be, but it is not all about sex. a good relationship is built on mutual respect and feelings for eachother. hanging out and spending time together doing things you both enjoy. it sometimes means that you have to sacrifice for your partner and they for you. but as i said before, its what you make of it, just remember to love and respect eachother.

This is actually a really good question, so props to you for thinking of it. Relationships should not just be physical, yes it is a perk of being in a relationship but it's something which should be explored once you are both comfortable with each other. I mean a lot of it should he talking to someone you really do care about, it's all about give and take. Not relationships are awkward at the beginning, especially if it's your first. Just stay calm through it all and see what happens, you'll have to work actively at it from times but generally it'll feel very natural.

I can't really give you a definite answer. Every relationship is different, and for everyone it is different. For me however, it's a combination of many different things, among the ones you stated. No one is going to judge your relationship, some maybe will, but those with an open mind won't. Relationships are meant to make you happy. Are you happy? Then you're doing it right.

Thank you all. Your answers reassure me, for all my friends have made relationships sound like they're only about sex sex sex, nothing else. Glad I was mistaken :)

[maniamsmart]

Thank you all. Your answers reassure me, for all my friends have made relationships sound like they're only about sex sex sex, nothing else. Glad I was mistaken :)

You're very welcome, only those still immature and not very knowledgeable about relationships would make sex a deciding factor about a relationship.

[kirbmanboggle]

Well each relationship is different it ranges between puppy love,kisses and hugs,lots of tongue, or lots of sex(and sometimes lots of kinky sex depending on the girl) but don't let it worry you just ride the wave to were it takes you and you'll be fine

[Meh Guy]

Different strokes for different folks. It could be anything from just sitting and being together with the person to some crazy romantic stuff. Honestly, figure out what you both like to do and try to surprise her every now and then, that's a sure fire way to have a good relationship.

[Body odah Man]

Different strokes for different folks. It could be anything from just sitting and being together with the person to some crazy romantic stuff. Honestly, figure out what you both like to do and try to surprise her every now and then, that's a sure fire way to have a good relationship.

The first one sounds really appealing to me :)

[thetransylvanianguy]

It is....something in between. A relationship is constituted out of many things, such as the love, the understanding, the respect between the partners, etc. A true relationship is neither 'hanging out with someone you love and enjoying their company' nor 'crazy sex/sex acts only'.

[Body odah Man]

It is....something in between. A relationship is constituted out of many things, such as the love, the understanding, the respect between the partners, etc. A true relationship is neither 'hanging out with someone you love and enjoying their company' nor 'crazy sex/sex acts only'.

Hmm...not sure how I feel about the sex element.

[thetransylvanianguy]

A relationship does not necessarily include sex. That is up to the partners.

[intrigued]

A good relationship is about trusting each other, being confident with one another and having fun. A relationship is nothing if you can't trust them, you have to be able to confide in them and be able to tell them anything. And of course, sex is important too.

[Body odah Man]

A relationship does not necessarily include sex. That is up to the partners.

Ahhh phew

[Body odah Man]

Any1 else?

[DoodleSnap]

I guess two of the most important things in relationships are honesty and communication. If you have those under your belt, then you guys will know whether you are right for each other. When it comes to actually spending time with the potential partner, it can be whatever you want it to be. There is no set definition for a "healthy relationship", so just hanging out, doing hobbies and things you enjoy together can all be just as valuable as sexual contact. The relationship doesn't have to include sex, or any specific activites - I think it is more important that you trust, respect, and communicate with each other. You will both have to make sacrifices for each other, but that is part of caring.
Anyway, that is my $0.02, so to speak.

[Body odah Man]

I guess two of the most important things in relationships are honesty and communication. If you have those under your belt, then you guys will know whether you are right for each other. When it comes to actually spending time with the potential partner, it can be whatever you want it to be. There is no set definition for a "healthy relationship", so just hanging out, doing hobbies and things you enjoy together can all be just as valuable as sexual contact. The relationship doesn't have to include sex, or any specific activites - I think it is more important that you trust, respect, and communicate with each other. You will both have to make sacrifices for each other, but that is part of caring.
Anyway, that is my $0.02, so to speak.

I hope I'll be able to make those sacrifices. Thanks; I like your 2 cents

[Dutchstranger18]

It`s different for anybody. Honesty, trust and be a part of someone else`s life are some expects of that. And sex if you both want it of course.

[Body odah Man]

It`s different for anybody. Honesty, trust and be a part of someone else`s life are some expects of that. And sex if you both want it of course.

I'd like to be part of a person's life. Marriage, a sweet wife, ahhh.