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James Dean

January 4th, 2015, 05:44 AM

Body odah Man

January 4th, 2015, 06:15 AM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

Cause they either have really messed up babysitters/siblings or they're bullshitting. I didn't get kissed til 15 myself and still a virgin. Nor have I gotten anything close to a blowjob.

Sam-9876

January 4th, 2015, 06:51 AM

Cause they either have really messed up babysitters/siblings or they're bullshitting.

Well said! Loads of guys don't loose their virginity until later, it's about what's right for you - not trying to sound cool to your peers

SethfromMI

January 4th, 2015, 09:13 AM

Don't worry, I'll bet you most of them are lying.

I agree with Jordan. I did not lose my virginity till I was 14. at any rate, waiting for sex is not the end of the world man, don't feel too bad

Pyro99

January 4th, 2015, 09:19 AM

nothing to worry about, im exactly the same as u and im 15 too.

redviper13

January 4th, 2015, 09:45 AM

I had my first kiss at 15 and lost my virginity at 17, there's no rush man :)

joestug2

January 4th, 2015, 11:08 AM

I know what you mean, i have the same issue, but i think the other guys are right, everyone does things differently

riverboy

January 4th, 2015, 11:14 AM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

If you notice these same 12 year olds have dicks that are 10 inches long too. Everyone has said it well. Just relax and let things happen naturally

Pablo

January 4th, 2015, 01:48 PM

Everyone does things differently, but I wouldn't worry at all.

Cognizant

January 4th, 2015, 01:51 PM

Don't worry, I'll bet you most of them are lying.

Yep, that's the security blanket of the internet for you.
I didn't even have my first kiss until I was 16, so your time will come OP.

hockeyfan

January 4th, 2015, 01:51 PM

I'm also a 15 yr old virgin

orchadork

January 4th, 2015, 10:17 PM

You're fine they are most likely BSing their way through :D

slicnick844

January 4th, 2015, 11:11 PM

Its ok im 16 and havent even kissed a girl either its normal.

jssixna

January 5th, 2015, 12:40 AM

I'm a virgin too and I just turned 16. I'm not pressured to have sex nor do I really want it right now :\

Jem310

January 5th, 2015, 01:14 AM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life
Don't worry. I'm the same way and it's not the end of the world. Besides they are probably just saying that for fake pride and confidence.

sdude

January 5th, 2015, 10:40 AM

Yes, I'm SURE they are telling the truth about their 8" cocks, cups of cum, taking an hour to cum while having sex....guys are braggers, no worry dude, the only way I had any sex before 15 was because my cousin showed me how to j/o...and so I got the courage to show a few friends cause I wanted to compare dicks...

Hideous

January 5th, 2015, 11:12 AM

Don't worry about those guys, their sex life is not your business. Worry about what you're going to do. You don't need to have a sex life at your age. Maybe some of them like to lie to look cool or maybe some of them are not and are just bragging as said above.

Txfri1350

January 6th, 2015, 11:40 PM

Most of them are lying... I hope. I had my first kiss last June... dont feel pressured to do anything unless you really feel like it is the right time and with the right person!! :) Hope that helped

TheFSM

January 7th, 2015, 01:54 AM

Hey, don't feel bad dude! I mean, I' ve had my first kiss, but really, that's it. You're not alone.:D
Just be bold, at least then you'll have a chance

SniperKing

January 7th, 2015, 08:14 AM

I'm 16 and in the same boat as you, it's fine...

DavidNorton

January 13th, 2015, 10:34 PM

Don't feel bad. It will come when the time is right.

TalenD

January 13th, 2015, 11:18 PM

Don't worry, I'll bet you most of them are lying.

Yeah I agree with him

Dennis98

January 14th, 2015, 09:24 AM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

And plus , 90% of them has 8"+ dick ... xD .. Some really advanced youth .

Zachary G

January 14th, 2015, 10:08 AM

Live your own life for yourself. No two people are the same. Depending on what area you grew up in, religion, hobbies, etc, you meet people and do things differently. Being a virgin is a good thing so don't feel bad.

Focus on more important things such as your education. You'll be fine buddy. :)

Celt has a few good points here, dont gauge your life by someone elses because everyones life and circumstances are different. You have to live your own life, your way.

andy_910

January 29th, 2015, 12:45 AM

I'm with you buddy. I haven't had much of a sex life either. I can't wait till the day I do though. Its gonna be great!

nick_1999

January 29th, 2015, 12:48 AM

In the same boat as you bro

Meh Guy

January 29th, 2015, 12:08 PM

Most people at that age who are getting stuff like that are special circumstances, if they're even telling the truth. I lost my virginity at 13 and only because all of my friends were really early and sexual right from the start of puberty. Don't worry about losing your virginity or your first kiss or whatever, it'll happen in time, look for the right person :)

SevenRhye

January 29th, 2015, 03:11 PM

I am 14, i never kissed or had a relationship, I never had sex or bj... But I hope, that I'll get gf soon ;)

Dutchstranger18

January 29th, 2015, 04:23 PM

Really normal :) Average age is still like 16 or something so

Catholic Guy

January 29th, 2015, 05:20 PM

Well I was raped so lost it at 11 and I can tell you I wish I had the chance to wait until I was 16 to do anything at all

Ktothep

February 2nd, 2015, 08:21 PM

I wouldn't be too concerned about it if I were you, I didn't get my first blowjob until I was 17, and I lost my virginity like four months later.

Hermes

February 5th, 2015, 09:09 AM

"Keeping up with the Jones's" is a dangerous road whether it is a first like having sex or aquiring material possessions. Ask yourself "If it was not for others bragging about having had sex, would I feel deprived?"

It is my belief that guys don't have a need to have sex for the sake of having sex, with whoever happens to be convenient and prepared to do it. They do have a need to cum but that can be handled by masturbating. At some point we find ourselves with someone and feel a strong desire to have sex with that person in particular. At that point you can consider if your are ready and maybe go for it. Until then there is no hurry. Much better to get a g/f and see if that leads to sex rather than hook up just for sex.

Tyler97

February 5th, 2015, 02:21 PM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

12 is too young, I'm almost 18 I have given and had oral sex, but still a virgin to intercourse. I don't want to get anyone pregnant before I know I love them and can take care of a baby, so in the meantime I'll stick to making out and oral sex.

randyboy

February 5th, 2015, 02:47 PM

Most of them are lying... I hope. I had my first kiss last June... dont feel pressured to do anything unless you really feel like it is the right time and with the right person!! :) Hope that helped

Totally agree it happens when it happens

Ian

singularity678

February 5th, 2015, 07:29 PM

not yet so im with you man,just wait for marriage

mattsmith48

February 5th, 2015, 07:31 PM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

they are either really lucky or lying

NilnocK

February 5th, 2015, 11:12 PM

Its all about meeting girls you get along well with.

boytoynamedtroy

February 9th, 2015, 04:08 AM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin. We're not animals, therefore we shouldn't just have sex with everything that we see. Sames goes with kissing. I salute you for being so honest. BTW, there is nothing wrong with your life. IMO, you're living it the right way.

fast8

February 9th, 2015, 04:19 AM

Most of them lie to get others to think there cool

Snydergate

February 9th, 2015, 02:04 PM

I am 19 and still a virgin, I think that most kids who are 12-14 or so that say they have had sex are liars

Hollywood

February 9th, 2015, 05:07 PM

I was 19 before I had my first kiss or anything else. I can pretty much guarantee you that 75% of those 12 year olds who've said they've gone all the way are lying because they want to look "cool."

In other words, you're fine. I'm not sure what the average age is for losing virginity, but I know you're quite a ways below it.

Josh75

February 22nd, 2015, 10:37 AM

Well I'm NOT lying. My best friend sucked me when we were 7 in 2nd grade. I played doctor with boys from Cub Scouts & other friends from 10-12. Learned to jack @ 12 & sometimes compared with boys @ school in a bathroom stall, sometimes we jacked. Lost my virginity @ 12. Went to a boys' boarding school as a freshman @ 13 & my first roommate pulled his hard dick out during study hall in our room, waved it at me and we had oral. I've had 3 roommates & jacked or had sex with all of them. I have several boys @ school I have regular sex with, and several boys @ home I have sex with. I get all I want.

I'm not shitting you. It's just the way it's been and is for me. No offense but I don't understand how so many boys HAVEN'T kissed or jacked with a boy or had sex by 15, 16. I've always been boy-crazy & maybe I somehow attract boys, I don't know. It just happens.

I don't have an ego about it, I'm not conceited, I don't boast of brag, I just tell the truth. The truth might help someone, not saying anything won't help anyone.

I always want to help people and anything I can do to help anyone I'll do. My experience is my experience & I don't apologize for it.

acerjg17

February 22nd, 2015, 02:17 PM

No worries. I am 16 almost 17 and haven't done anything either

latinoguy

February 25th, 2015, 06:30 PM

It's honestly better to wait because what 12 year old can really enjoy and appreciate a retaliationship? No worries!(:

Seth Green

February 25th, 2015, 06:41 PM

I'm sort of in the same boat there. And there's a lot of posts about how it's fine to be a virgin at this age which is totally true but it doesn't change the fact that I still kinda totally really want to have sex...

boytoynamedtroy

February 26th, 2015, 01:28 AM

Heyman

February 26th, 2015, 09:48 AM

Don't worry what other people say, just let it happen when it happens and don't feel pressured into doing anything!

acerjg17

March 2nd, 2015, 07:18 PM

Hey do not fret. I am sixteen and have done nothing as well.

Skaterdude1998

March 3rd, 2015, 12:07 AM

Being 15 and a virgin is awesome. Sex is awesome but a lot of responsibility man. Besides your first time should be with someone Special and just as awkward and terrible as your going to be at it.

CRH99

March 4th, 2015, 10:56 PM

1st kiss at 15. still waiting, still 15

vboy

March 5th, 2015, 08:17 PM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

Im 17 a virgin and never kissed in ma life

matt_tgr

March 6th, 2015, 11:19 AM

If that makes u feel better, I'm 17 and still haven't even kissed anyone :D

PinkFloyd

March 6th, 2015, 01:44 PM

Odds are, most of them are lying. It's not good to rush things like that anyways..

Catholic Guy

March 6th, 2015, 03:01 PM

Well I was raped at 11 so I wish I hadn't lost it but my friends brother is 15 and since he was 14 has slept with 5 different girls, more than once (he kind of goes between them all) and it pisses me off because I want his life -_-

basketball33

March 6th, 2015, 04:11 PM

I'm 14 and haven't done anything as well. Don't worry about it man

jdude37

March 8th, 2015, 02:11 AM

i agree with this

The captain

March 8th, 2015, 02:17 AM

still virgin too and really I guess that even each people are different, when you're 12, 13 or 14 had sex isn't the best way.

colesixteen

March 15th, 2015, 06:55 AM

Don't try to compare yourself with other guys, and don't rush things. Let things happen naturally. You will be a lot happier that way, and kissing and sex, etc. will be better if you wait until it is right for you.

Dortmund

March 15th, 2015, 07:21 AM

There's no real need to worry about it. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 18. Can't say I care cause now I'm having regular sex all the time.

Abhorrence

March 15th, 2015, 07:41 AM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

I very much doubt any 12 year olds actually have. I didn't even know what sex was when I was 12.

Noody

March 15th, 2015, 06:07 PM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

Hop on the bandwagon mate - I'll bet you that most of those 12 year olds are lying. Saying that, I had played around with a friend or two when I was around that age - But I was never really 100% sure on my sexuality. Guess it's just a process of learning..

As for not having any action at your age.. Well.. You're 15! You have years and years ahead of you for all that stuff, as do I!

At the risk of being a hypocrite, It's probably a good idea to focus on study for the next year or two, then when you've finished (and done well in) your GCSE's, go wild!

Have fun :)

Sammerz

April 17th, 2015, 02:12 PM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

I'm pretty sure a most of them are lying. or worse they were molested or something. i'm 16 and I'm still a virgin. i don't want to be any more but so far I still am.

Vermilion

April 17th, 2015, 02:18 PM

I'm pretty sure a most of them are lying. or worse they were molested or something. i'm 16 and I'm still a virgin. i don't want to be any more but so far I still am.

I'm 17 going on 18 and I know how you feel. At first I want it to lose it in a romantic relationship, now I'd just couldn't care less really as long as it's someone I like.

Sammerz

April 17th, 2015, 02:21 PM

I'm 17 going on 18 and I know how you feel. At first I want it to lose it in a romantic relationship, now I'd just couldn't care less really as long as it's someone I like.

I want it to be romantic. I want it to be meaningful with someone I care about. hopefully love. But the hormones are raging too. lol

acerjg17

April 17th, 2015, 03:05 PM

No worries Im 17 and havent done anything

teenpeck52

April 30th, 2015, 01:57 PM

I have a girl friend right now, and we haven't done much of a seal nature yet, I am a virgin and the only thing I have done is jo with my friends

Rania

April 30th, 2015, 04:07 PM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life
Everything comes naturally.

LonelyWorld

May 1st, 2015, 03:29 AM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

Amen... Like everyone said, They may be lying, I haven't had my first kiss, and yeah.

Rania

May 1st, 2015, 03:57 AM

I'm a virgin too and I just turned 16. I'm not pressured to have sex nor do I really want it right now :\

Everything comes naturally.

Andyyy95

May 1st, 2015, 07:13 PM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life
Dude, I'm the exact same, except I'm 19 lol #whatismylife

jacshamy

May 2nd, 2015, 08:40 AM

I don't understand how guys at like 12 have had sex,gotten blow jobs,or kissed by other guys before. Im 15 and Im a virgin and haven't even been kissed yet.what is my life

Doesn't make sense to me, but I think sometimes it happens. I hope it isn't because they're being molested or some shit.

MTB1997

May 5th, 2015, 08:47 PM

I just turned 18 and im in the same boat as you...... :cry2:

Snydergate

May 7th, 2015, 11:25 PM

Bro, I just turned 20 and the only thing I have ever gotten was a BJ, and that was just two months ago for the first time, be patient dude, it will come when it comes

Coleton

May 26th, 2015, 03:50 PM

It's completely different for everybody. I am 18.5 years old and I have never done anything with a girl besides kiss and make out. I've kissed, made out, jacked off with and given/received a blow job from one of my friends.

Dreamer98

May 26th, 2015, 03:53 PM

Hahahahahahahhaha :D
Tell me about that ... I'm 17 and I still have never had GF in my life , and you're talking about sex life . :D :D :D

Bluebyrd

May 29th, 2015, 07:43 PM

You're life is normal. No twelve year old has done anything of that sort.

sysrq

May 30th, 2015, 08:17 AM

Everything depends on particular circumstances and everyone has different ones.
Many would have experimented earlier in life but as our society still have some medieval hypocritical thinking about sexuality then many are afraid to initiate something.

There are a lot of people who haven't had any physical affection (babies can die or can develop disorders without human touch) in their 20's and 30's, so it's better to start sooner in some way, cause most of the time after the age of 25 sex drive starts to decline and ageing kicks in, and you will not have that much energy for it, after that only ''real love'' may compensate it. It's really hard to balance out everything in life.

We might be living in a holographic quantum universe anyway (due to wave particle duality and Heisenberg's uncertainty principle), so the only option is to ''enjoy'' whatever life throws at you.

Pareta3mou

June 21st, 2015, 03:11 PM

not having a sex live in your 15 is pretty natural imho and yeah most of these guys lie about their sexual lives and their pennis size. also don't pay attention to everyone's sex life its not your bussiness....