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Aidoon123
January 3rd, 2015, 06:02 PM
Hey guys, I have been away from here for months now and I am glad to be back :) Now, I have a question to put before you, to see if anyone can help with this/or has had something similar happen.

So anyway, I am just going to mention that I am gay, and that the person involved knows I am gay.

A while back my friend and I were talking on Facebook, and we were kinda playing ''what would you do if'' where you put a hypothetical question before a person to see what they would do, and also a version of ''tell the truth''. During this we got onto the whole idea of me and him doing stuff, and he kept asking stuff like ''if I were to ask for a BJ would you give me one'' and many more questions in that are of ''would you do this if I asked'' so anyway, we had about three of those types of conversations within weeks of eachother, where he kinda admitted he would under circumstance.

Anyway, more recently he's been very open about asking me these things, like if we're hanging out with friends, he'll come over, sit next to me and ask ''if I were to ask you for a BJ would you give me one'' or ''would you let me f*** you if I asked''. I think this is a fair point to mention he has a girlfriend, who he's been with for several months now.

Also (this is very recently, and frequently enough) when we are out, and I am not with anyone, he will run over to me and put his arm on me and maybe start feeling my back and rubbing it up and down, touch my butt and tonight he even rubbed my... you know what... over my pants (while we were walking behind the others). Even when he is walking with his girlfriend he'll pull me over and link arms so the three of us are walking together. Whenever we talk he will always keep direct eye contact with me and just smile at me.

I could be taking all of this wrong, but I am really into him and I just kinda get the vibe he sometimes would want to do stuff. I don't know... what do you think? Thanks guys!

Pablo
January 3rd, 2015, 07:35 PM
I think he does have a thing for you. I would just keep hanging out with him and see where it goes.

Foamy
January 3rd, 2015, 11:00 PM
He seems extremely curious at the very least. I would see if it develops into anything else, but just be aware of his girlfriend. If it does develop into anything more, be it fooling around or mutual feeling for each other, the girlfriend is a big problem.

ImagineRepublicCity
January 4th, 2015, 01:32 AM
Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow: Relationships and Dating

I think it fits better here :)

churris
January 4th, 2015, 10:59 AM
He seems like he wants to experiment, to the very least. I wouldn't do anything with him while he has a girlfriend though, because for me it'd be cheating on his part, and someone could end up hurt. But at the end it's up to you.

Aidoon123
January 6th, 2015, 03:44 PM
Thanks for all the opinions and advice everyone, if anyone else has more to add to possibly give clarity, please do.

gads
January 6th, 2015, 05:00 PM
So have you done anything with him yet?

fast8
January 6th, 2015, 05:05 PM
Yea keep talking to him seems like he likes you a lot you will figure it out

jordanhardy
January 6th, 2015, 05:08 PM
It sounds like he does like you

orchadork
January 6th, 2015, 05:18 PM
It seems like he's curious, I would wait a little longer to see what happens

maniamsmart
January 7th, 2015, 02:09 PM
As everyone already stated (otherwise I'd make a longer post), he seems curious and you should just talk to him more. Good luck!

Aidoon123
January 9th, 2015, 04:53 PM
Hey everyone, thank you for all the advice that has been given. I don't plan on trying anything at all while he is in a relationship, I am not that person. If anyone has anything else to add feel free, I am open to any opinions and suggestions because they will give me a better view on the situation.