Sexual Sleepover Worries

[wasaby]

Hi guys,

So ive been invited to a sleepover at one of my mates houses and there will be about six of us there. The other day he told me that they will be doing so 'fun' experimenting. Im a bit worried about where this might go so I was wondering if any of you had come across something like this before and how u dealt with it. Could u also answer the questions below?? Thanks.

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before??
How many people were there??
How old were u/they??
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn)
Did u feel comfortable??
Were u naked??

[Lost in the Echo]

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[Arsenalfan123]

I have never done that and wouldn't want too.
If you dont feel comfortable then don't do it.

[NickC]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? yes a few times
How many people were there?? about 10 or 15
How old were u/they?? many people, most were 16 years old, but there were like 8 people who were 17 years old and 4 people who were 18 years old
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) hj, bj, touching, porn, anal
Did u feel comfortable?? yes
Were u naked?? yes, we all were

[jordanhardy]

Without going into too much detail, yes I've experimented whilst at a sleepover. It wasn't planned and just sort of happened.

If your friends start doing things that your not comfortable with, then tell them. Don't allow anybody to force you to do things your not happy with. If your okay with it, then join in, it's great fun.

[Meh Guy]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before??yes
How many people were there??about 3 including me
How old were u/they??all 15
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn)jerked to porn together
Did u feel comfortable??very
Were u naked??yes

It seems pretty common. You just gotta let them know when you feel uncomfortable. Remember it's your choice and if he is your friend then he'll respect that.

[TalenD]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? Yes
How many people were there?? 2
How old were u/they?? My age which was 12 back then
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn)
Did u feel comfortable?? Yeah i guess
Were u naked?? No

[Omniscient]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? Not exactly experimenting, but sexual stuff
How many people were there?? Just me and my friend
How old were u/they?? I was 16, he was 17
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) Handjob, oral, making out, and cuddling
Did u feel comfortable?? For the most part, there were some awkward moments though
Were u naked?? Nope

Don't stress about it too much. Just enjoy yourself :)

[Canadian Dream]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? Yes
How many people were there?? 5
How old were u/they?? Same age (15)
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) Hj, Bj
Did u feel comfortable?? Yes
Were u naked?? yes

Basically if he's serious about it and you aren't feeling comfortable maybe go in another room for a bit. That's the only thing I can think of, for me usually these things happen without planning.

[Sam-9876]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? Twice
How many people were there?? 3 / 4
How old were u/they?? First time we were like 14, second time 16
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) First time was porn and showing (we all tried to put a condom on). Second time was showing, then touching and HJ with one friend only.
Did u feel comfortable?? I wasn't UNcomfortable - more nervous I guess
Were u naked?? No, we only dropped our pants

Think most guys will do it at some point, even if they pretend otherwise when they're older or with other people. If you don't want to try anything then just don't try it - they're not going to force you.

[Zachary G]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? YES
How many people were there?? 4 including myself
How old were u/they?? 11-13
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) HJ/ BJ
Did u feel comfortable?? YES
Were u naked?? Some of us were, some were just in boxers

[showoffboy]

Here are my answers:

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? yes
How many people were there?? has varied from just me and one other guy to six of us
How old were u/they?? same age as me
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) have done all of these at some point
Did u feel comfortable?? yes - it is common, so no need to feel uncomfortable
Were u naked?? has varied from wearing pjs to underwear to undressing

[Pablo]

Have never experimented at a sleepover before.

[poiuytrewq]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? Yes
How many people were there?? Just 2
How old were u/they?? I was 13 he was 12
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) HJ & BJ
Did u feel comfortable?? Yes
Were u naked?? Just boxers

DON'T GO THROUGH WITH ANYTHING YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH!!!

[dario]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? YES
How many people were there?? ME AND MY FRIEND
How old were u/they?? I WAS 14, HE WAS 13
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) HJ, BJ, TOUCHING AND WATCHING PORN
Did u feel comfortable?? YES
Were u naked?? YES

[sdude]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before?? YES
How many people were there?? ME AND MY COUSIN
How old were u/they?? I WAS 12, HE WAS 11
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) HJ, TOUCHING AND WATCHING PORN
Did u feel comfortable?? Nervous
Were u naked?? BOXERS

[The captain]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before??...yep
How many people were there??....3
How old were u/they??,,around 15
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn)...just jerk sane room
Did u feel comfortable??..yeah
Were u naked??...half

[slicnick844]

Never done this before but willing to try.

[hockeyfan]

I don't understand how hearing about wat fun experimenting others have done will help u.

Here is my advice. If u want to experiment then go. If not, stay home.

[jssixna]

If you don't want to go then make a excuse like saying your busy or doing something else. Kind of surprising your friend would tell you that too. Anyways be prepared for what might happen. It might be just flashing or as far as an orgy. Sorry if that's gross.

[mattjh-]

Have u done experimenting at a sleepover before??Yes
How many people were there??2 including me usually, but 4 at most.
How old were u/they??15
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn)watching porn and hj
Did u feel comfortable??yes
Were u naked??yes

[Joenard]

As to how to deal with it just see how it goes, if you feel uncomfortable at any point then just stop.

How many people were there?? me and my friend
How old were u/they?? we were 15
What did u do?? (Hj, bj, anal, touchinh, porn) hj
Did u feel comfortable?? yeah, he's one of my best friends
Were u naked?? yerp

[riverboy]

Maybe you should have your friend explain what he meant

[DavidNorton]

I personally wouldn't go