Friends with benefits?

[RookieFox]

Hello everyone! I am 18 yo and I've met a girl I've been dating when I was 14-15. I asked her to go out with only one reason: I was curious about her life. I'd like to note that we didn't have sex but I saw her naked, though she asked me not to do it because she wasn't yet prepared. I've met her at the caffee on 30th of December and we just talked. We've been talking for more than 4 hours and after 2 she has began to showing "signs" for me to act. I didn't want to. When I got with her at home, she kissed me and I didn't resist. Then we talked a bit but with a different manner... At the end we agreed to meet at my house after New Year. Yesterday, I lost my virginity with her. I will probably never meet her again because we live in different countries and we both didn't touch the "relationship" theme. Now, I am wondering, was it OK to do that? I expected my first time would be with my girlfriend...
What do you think about that? Did you have sex with your friends before? What do you think about it? (Please leave your age and gender)

[SethfromMI]

as long as both of you are ok with it than I see no big deal. when I wasn't dating, I had some friends with benefits.

[lilg]

I don't see any problem at all with that. but you said something about a gf? do you have a gf right now or do you mean just in general?

[RookieFox]

I mean in general :)

[lilg]

Then as long as you were single and not cheating on anyone there's nothing wrong with having fun!

[DeadPoteto]

I don't see a problem ... As long as you two are both happy about it :)

[Zachary G]

14 M --
I dont see anything wrong with what happened, as long as it was consensual and you both enjoyed yourself. Friends with benefits only works when both partys agree thats the type of relationship they want, I have a few friends with bens and it works for us.

[maniamsmart]

This isn't really a question of whether it was ok, but more of a question if you feel ok with it. In my personal opinion, I'd say it wasn't that great of an idea, because it's much better and much more meaningful to lose your virginity to the person you love. That's just what I think though, and what I follow. A lot of people follow this too, but others don't. So this is really an issue of preference. Do you feel ok with it? She seemed to seem ok with it because she already gave you signs and was the first to act.

[Pablo]

I have a friend with benefits and it's no big deal at all.

[DDAx]

This isn't really a question of whether it was ok, but more of a question if you feel ok with it. In my personal opinion, I'd say it wasn't that great of an idea, because it's much better and much more meaningful to lose your virginity to the person you love. That's just what I think though, and what I follow. A lot of people follow this too, but others don't. So this is really an issue of preference. Do you feel ok with it? She seemed to seem ok with it because she already gave you signs and was the first to act.

Woo! Personally. I also agree with this cool dude^ who's got riven as his icon which is snazzy.

Anyway, there's really 2 sides to this. I guess there's the short term impact on this like: 'woo look, I'm no longer a verge' which in essence is cool because.. Well, yeah. As long as you both consented and both enjoyed yourselves! ;D
But then there's the long term.. Since you said, 'I may never meet her again', losing it to her in the heat of the moment may be something you regret in later life.. So yeah.

If you both enjoyed and you're pretty happy.. Then stick with it.
I'm sure everything will be just fine! Just take care with your feelings because sexual fun can mean a lot to some people and little to others. :)

[David_L2]

do not see anything wrong with it personally if everyone is willing

[RookieFox]

Thank you guys for your suport!

[Rallo]

Nothing wrong with that, as long as you were both okay with it!
If you're happy, and she's happy, what's the problem?

[maniamsmart]

Thank you guys for your suport!

You're welcome, hope you were able to make your mind up about it.