Revenge on ex boyfriend?

[emilysmith78]

Me and my bestfriend recently found out that my ex boyfriend likes my other bestfriend. The three of us decided it woukd be fun to get revenge on him that way so my bestfriend started texting him and he admitted that he likes her. Shes pretending to like him back and shes trying to make him come down to where she lives. Once he comes me and my other bestfriend are going to suprise him, but i dont really kniw what to do to get revenge on him? Its all a plan that we made up. Please help me haha

[conniption]

I honestly see no real point to this whole plan. You're broken up, he's moved on, your best friend doesn't like him back, so what's with all vindictiveness?

[Karkat]

Yeeeeeah, this seems like a really pointless plan imo. :/

[Uranus]

Not tryna be rude and unhelpful, but I agree with Mami Reina, and Karkat. You're broken up with, and there's really no point for this at all.

[Meh Guy]

Yeah... Just let him be, there's no point to all of this.

[Dortmund]

Not quite sure there's any need for 'revenge'. You both aren't together anymore and he's moved on.

If your friend doesn't like him back she merely needs to say that rather than come up with a childish revenge scheme.

[emilysmith78]

you guys dont understand.. he cheated on me when we were together and i honestly wont let him get away with it

[queenofcontrariety]

Wait wait wait... you were cheated on and think surprising your ex is a good idea? I've been cheated on, this sounds absolutely pointless, there is no need to be spiteful. Everyone gets what they deserve in the end. Plots like this never work out and playing with someone else's emotions (even of they hurt you) is childish. Learning to let things go is a big part of growing up and I highly recommend you learn how to do that.

[JoeDangit]

Don't be a psycho ex girlfriend.

Don't be that girlfriend.

Just let it go.

[thatcountrykid]

ok so say you do something bad to him and he presses charges? whatcha gonna do?

do be that person

[Straya]

so what if he cheated on your broken up just sort yourself out and move on. getting revenge just proves to him how childish you are and how having the relationship end was better for him

[maniamsmart]

I am sorry. I don't give advice for plans that are meant to hurt. As much as I can understand your philosophy behind the plan, because he cheated, that isn't making you the better person. Neither is this making any real progress. All this does is show that you're mad and jealous, which is what he wants. Real revenge is happiness. Go find someone to be happy with and make that person message him. That would actually prove something and be a bit more sensical in revenge.

[Leprous]

Me and my bestfriend recently found out that my ex boyfriend likes my other bestfriend. The three of us decided it woukd be fun to get revenge on him that way so my bestfriend started texting him and he admitted that he likes her. Shes pretending to like him back and shes trying to make him come down to where she lives. Once he comes me and my other bestfriend are going to suprise him, but i dont really kniw what to do to get revenge on him? Its all a plan that we made up. Please help me haha

Don't. Seriously don't. Taking revenge will make things very bad. I suggest leaving him alone. Don't be like my ex. I didn't cheat on her but she said some things I'd rather not talk about.

Seriously don't take revenge on him.

[DeadPoteto]

Don't take revenge. It always end in tears.

[Starsong]

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But really, you're not accomplishing anything by doing this. It sounds like you're bitter and you kinda need to move on without trying to hurt your ex. Like you don't really get that much out of hurting him for cheating, let karma deal with bad people. You should focus on your own life~

[SethfromMI]

your plan sounds like it may end up as something criminal. do you really want to go to jail just to get revenge?

[Bull]

Get over it. Put it behind you and move on to more productive endeavors.

[Body odah Man]

This will never work:
You have no plan
The revenge method is infantile (pretended affection? rlly?)

Therefore I'd advise just letting it go