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Leprous
December 31st, 2014, 12:10 PM
So my neighbour has divorced parents, one week he's living next to me the other one he isn't.
This piece of shit is at my house all the time and I'm getting tired of it. He's breaking all my stuff, my parents are way more strict when he's around and whenever he wants to play on the computer with me I can't even play whatever the hell I want because my parents want us to 'play a game together'.

Now this doesn't seem bad but concider the fact that today he's been here for 5 hours and he's still here. Every day, atleast 5 hours, and after that my parents are still pissed at me.

I have no idea what to do anymore.

NeuroTiger
December 31st, 2014, 12:24 PM
How old is he?

Leprous
December 31st, 2014, 02:02 PM
How old is he?

He's 12 and acting like my house is his.

NeuroTiger
December 31st, 2014, 05:57 PM
He's 12 and acting like my house is his.

And do you know about his likes?

SethfromMI
December 31st, 2014, 06:28 PM
I take it your parents force you to spend time with him?

Leprous
January 1st, 2015, 02:05 AM
I take it your parents force you to spend time with him?

Yes they do. He'll be going to his father's place in a couple of days so I'll be fine then, but not for long.

And do you know about his likes?

Depends what you mean. (Sorry about the double post, if a mod sees this can they fix it please, can't multiquote on my phone.

NeuroTiger
January 1st, 2015, 09:26 AM
Depends what you mean. (Sorry about the double post, if a mod sees this can they fix it please, can't multiquote on my phone.

I mean...games which he likes or stuffs he likes to do in particular.

SethfromMI
January 1st, 2015, 09:52 AM
Yes they do. He'll be going to his father's place in a couple of days so I'll be fine then, but not for long.

have you tried explaining the situation to your parents? do they realize the grief he is putting you through ?

Leprous
January 1st, 2015, 10:18 AM
I mean...games which he likes or stuffs he likes to do in particular.

Gta 5, gta 5, gta 5, I'm literally tired of that game.

have you tried explaining the situation to your parents? do they realize the grief he is putting you through ?

I have, but they don't listen to me.

SethfromMI
January 1st, 2015, 10:34 AM
I have, but they don't listen to me.

bummer man. have you tried talking to one of the kid's parents? the only thing I can think of beyond that is hide/lock up your valuable stuff before he comes over if that is a possibility. other than that as sad as it may be, you just may be in a situation in which you are stuck in for the time being

Leprous
January 1st, 2015, 10:43 AM
bummer man. have you tried talking to one of the kid's parents? the only thing I can think of beyond that is hide/lock up your valuable stuff before he comes over if that is a possibility. other than that as sad as it may be, you just may be in a situation in which you are stuck in for the time being

There is another problem. His mom's my therapist.

SethfromMI
January 1st, 2015, 10:44 AM
There is another problem. His mom's my therapist.

well legally that should not matter. whatever you say in that office with her is supposed to stay there. if you think that obligates you to play with her son, than maybe you need a new counselor to go to

Leprous
January 1st, 2015, 11:39 AM
well legally that should not matter. whatever you say in that office with her is supposed to stay there. if you think that obligates you to play with her son, than maybe you need a new counselor to go to

Didn't go to her in a while and it's at her home. He doesn't know I went to her. Also, his sister. Great girl, also thinking her brother is slightly very annoying. Buuut I barely see her

SethfromMI
January 1st, 2015, 12:30 PM
Didn't go to her in a while and it's at her home. He doesn't know I went to her. Also, his sister. Great girl, also thinking her brother is slightly very annoying. Buuut I barely see her

well have you talked to her about it? or the father?

JoeDangit
January 1st, 2015, 02:17 PM
Just bail out of your house through the back when he comes through the front.

Problem solved.

Leprous
January 1st, 2015, 02:46 PM
well have you talked to her about it? or the father?

I haven't. It's harder than you think.

Gta 5, gta 5, gta 5, I'm literally tired of that game.

Well...if he is so obsessed with GTA5, you can make some deal with him ;)
Like telling him to play your favourite game with you for an hour in exchange for an hour of GTA5. Some stuffs like that.

Double posts merged, next time please use the multiquote button. ~Hannah

Leprous
January 2nd, 2015, 02:28 AM
Well...if he is so obsessed with GTA5, you can make some deal with him ;)
Like telling him to play your favourite game with you for an hour in exchange for an hour of GTA5. Some stuffs like that.

Yeah I tried but the problem is that my parents want me to play together with him. Which I can't with League.

SethfromMI
January 2nd, 2015, 08:42 AM
I haven't. It's harder than you think.

well you got to try something

Leprous
January 2nd, 2015, 09:05 AM
well you got to try something

Yeah....problem is it's not that easy you know.

SethfromMI
January 2nd, 2015, 09:09 AM
Yeah....problem is it's not that easy you know.
well I know it is not easy, but you got to try talking to the kids parents. otherwise, if you are not willing to do anything, you are going to just have to accept things are the way they are for right now

Leprous
January 2nd, 2015, 02:07 PM
well I know it is not easy, but you got to try talking to the kids parents. otherwise, if you are not willing to do anything, you are going to just have to accept things are the way they are for right now

I know, I'll try my best, thanks man.

SethfromMI
January 2nd, 2015, 02:15 PM
I know, I'll try my best, thanks man.

no problem, best of luck to you . I know it is not easy

Leprous
January 4th, 2015, 12:26 PM
Little update on the matter.

He's acting like my house is his. He always asks me about my parents, where they're going, or why they are even going upstairs, etc. Up to the point that when he's in the kitchen he randomly walks to the living room, and just stares at my mom for no reason.

I'm getting so fucking tired of this shit.

gads
January 7th, 2015, 02:11 AM
Wow, he seems crazy. I hope you manage to find a solution soon.