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[xyloto]

So I was watching porn-- and I went to the "webcam" category, which has videos of guys and girls, and saw a face that I thought was familiar... I clicked on it, and sure enough, it was one of my friends. Just by the looks I was 99 percent positive it was him, then I looked at the face closely, and he has the [I]exact[I] same mole in the exact same spot... So I was 100 percent sure it was him.

Then the video kept playing, and he started doing gay stuff (like fingering his butt and licking it) along with what you would expect--- I was pretty surprised because he's the last person you'd expect to do that... What should I do about? Should I tell him? Should I not? I'm just really in shock right now...

**I'm not gay, so I wasn't there for the guys--- all of the videos are mixed.***

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[SethfromMI]

so you are going to tell him you were looking at gay videos and found him? I mean, what it is fine. I am bi so I like guys. I am just saying, if you were there in the first place, then why are you making a big deal out of it. to be honest, I would not say anything, unless you don't care that he knows. it might make him feel embarrassed though. I would leave it be

[Sam-9876]

Enjoy watching the cam by all means, but he'd probably be really embarrassed if he knew his friends were watching. The internet gives an anonymity that some folks need to explore their sexuality - perhaps the reason he's exploring it online is because he's not confident to do it with real friends?

Just because he's experimenting doesn't mean he's gay btw - I know married older guys whose wives stick a finger up their arse!

[xyloto]

@SethfromMI

I wasn't looking for the guys-- it's all mixed. I'm not making a big deal about it, haha, I'm just shocked and was wondering if I should just forget about it or do something, idek.

[SethfromMI]

as I and Sam have suggested, I would just keep it to yourself. no point in possibly worrying him or something like that.

[Whight]

I'd probably try and think of a way that won't really embarrass him nor you, but will let him know. Maybe even an anonymous tip. Poor guy should probably be aware his video got leaked and is online like that.
I mean, I assume it got leaked, dont really know how those things work, but most of them seem like skype chats that someone got somehow and uploaded without the consent of whoevers on it.

[Meh Guy]

Yeah, unless you have some desire to be with him or something, I'd suggest you just pretend you never saw that.

[Tony_777]

Mmmm.. It's makes me think..
I you tell him, he might freakout.
I you don't tell him, then everything goes on
BUT if someone else see the video and make fun of him or tell his family, then well..

Maybe It's better to tell him.. Maybe he put it on the internet, and if not and he's a minor, then the parents are able to ask the people to take the video out, but wow, this will be painful :S

[lilg]

I'd tell him, maybe anonymously like someone else suggested. Maybe he wants it out there maybe he doesn't. But don't be like OMG I SAW YOU DOING THIS STUFF! Just be like hey thought you should know...

[Tony_777]

I'd tell him, maybe anonymously like someone else suggested. Maybe he wants it out there maybe he doesn't. But don't be like OMG I SAW YOU DOING THIS STUFF! Just be like hey thought you should know...

I do agree with you in the part of telling him nicely, but anonymously? Isn't that going to be scary if you get a message like "Someone wrote: I saw your video"

I think it could be freaky don't you think?

[lilg]

I do agree with you in the part of telling him nicely, but anonymously? Isn't that going to be scary if you get a message like "Someone wrote: I saw your video"

I think it could be freaky don't you think?

Yeah that's probably true but if you don't want him to know you saw it... I dunno. Plus it'd probably drive the guy nuts always wondering who it was.

[hockeyfan]

I would talk to him In a joking way about. Do not act like u disapprove or it could cost u a friend.

[James Dean]

Just don't worry about it, that is his business and even if you were to ask him what would you gain? If you're bothered by it, just let it go. It's his life and his decisions. It's okay. :)

[Tony_777]

Yeah that's probably true but if you don't want him to know you saw it... I dunno. Plus it'd probably drive the guy nuts always wondering who it was.

They are friends after all. So it could be like from friend to friend talk, being honest, and careful.

I wonder what happened to the op

[agfc99]

I know that I'd be mortified if a video of me started to circulate online. The sooner he knows about it, the sooner he can try to get it removed too many times.
If he's posted it himself then he knows you're at least looking out for him.

[nrob1993]

I did a vid for my g/f one time including the orgasm but without my face...I guess if I ever saw it online it wouldn't be a big deal

[Zachary G]

I wouldnt say anything to him at all, by saying something, you kind of expose yourself - though you were on there looking for girls -- to a bunch of questions as well. Why do you feel you need to say anything at all?

[ShawnaSayaHi]

If it were me, I'd want to know. I don't think I'd be too embarassed, more glad that I knew it was out there and so I wouldn't do it again, or I could find who exposed it. But that's just me. Use you're best judgement on what he might want.

[riverboy]

I would forget about it

[jessie3]

I think eventually it would be found out by someone sooner or later but if you really want to tell him then maybe write a comment in the comment box if they have one and hint that you know him.

[suzzysmith2012]

He obviously posted it for people to see, (unless someone did him a favor and"stole" it) and posted it without out him knowing

[VictoriaShadows]

I think that you should try to just forget about it

[dario]

don't tell him anything

[Omniscient]

Just keep it to yourself, no need to confront him with it unless you want to cause problems.