This Girl Has a Crush on Me...

[losingNemo]

Okay, first of all, I'd like to point out that I identify myself as straight. My question here is that, if I continue to communicate with her and act the way I do with her, does that change my orientation to questionable or whatnot? This may be a lot to read, so bear with me, please.
This girl at my school has a major crush on me. Although she states that she's straight, she'd made it clear that she definitely isn't. Either she's bi-curious, bi-sexual, or full-on lesbian. The thing is, I obviously don't feel the same way about her, as I'm in a committed relationship with a male partner. In the locker rooms, we change next to each other and she's always checking me out. She always "jokes" around about stripping, but she always gives me genuine compliments in regards to my body. She likes to grope me and slap my ass. She does this every single day. I try not to get bothered by it as much as I don't really want to hurt her feelings and I try to play along with her "joke". Whenever she sees me (including when I'm walking into the locker room), she immediately rushes over to me and practically jumps on me, and clings onto me like I'm her mother or something. It almost reminds me of the relationship between Naomi and Seiko in Corpse Party..and I honestly kind of think it's cute and it's flattering. One day she asked me if I would kiss her. I didn't know if I heard her quite right and asked her to repeat herself and she just said it was nothing before rushing off with her face flushed. It was then that I knew it really wasn't just some joke and she really does have a crush on me. But I don't feel the same way about her. But I still want to hang around her. I don't know, does this make me a different sexuality?

[Foamy]

What you're describing is more of just you not wanting to reject somebody. The situation has nothing to do with your sexuality. You just need to decide how much longer you're going to play this game with her before you let her down.

[jssixna]

It does seem she either views you as a good friend or someone she likes. Well some stuff you said aren't normal for girls who are good friends. If she bothers you don't be afraid to tell her how you feel. You can't keep playing this little game forever so it must end sooner or later. You are still straight it seems.

[cami]

I think she's bi, but probably too shy to admit it. And since you find her "jokes" cute and all, you may be bi-curious.

[Body odah Man]

Okay, first of all, I'd like to point out that I identify myself as straight. My question here is that, if I continue to communicate with her and act the way I do with her, does that change my orientation to questionable or whatnot? This may be a lot to read, so bear with me, please.
This girl at my school has a major crush on me. Although she states that she's straight, she'd made it clear that she definitely isn't. Either she's bi-curious, bi-sexual, or full-on lesbian. The thing is, I obviously don't feel the same way about her, as I'm in a committed relationship with a male partner. In the locker rooms, we change next to each other and she's always checking me out. She always "jokes" around about stripping, but she always gives me genuine compliments in regards to my body. She likes to grope me and slap my ass. She does this every single day. I try not to get bothered by it as much as I don't really want to hurt her feelings and I try to play along with her "joke". Whenever she sees me (including when I'm walking into the locker room), she immediately rushes over to me and practically jumps on me, and clings onto me like I'm her mother or something. It almost reminds me of the relationship between Naomi and Seiko in Corpse Party..and I honestly kind of think it's cute and it's flattering. One day she asked me if I would kiss her. I didn't know if I heard her quite right and asked her to repeat herself and she just said it was nothing before rushing off with her face flushed. It was then that I knew it really wasn't just some joke and she really does have a crush on me. But I don't feel the same way about her. But I still want to hang around her. I don't know, does this make me a different sexuality?

No, just sounds like you're being nice to her. That in no way makes you of questionable sexuality, dw.

[SethfromMI]

just let her down sooner rather than later. say you want to be friends, but just be honest

[fairmaiden]

I think you may be bi-curious like what Cami said. Let her down gently and tell her that you still want to be friends.

[Meh Guy]

It doesn't make you any different. Even if you do act on those "jokes", it's not going to define your sexuality. I have many straight friends and we do things that are considered gay all the time. Would they ever do these things with other guys? Never. So it's up to you if you're comfortable with this, it sounds like you'd rather her just not do it around you. If that's the case just tell her you're cool with her choice and everything but just not interested in the same way.