My not-boyfriend

[queenofcontrariety]

So long story short one of the guys I've made plenty of threads about (speeding ticket guy) texted me last night after having a few brief other conversations since our last date. He asked me if I wanted to go out and like a young and reckless teen I asked my parents who let me go at like 9pm with a boy who drives a mustang... I love their parenting sometimes. I said we were going for coffee, basically we ended up talking in his car for an hour and a half. He was all sweet saying how whenever he's lonely I'm the first person he thinks of and he wishes he could spend more time with my and that I'm cute, etc. Wellllllllllllll he's still afraid of relationship labels, he literally called himself my boyfriend that I can't call my boyfriend... I'm shockingly okay with all this. I mean we cuddled he may or may not have kissed me, he's tall and funny and whatever. He admitted to being a bad texter and he didn't want to talk about everything over text and leave us nothing to talk about in person. I'm happy, I actually barely slept because I'm still high off the presence of someone else. So I'll give my not-boyfriend some time to get okay with everything and see what happens.

[SethfromMI]

well I hope things work out for you

[Emerald Dream]

I think you're doing the right thing, and you should be happy :)

A lot of the time people are unsure of their feelings, and can be awkward when trying to figure it out. It sounds like that's exactly what this guy is going through. As weird as it may be for him (and you), it does sound like he has a genuine interest and wants to be with you.

I hope it turns out the way you want it to. It sounds promising.

[Hudor]

Oh that's sweet! He does seem interested after all. I hope things turn out well for you. C:

[Uranus]

Well, I hope everything goes well.

[maniamsmart]

I am glad this all worked out for you. I remember you had sent me a PM about this the last time so I am guessing things got better :) I'd say that what he's doing is probably very genuine, and perhaps it will just take some time for him to get used to the label, just like he needed time to ask you out again and progress the relationship.

[Body odah Man]

So long story short one of the guys I've made plenty of threads about (speeding ticket guy) texted me last night after having a few brief other conversations since our last date. He asked me if I wanted to go out and like a young and reckless teen I asked my parents who let me go at like 9pm with a boy who drives a mustang... I love their parenting sometimes. I said we were going for coffee, basically we ended up talking in his car for an hour and a half. He was all sweet saying how whenever he's lonely I'm the first person he thinks of and he wishes he could spend more time with my and that I'm cute, etc. Wellllllllllllll he's still afraid of relationship labels, he literally called himself my boyfriend that I can't call my boyfriend... I'm shockingly okay with all this. I mean we cuddled he may or may not have kissed me, he's tall and funny and whatever. He admitted to being a bad texter and he didn't want to talk about everything over text and leave us nothing to talk about in person. I'm happy, I actually barely slept because I'm still high off the presence of someone else. So I'll give my not-boyfriend some time to get okay with everything and see what happens.

Aww that's so cute. Stirs my heart to read this. I hope you have lots of fun with him