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Julian.99
December 29th, 2014, 12:44 AM
When I masturbate, I look at pictures of shirtless guys, or think of guys I know shirtless. I just think that male bodies are more appealing than female bodies. I'm not attracted to them, as in I want to date them or anything like that, but I have had thoughts of having sex with some of them.

TroyH
December 29th, 2014, 01:09 AM
You are whatever you are man. Labels don't really matter and it'd be bad to give one to yourself that you don't even fit! Really all there is to it, if you have feelings for someone then feel free to go for it and not be restricted by what you think is "normal"

Straya
December 29th, 2014, 01:10 AM
When I masturbate, I look at pictures of shirtless guys, or think of guys I know shirtless. I just think that male bodies are more appealing than female bodies. I'm not attracted to them, as in I want to date them or anything like that, but I have had thoughts of having sex with some of them.

it sounds like you might be atleast bi or curious but if your not thinking about having sex with girls at all then you might be gay but really only you can tell what you are

James Dean
December 29th, 2014, 01:23 AM
You like what you like, I think in this type of situation you are experimenting with yourself and are confused. Your sexuality at this point isn't figured out and you are learning more about it. Don't be afraid though, you are attracted to what you like or interested in. Whether thats guys or girls or both. Gay, bi are things you will have to accept for yourself and you don't have to put yourself there yet if you don't want to. It is going to be fine, do only what makes you comfortable.

Elysium
December 29th, 2014, 01:45 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender

dirtyboxer55
December 29th, 2014, 01:50 AM
sounds pretty gay to me bro

Foamy
December 29th, 2014, 01:59 AM
You sound curious to me, perhaps bisexual. However, you can't truly know just by what you choose to masturbate to. While it helps, it isn't anything like actual life experiences.

Zachary G
December 29th, 2014, 09:08 AM
You are whatever you are man. Labels don't really matter and it'd be bad to give one to yourself that you don't even fit! Really all there is to it, if you have feelings for someone then feel free to go for it and not be restricted by what you think is "normal"

dude, i wouldnt be too caught up in lables, you know who you are and what you are attracted to and only you have to deal with that - what you do behind your closed doors is nobodys business, but your own. If it feels good, do it.:metal:

averyj123
December 29th, 2014, 06:49 PM
I think the same

Convoluted one
December 29th, 2014, 08:51 PM
i think at least your bi. its not always about who you want to date, but who your attracted to. not all straight guys want to seriously date a girl, but they might be sexually attracted to her.

BowlofWhales
December 29th, 2014, 11:54 PM
What kind of feelings do you have for females?

slicnick844
January 4th, 2015, 11:17 PM
Man i am the same way i get horny when i see hot guys but would never want to date them.

Uranus
January 4th, 2015, 11:20 PM
You could either be Bisexual, Bi-Curious. It sounds like you are more bisexual to me honestly. But whatever makes you happy is what you should do.

JacobIN
January 5th, 2015, 12:33 AM
Well that sounds like you may be a little bi curious there, to an extent. It doesn't really matter though. Do what makes you happy and in the end all will be well.

rhysyb
January 7th, 2015, 12:38 PM
You are what you are, only you can decide what to call your sexuality

SethfromMI
January 7th, 2015, 07:21 PM
if you still like the opposite sex, esp more, you are not gay. you might be bi or even bi-curious. do not worry about labeling yourself man

jssixna
January 10th, 2015, 06:28 AM
If you are attracted toward girls then you aren't gay. If you don't like girls, you're likely gay.

scottishguy
January 19th, 2015, 06:41 PM
When I masturbate, I look at pictures of shirtless guys, or think of guys I know shirtless. I just think that male bodies are more appealing than female bodies. I'm not attracted to them, as in I want to date them or anything like that, but I have had thoughts of having sex with some of them.

You don't need to work out if you're "gay" or "straight" or anything else. If you enjoy masturbating over shirtless guys, then do it. Don't try and stop yourself. But if you are sexually attracted to men, as it seems you are, don't worry. It's completely normal and natural for a guy to like another guy.