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Connor_g_17
December 28th, 2014, 01:27 AM
I still have feelings for her even though I broke up with her because I felt I wasn't ready for a relationship at the time . We went out for a year and did everything but sex even though she really wanted too. After we broke up she admitted she has hooked up with (probably make out and maybe bj) to more guys than she can remember probably around 10 I'd say, knowing her I'd say she was probably really drunk when she did this stuff , and she said She had sex with 2 which is upsetting becauze we never even had sex and she always said she wanted to lose her viriginity to someone special, she said she only did it because she was trying to get over me but nothing worked, I know I still have feelings for her but idk if it's a good idea to get back together after all she did in only 2 months. What do you think I should do ?

cami
December 28th, 2014, 04:55 AM
give it a try, you have nothing to lose.

lilg
December 28th, 2014, 05:02 AM
so what she does when she's not going out with you, really isn't your business. not sure why she told you that anyways. if you like her go out with her. simple. if that stuff bothers you, well, get over it, you weren't with her.

Body odah Man
December 28th, 2014, 05:15 AM
I'm gunna go the side of leniency here, which is what most people never do. I'd suggest giving her another chance; returning to her if you feel it's right and that you can be happy with her. Don't refuse your heart.

maniamsmart
December 29th, 2014, 12:34 AM
Hmm... the real question here is, how truthful is her excuse for doing all of those things with other guys? Do you believe her? If so, then sure, I'd say go ahead and go back with her. If you are really bothered by all the things she did though, and feel like your relationship won't be the same anymore, or feel like she is lying, then don't go back together. This isn't really a question for us to decide, but rather a question for you to decide based on your feelings for her. It's all about how comfortable you are with this issue.