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Karkat
December 27th, 2014, 05:22 AM
Pretty self-explanatory. Feel free to vent about it too if you wish.
I miss Charlie... In multiple ways and for so many reasons. I'm so confused right now. Every time I think about him I want to bawl my eyes out.
I miss Toby because it's so nice to have him next to me. For being with him such a short time, I'm getting so fucking attached to him. Sleeping by his side just feels so right. It's insane.
Uranus
December 27th, 2014, 11:02 AM
I miss my ex girlfriend. Well, she's not even my ex. We were together for 9 months in a strong long distance relationship. It was amazing. I thought my life was perfect and I couldn't wait until we went to the same (random) camp and could meet up and be together. The reason me and her are no longer together is because of her father. He found out about me communicating with her.. He told me to never call her again. And he changed her phone number and I can't message and talk to her again because of that. :( I really miss her....
I loved her... She needed me. I needed her. And her father fucked her life up(not explained in this post) and he doesn't even like her... My life is shit.. I'm with another girl and it's amazing...but I still miss Arianna... :(
CosmicNoodle
December 27th, 2014, 11:12 AM
I miss Billy and Ewan, my two best friends, I haven't seen them for ages, and after a very emotional conversation with them, I just realised how much I need them around and miss them. I miss the old days.
Horatio Nelson
December 27th, 2014, 11:50 AM
I miss her so much. It's only been a week, but damn. It's so hard to do stuff with her outside of school because her mother is crazy strict. Which, I guess I should be thankful for, she's not letting her daughter do whatever the hell she wants.
Anyway, I miss her.
Hudor
December 27th, 2014, 12:21 PM
I miss you man. Sometimes I miss you so much it aches. I remember us sitting together in class, so close I could see every line on your face. All those times we laughed easily at random things. How you had slowly opened up to me, i was happy you trusted me. Our friendship had grown quite deep. Idk what happened, when things snapped. I wish things could have been different but the past is a bucket of ashes. I wish i can l move on.
ImCoolBeans
December 27th, 2014, 01:17 PM
I miss you a lot. Things used to be awesome, and now we rarely ever speak. I know a lot of unexpected things happened between us, but I haven't forgotten what we had, and won't forget.
JoeDangit
December 27th, 2014, 02:41 PM
I miss my dog.. he's around here somewhere..
Oh there he is, under my desk.
Leprous
December 27th, 2014, 03:53 PM
I miss all of you guys, even though I was mad about what you did. I'm sorry for being me, which some people clearly can't handle.
Grandpa, I also miss you, more than anyone else. You were really my best friend. It's been almost a year since you died and yet, it feels like yesterday. Ugh I'm getting tears again just from thinking about him...
I miss you two so much, you 2 were the best. Then you bitches just ignore me for no fucking reason. Thanks. Allot.
SethfromMI
December 27th, 2014, 04:18 PM
I am missing my friend who was killed in an auto-accident
Karkat
December 27th, 2014, 05:39 PM
I miss you, Dad. We may not always see eye to eye (although ironically I've grown tall enough that we can in a very literal sense of the word) but I miss you a lot. Three years is just... Too long. I need to visit you again.
wonderland
December 28th, 2014, 10:14 AM
I miss you.
I act like I don't, like I don't give a shit about you and that you mean nothing to me - but the truth is that I miss you a fucking lot.
Elysium
December 28th, 2014, 10:40 AM
I miss someone who remains important to me, even though we no longer talk. I thought we'd be friends for a long time at the very least, and that nothing would be able to change that. I was wrong, and it's my fault.
Karkat
December 28th, 2014, 04:38 PM
I'm missing Charlie. I wish I could make up all those terrible things I said to him, make him feel better.
I miss Toby. I need his snuggles. A kiss or two would be nice as well.
Cognizant
January 1st, 2015, 02:13 AM
I miss Giovanni, and only god knows why. But I do. :(
kartik
January 1st, 2015, 04:53 AM
I miss Tuffey
lumiadots
January 2nd, 2015, 12:34 AM
I miss Dustyn. We're both going through really rough times right now, and school's starting up again on Monday from break and his schedule is completely changing so I won't really see him in school anymore either, and I can barely see him outside of school because his parents are really strict and pretty much just dicks all the time....I fucking miss him so much.
I'm not doing anything stupid or hurting myself or anything but I've been getting urges again and I'm just so damn depressed and sad and I need my boyfriend's love and support right now. Just to spend a couple hours nestled up in each other's arms and whispering cute things to each other and rubbing noses and kissing and listening to music and laughing. I miss how happy we used to be together...now all we are is sad. I wanna bring back the happiness but I don't know how and I miss him so much my fucking heart hurts and I just wanna burst into tears right now.
Karkat
January 2nd, 2015, 05:10 PM
Oh god I miss Charlie
There is such a huge bond between us, and I feel like I've just done my best to dash it to pieces, and I just want him to be ok. Fuck
queenofcontrariety
January 2nd, 2015, 06:24 PM
I miss Matt. I let him break me down so often, I just want to talk, to hear his voice and know that someone cares. I mis him talking to me. I feel so alone again. Why did he have to peak my intrest and just keep me strung along... be with me or don't. This limbo will make me worse, I want to relapse because he doesn't even try... I miss him, but I need to be stronger than the pain this dummy has caused. He's supposed to be my dummy.
romes3
January 2nd, 2015, 06:26 PM
I miss liz, we were best friends for so long, and I wish that it had never changed
David TS
January 2nd, 2015, 07:09 PM
I miss my girlfriend jane she was hit by a drunk driver and I never saw her again
Karkat
January 2nd, 2015, 09:20 PM
I miss my girlfriend jane she was hit by a drunk driver and I never saw her again
I'm so sorry for your loss :(
Babs
January 3rd, 2015, 10:12 PM
I miss a friend I haven't spoken to in a very long time.
Meh Guy
January 3rd, 2015, 10:24 PM
I miss my best friend Derrick. It's been almost a year since he was taken from me, because of me :(
Karkat
January 13th, 2015, 02:22 AM
Missing Charlie and his tallness and baritoney-ness
And his hugs :heart:
I also miss Toby
CharlieHorse
January 13th, 2015, 02:52 AM
Missing Mattoe and Bridge :/
And Kate, Athena, Andy, Alec, David, Will, Joey, Matthew, Jesse, Alex, Sasha, Griffin, Karen, and just about every one of my friends that I've not talked to in a long time.
I wonder if they miss me too...
I felt kind of like I didn't belong with them much anymore, going back to highschool... They're above me in a sense.
It's really hard for me to regret anything, even if It hurt like hell to leave, because I've since had memories I'm glad I had that I wouldn't have otherwise had in the program.
I remember my dad telling me the news. I couldn't really process it. I wasn't surprised, but sort of shocked that it was actually reality.
I wonder what life would have turned out like if I made things different a year ago. I wonder if I'd be happy, or still pretty tied up in my mind. I wonder if I would have found someone, and I wonder if I would still have close friends. If only I had acted, I could have had it all. Instead I'm just left with memories. Snippets of friends' smiles and laughs, and a lot of snippets of everything I ever did wrong to them and myself.
It seems I have ruined the best thing that has ever happened to me. I doubt anything better will come along to me in life. Perhaps I should just give up, knowing I at least got to experience what living was like, even if it was for a short time.
Melodic
January 13th, 2015, 07:48 AM
I miss my ex best friend Tori. I was such an ass to her because I was head over heels for this guy. (The one who attempted to use me for sex) I'm sure by now she has nothing nice to say about me though so I haven't tried to build a friendship with her again.
Gumleaf
January 16th, 2015, 05:43 AM
I miss one of my really good and closest friends. I think of her quite often, most days infact. We were ever only online friends and even though she's on the other side of the world, I always felt really close to her. For 3 years or more we were as inseparable as you can be when you're physically so far apart. She had been to hell and back in her life with so many horrible things happening and she was there for me too with crappiness in my life. I always admired how she fought on and was so brave and in the midst of her own problems, always wanted to be there for me.
This week was her birthday, she turned 20. But I remember 2 years ago when she turned 18. Things seemed to be finally turning the corner for her, she seemed happier overall and we got to chat very often which I especially enjoyed, mostly because I was lonely after my ex girlfriend had not long dumped me. But then, a couple of weeks after her birthday, she emailed me one day and told me she had got a boyfriend. I was really really happy for her and it seemed everything was finally falling into place with her life. But I knew what that meant and despite trying to convince myself otherwise and her saying the same thing, I was right. Almost immediately we lost our regular contact. She was with her boyfriend most of the time and busy with other stuff and didn't have time for me anymore.
I've never had any resentment and have always been genuinely happy for her knowing how bad her life had been before. But I was guttered to effectively lose my best friend like that. I feel really guilty about it and feeling upset like I do because in my eyes it was a personal attack on me. Ever since then, any friend I've had who has had a major life change happen, I've treated it like the end of the friendship, and they don't understand why that is. But then it happens again as I expect and they don't realise they are doing it.
I miss my friend so much, I miss what we had before and wish so much that I could have it back. She doesn't know how much it has hurt me and i'll never tell her either. I hate that this has hurt me as much as it has and I hate that I react the way that I do. I guess what I would love is some reassurance, but I doubt that will come. Hopefully she might remember my birthday in 3 weeks. That will make me feel a bit better.
If you've read all this, thankyou, I really appreciate it. I've really wanted to come out and say this for ages and now I have. If you have any words of wisdom, please share.
Karkat
January 18th, 2015, 03:47 AM
I miss Charlie so much
In more than one way. I miss being his. Hell, I didn't even know I 'was' until it was all over anyways.
I miss really talking to him on a regular basis
I miss being close to him
I miss seeing his gorgeous smiling face in Skype
I miss hearing his voice in phone calls
I miss texting him all night, and them waking up to his texts
I miss being with him. Goofing off. Spending time with him and Nate
I miss him more than I've missed most people... Ugh
xXl0sth0peXx
January 18th, 2015, 06:43 AM
I miss my recovered self. Because I think I was a half decent human with an actual chance. That's all down the drain.
I miss my best friend R. Although we've reconciled and made up and completely moved on from the past, something just isn't right. And we don't talk as much as we did before. It isn't the same, and it makes me sad. We're making baby steps though.
I selfishly miss you before you had your kid 9 days ago. Because everything's changed now.. and I'm even more afraid of you not liking me anymore. I know my thinking is irrational, but I can't help feel that you'll leave me. And I don't know why.
The biggest though is I miss my friendship with M. I know that it's my fault that it struggles, and I don't blame you for anything you've said. I'd have done the same thing. I really hope I'm proving you wrong, and that you don't have any regrets. and I'm sorry.
Bull
January 18th, 2015, 11:16 AM
I miss my VT friend Ezra. He made me so aware of my need to be more aware of people around me. He made significant contributions to the VT community. Sorry he has left us!
Horatio Nelson
January 18th, 2015, 11:42 AM
I miss her perfect smile and cute laugh, and I miss her amazing hugs.
Lottie
January 18th, 2015, 03:09 PM
I miss my mum, I don't get to see her much now.
Princess Ariel
January 18th, 2015, 06:17 PM
I miss my girlfriend :c
She came to visit in-between shifts, and it was extremely hard to watch her leave.
tasminsmith
January 18th, 2015, 06:19 PM
my best friend has moved away and nothing is the same without her I have other friends but no one is like her :(
Karkat
January 22nd, 2015, 05:44 AM
I miss Charlie. Ofc.
I also miss Matty ;n; But he friended me on my new Facebook. He was the third one to do so, and seeing as I just made the thing tonight, that makes me really happy <3
I wish we still talked. He was one of the people I was closest to, and now we go months without saying a word.
romes3
January 23rd, 2015, 10:09 AM
I miss kaden, we used to talk all the time...not anymore :(
Karkat
January 24th, 2015, 03:57 AM
Charlie. I doubt I should continue to put him on here as it's just stating the obvious.
I just wish I hadn't've fucked up such a good thing.
Dygarde
January 25th, 2015, 12:08 AM
I miss a lot of people and animals. I miss my classmate Alex who got ejected from his vehicle. We weren't super close but still we were the same age. I miss my GrandPa. He was a wonderful man but I am happy to think he is no longer in pain. I miss the old me that could smile and be happy. I also miss my Ex Girlfriend Jessie. We have so much history together that I have a hard time going trough her town without being emotional. I miss the past.
Magenta
January 25th, 2015, 01:00 AM
I miss someone I shouldn't.
JusticeandMercy
January 25th, 2015, 01:46 AM
It kind of hurts me to know that the entire time I was in a relationship with her, she wished I was still with you. That she thought you and I were actually made for each other. Even after everything that's happened since that October. It still gets to me.
And it hurts even more to think that I too still sometimes wish you and I had stayed together.
Hideous
January 25th, 2015, 01:53 AM
I miss someone back in my middle school.
amgb
January 25th, 2015, 05:27 AM
To my three best friends at SGGHS, I miss you and we really need to catch up sometime..
Magenta
January 26th, 2015, 12:41 AM
I missed my grandpa today. It's hard to believe he's gone and maybe that's why I don't want to go to the memorial.
Plane And Simple
January 26th, 2015, 01:13 AM
My french friend. Whenever you wish to start speaking to me again....
amgb
January 26th, 2015, 02:56 AM
And also M and G (who I shall not name).
audiophile5
January 26th, 2015, 03:53 PM
I miss Chris, the only person I ever felt connected with, the only person I fully ever trusted, the person I grew apart from. And there's nothing to be done :)
Croconaw
January 26th, 2015, 04:03 PM
I miss my friend because we're so close, yet so far away.
Hideous
January 27th, 2015, 12:04 AM
I miss my grandpa back in Vietnam.
Elysium
January 27th, 2015, 12:10 AM
I miss my old best friend, who I drifted apart from years ago and who I still think about every now and then. His birthday is coming up and I'm a little melancholy. I tried to reconnect with him, but he wouldn't and/or couldn't make time for me. I figure if he'd ever really wanted to, he would've.
I also miss my current best friend, who, despite being so incredibly close to me, is still so out of my league that I sometimes feel distant from her. It doesn't help that distancing myself from anything and everything is my natural tendency, and I'm not resentful of this. I still miss her, though.
Hideous
January 30th, 2015, 06:47 AM
I already miss my dad.
Dutchstranger18
January 30th, 2015, 10:00 AM
I`m missing my friends
Abyssal Echo
January 30th, 2015, 01:53 PM
I'm missing Viv, Bridg
amgb
January 30th, 2015, 06:03 PM
Missing my family.
Karkat
February 2nd, 2015, 12:23 AM
Missing Charlie :(
I did get to talk to him tonight though :heart:
Horatio Nelson
February 2nd, 2015, 12:31 AM
Missing you. I know we talk often, but it's not the same as feeling you next to me, and hearing your voice.
ImCoolBeans
February 2nd, 2015, 12:37 AM
Miss the fuck out of you. We don't talk very often, but I would like to.
Magenta
February 3rd, 2015, 08:01 PM
I miss my ex-girlfriend. Fuck her though.
Hideous
February 4th, 2015, 04:30 AM
I miss my good friend from soph year :(
benj2
April 26th, 2015, 11:58 AM
one of my best friends move away I miss him
Fritos43
May 3rd, 2015, 04:10 PM
I miss Alex. And Sarah. Why has it been so long? They both are a big part of my life. The next time I see Alex, I'm tackling him. In a friendly way.
Elliott_hn
May 3rd, 2015, 04:12 PM
I'm missing this girl I have a crush on
xXoblivionXx
May 3rd, 2015, 06:07 PM
I miss my pre-depression self
Professional Russian
May 3rd, 2015, 08:12 PM
I miss my best friend and the only person that made me happy. I really wish shed come out of this depression and start talking again
Ridonks_CB
May 3rd, 2015, 11:06 PM
I miss my family living over-seas. My family here, mostly aunts and uncles, aren't as close as the ones far away... can't express ny excitement to finally be able to see them again this summer :)
Microcosm
May 3rd, 2015, 11:45 PM
I miss my old crush from two years ago. She moved away and I don't know if the feelings ever completely went away. I still keep in touch with her, but I want to see her in person.
Elysium
May 3rd, 2015, 11:50 PM
I am missing someone whose motivations I could not and do not understand, but I'd like to believe (however much I logically can't) that they were genuine.
seamo34
May 10th, 2015, 03:26 PM
Pretty self-explanatory. Feel free to vent about it too if you wish.
I miss Charlie... In multiple ways and for so many reasons. I'm so confused right now. Every time I think about him I want to bawl my eyes out.
I miss Toby because it's so nice to have him next to me. For being with him such a short time, I'm getting so fucking attached to him. Sleeping by his side just feels so right. It's insane.
I miss my granny she died just over a year ago and its a tought time, i will never forget her just want her back, she was a firend to me i could tell her anything really miss her nothing is the same without her.
Let Me Be a Pony
May 10th, 2015, 06:07 PM
I miss my high school friends. WHY DO YOU GOTTA be so busy?
coolkid016
May 10th, 2015, 06:11 PM
I miss my friend Wayne who was killed (along with his mom, dad, and little sis) when his dad fell asleep on I-95 and crashed into oncoming traffic.. all because he thought that he could get from New York to Alabama in one shot...
RIP Wayne Hicks- 1998-2008
Airam
May 11th, 2015, 01:31 PM
I miss all my childhood friends (and my childhood self)
And my big time crush who moved away 1 year ago...
Ridonks_CB
May 11th, 2015, 02:22 PM
I suddenly began to miss my grandfather recently
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