View Full Version : Any Advice???
Ariesboy
December 27th, 2014, 01:59 AM
Ok so I'm not really sure about my sexuality, emotionally I love girls but I'm also attracted to some guys. So I have a friend who is very gay, and he always flirts with me and talks very sexual towards me. And we have traded nudes once but haven't since, so I just wanna know how to get him to stop being so toward, and sexual towards me, because I do consider him a friend. Btw he isn't completely out, and nobody knows about me either.
isaiah
December 27th, 2014, 02:07 AM
i think you are just curious if every guys has that momment when they find a guy hot and if that made u gay then every guy in the world would be and u might be bi but i say if you cant picture yourself in a relationship with a guy or have strong feelings for one your curious if u do your bi and tell your friend that u want to
isaiah
December 27th, 2014, 02:14 AM
Ok so I'm not really sure about my sexuality, emotionally I love girls but I'm also attracted to some guys. So I have a friend who is very gay, and he always flirts with me and talks very sexual towards me. And we have traded nudes once but haven't since, so I just wanna know how to get him to stop being so toward, and sexual towards me, because I do consider him a friend. Btw he isn't completely out, and nobody knows about me either.
Also tell ure friend that u dont want to have that kind of relationship that u want to remain friends
Zachary G
December 27th, 2014, 10:13 AM
if he is your friend then you need to have the talk with him of how you admire him as your friend and only think of him as a friend, how taking things anything further would mess up your friendship and you dont want that. talk to him and let him know how you feel.
Lost in the Echo
December 27th, 2014, 12:11 PM
Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow: Family and Friends
This seems to be more a question about the situation between you and your friend, rather than a question of your sexuality, so this would be better suited there. :)
As for your friend acting sexual towards you, you want it to stop, correct? Well, really, the only way he will is if you let him know you're not comfortable with this anymore. I mean, he's probably not sure, because of the history of the both of you sexting each other.
Just let him know you view him as only a friend.
twirlgurl
December 27th, 2014, 09:36 PM
ok this might sound wierd but Do you really care what label you wear?? straight or gay, or bi, and whatever. doesnt really matter. I mean, its just a label. Not an instruction set.
Maybe your just straight and are cool with noticing attractive guys too. I mean, GIRLS can be attracted to other girls, it doesnt me we want to date them. If i see a pretty girl at school, or online or somehting I'll say "shes SO pretty!!" or "great hair". That doesnt make me a lesbian or bi.
I think its stupid that guys cant say the same things about other guys without getitng judged or labelled. why are compliments so hard for guys? Just tell your friend that your not into him like that, and chill. be friends. (and LOL at "he's very gay" I didnt know being gay had levels. heheh)
SethfromMI
December 27th, 2014, 10:57 PM
you maybe curious. as for your friend, gently but firmly say you do not want that type of relationship with him
tret123
February 23rd, 2015, 12:08 AM
isaiah I can't dm
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