I like guys and want a boyfriend bad. Are my standards too high?

[taylorht8397]

Over the past year I have wanted a boyfriend. I feel lonely a lot of the time because of it. I started wanting a relationship about the time I developed this
huge crush for this guy. Through that time I had fantasized about a guy loving me and cuddling me and letting me fall asleep on his chest, kissing me for the
first time and of course your standard sexual fantasizing when you get sexually
aroused. Probably the thing that makes my heart ache the most is the fact that
i've never had my first kiss. In fact in makes me teary eyed writing about it because it makes me feel like no one thinks anything of me as a person. The bottom line is I just want to be loved even for 10 minutes I just want to feel that connection that everyone my age posts memes about on facebook. I hope that special someone will come around and make my biggest dream a reality.
I think im decent enough looking, ive been told I have the face of an angel, my body right now is'nt bad but I just started working out so its going to change. I have brown hair, brown eyes, soft facial features, 5 foot 8 inches, masculine acting but my core is very passionate, loving and sensual. I can be kinda shy at first but once you get to know me, I'm really very outgoing.
The guy i'm looking for is about my height, his body im not too picky about
as long as he's not obese, blonde, or brunette hair, a sweet face, a kind heart, masculine acting. I don't care if he has a car, i don't care if he grew up with a wealthy backround, i don't care if he's smart, i just want the person. As long as he loves me and I love him that's all that matters. I plan on coming out when i meet someone until then, there's really no point. I've told a close friend who also is so that's enough for me for now.

[highschool]

Sorry, but i don't think you should be in a relationship right now. I think you have some inner problems that you're trying to mask with your need of a relationship. It's okay to want to be in a relationship, but something about your post just screams that you're unhappy with something. And trust me, a relationship won't change that.

[Atom]

Damn, wish I could help you somehow other than advice... I'm in a very similar situation. Too bad I'm not living in the US ;)
Not sure what to say... I think you should just go and get a boyfriend if you want it. It seems to me that you are sure in your appearance but still afraid of being rejected.
Don't be. Not worth it.
Also I would advise to start looking outside of your school/university/college. You won't find anyone there if you haven't already.

You have a higher standards than most but not too high. Try dropping them when meeting people. Think about your friends, for example. They are (probably) nice and cool people who you like and appreciate. Do they match your standards? Most likely not. But you still enjoy spending time with them.
Good luck :)

[SethfromMI]

you have to wait for the right person. in the mean time, prepare yourself to make sure you are truly ready to be in a relationship with someone

[taylorht8397]

Sorry, but i don't think you should be in a relationship right now. I think you have some inner problems that you're trying to mask with your need of a relationship. It's okay to want to be in a relationship, but something about your post just screams that you're unhappy with something. And trust me, a relationship won't change that.

Right now the only real problem I have is the relationship thing, honest and truly. I get daily aggravating issues like everyone else but none of those things makes as much of a difference.

[taylorht8397]

Damn, wish I could help you somehow other than advice... I'm in a very similar situation. Too bad I'm not living in the US ;)
Not sure what to say... I think you should just go and get a boyfriend if you want it. It seems to me that you are sure in your appearance but still afraid of being rejected.
Don't be. Not worth it.
Also I would advise to start looking outside of your school/university/college. You won't find anyone there if you haven't already.

You have a higher standards than most but not too high. Try dropping them when meeting people. Think about your friends, for example. They are (probably) nice and cool people who you like and appreciate. Do they match your standards? Most likely not. But you still enjoy spending time with them.
Good luck :)

Actually, I do have a friend thats bi or gay or whatever and he thinks I am so hot. However on my part, there is absolutely no attraction. Emotionally or physically. I wish there was something there so everything would be easier but i can't and won't settle. I think part of why he likes me is because I am uncircumsized and he has this fetish for uncut guys. He offers sex to me a lot and I decline because there is nothing emotional or physical there. Another thing is that we want different things. He mainly just wants to hook up with people and that's fine but thats not me. I want a relationship. I don't know. My standards may be a little high. To me they're low because most people I see either want a jock or a Justin Bieber type and that's it. Both of those would be nice but im not expecting that. Im just attracted to cute, sweet guys.

[maniamsmart]

I don't think your standards are too high at all. Not really sure if that's your only question though.