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onewingedangel666
December 26th, 2014, 10:15 PM
This is not the same girl all my other posts are about, btw.

This girl is one I've known for almost 12 years. When we were little we "dated" like kids and stuff. Around a few years ago we caught up on facebook (she moved away from my school in 3rd grade) and we ended up dating, for real. So coming around to now, she won't really talk to me, and when she does, it's mostly one word answers (Like when i messaged her a little after christmas saying 'I'm a little late lol but merry christmas' and she said 'oh ok') If I honestly had to admit it, I'd say I still had feelings for her, but nothing that would get in the way of a friendship.
So the reason I'm confused is this- She was doing truth is and this is what I got

Truth is
-we don't talk
-we used to go to the same school
-we used to be best friends
-your cool

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maniamsmart
December 28th, 2014, 11:58 PM
Hmm, confusing indeed. Sorry I wasn't able to answer to this sooner, or anyone else, I was busy for the past 2 days :P

Anyway, it's hard to tell really what she wants. A truth is doesn't really mean much, it could just be obvious things that she typed down to make it truthful, and not care about them, or she could have written them to you in the goal of giving you signs that she wants to talk to you more. However, with the one word answers, it kind of contradicts that. So I'd go with the former. Perhaps try talking to her a bit more, bring up the truth is in your message, for example "hey, I saw you wrote we don't talk much, well how how are you doing?" or something of that sort. If you continue to get one-word answers then it's clear she doesn't really seem interested in you.

Hope that helps.