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Pablo
December 25th, 2014, 09:57 PM
I've always considered myself to be straight but I have experimented with guys a few times. We've only gone as far as bj's. However, he wants to try anal with me. I'm curious to what it would be like, but I'm not sure I wanna do it. What do you think I should do?

Foamy
December 25th, 2014, 10:36 PM
If you're not 100% comfortable with doing something, then do not do it. If you're still curious about it, wait until you've warmed up to the thought of it.

SethfromMI
December 25th, 2014, 11:03 PM
only do what you want to do, plain and simple

The Faulted
December 27th, 2014, 01:30 AM
As mentioned above, it really depends on how comfortable you feel with it. I personally think that you shouldn't try it if you still aren't 100% sure on your sexuality even. Experimenting is fine, but sex is a pretty big deal. I'd maybe wait on it, and start thinking about if you really want it or not. (:

Karkat
December 27th, 2014, 01:40 AM
Like the guys above said, it depends. If you are really curious, and you feel ok with it, maybe try it once and see how you like it, and if you don't like it, don't do it again.

But in the end, it's up to you. :)

taylorht8397
December 27th, 2014, 01:48 AM
I agree with the people above. I would never do it if I was'nt attracted to the person sexually. I know for sure that I like guys. First what you should do is make sure you're attracted to guys period. Then determine whether or not you're attracted to the guy. If you're neither one of those things, the best bet is probably not to continue because making impulse decisions as far as sex is concerned can cause guilt and such. I wish I could say I've had experience but never really had the opportunity. Actually that's not true, I have a friend who's gay who's offered it to me and I respectfully declined simply because there I have no sexual feelings towards him. He thinks im hotter than the 4th of July and tries to coax me into doing stuff and sending him nudes but i just laugh it off and decline.

Zachary G
December 27th, 2014, 10:18 AM
dont do anything you arent 100% sure about doing because you may regret it down the line. wait until you feel you are truly ready for it, then do it, but never force yourself to do something you arent sure about just because the opportunity presents itself.