my Cousin

[lisawinche]

Hello everyone ! Yesterday something very awkward happened . We were at our grandpa's house with our whole family . Since me and my cousin were the only teens, we decided to go to another room to talk considering we don't see each other very often . My cousin turned 14 in october or november (Don't remember) and i think he's entering puberty or idk and since he's a only child i guess it's harder for him ... so we were talking and he randomly asked me if i mind checking if his penis size was fine (soft) ... omg i almost freaked out but i said nope i don't mind . He pulled his shorts down and i looked at it and i said i guess it was fine . (it wasan't big or anything , and for his age i guess it's perfect fine considering i've never seen another teen guy dick and from what i read in this forum ...).
He asked me if i wanted to touch and so i did ( I KNOW I SHOULDNT HAVE DONE THIS BUT I WAS VERY CURIOUS IDK WHY) . When i touched his penis the door of the room opened and his mother entered to call us to eat dinner .... I'm not sure if she seen me touching it since he pulled it very fast but it was really awkward . She said nothing and just called us to eat , now im not sure if she seen me or not . I'm really worried about it , what you guys think about this whole thing ? thanks
* : I'm 15

[emmasmith1256]

I don't really know what to think. If his mom hasn't mentioned it then I probably woundnt bring it up

[saxmatic16]

Don't worry about it, his mom would of definitely said something if she would of seen two young teens in a sexual manner so just relax don't worry about it. As for the touching thing it's fine to be curious but, that is your family so don't go further than that!

[Lauraaa]

If she doesnt start talking about it just forget it.
I've experimented a lot with my cousin so its normal to discover your bodies!

[lilg]

she either didn't see it or didn't care, don't worry about it

[Juana]

I guess, maybe she didn't see it, otherwise she would have said something about it.

[lilg]

i say do what you want to do and no more

[Beth]

Being curious of the opposite sex is normal and exciting to learn.Thats part of being a teenager going through puberty. But I wouldn't let it go any further that looking.

[Renata_cmp]

i guess he wanted you to see and touch his dick, asking a girl if his size (soft, so totally unreavelant anyway) is fine is really weird to me.

[Taryn98]

This entire experience is disturbing. I enjoy hanging out with my cousins (guys and girls), but never in a million years would we be showing or touching each others goodies and asking questions like this.

[ozteen]

Being curious of the opposite sex is normal and exciting to learn.Thats part of being a teenager going through puberty. But I wouldn't let it go any further that looking.
This, especially with a cousin....

[cami]

to some people that's a bit weird. i wouldn't worry too much about, she probably couldn't see you, otherwise she would have spoken with you.

[suzzysmith2012]

Perhaps consider yourself lucky, if no one has said anything to you and or him, she probably didn't notice, either that or what ever she did see, didn't cause to much worry and she's moved on. I'd suggest to be more careful playing doctor next time if you do it again.

[jheaven96]

I dont see any issue. i play with my cousisns often

[LITTLEANGEL19]

If nothing was said at the time I would not worry :)

[sunnieseason]

I like the idea of experimenting with a cousin. I have a female cousin my age, and we've both explored, but we haven't touched each other. It's more just looking and watching. As long as you both are ok with it and you don't feel pressured or bullied into doing it then I think its morally ok. It may not be considered culturally ok, but i don't really care about what the culture says is ok. I care about moral principles and if no one is getting hurt and its both consensual then go for it.

[Pensive]

I like the idea of experimenting with a cousin. I have a female cousin my age, and we've both explored, but we haven't touched each other. It's more just looking and watching. As long as you both are ok with it and you don't feel pressured or bullied into doing it then I think its morally ok. It may not be considered culturally ok, but i don't really care about what the culture says is ok. I care about moral principles and if no one is getting hurt and its both consensual then go for it.

Well said

[Daniella98]

she either didn't see it or didn't care, don't worry about it

My thought too

[Isabella_]

My brother never hid his, don't see the big deal - family should be able to trust family if they have a question or want an opinion and a cousin or sibling is more likely to be blunt and fairly honest about that kind of thing than a parent

[kentucky girl]

I agree is she hasn't said something to you or him by now then I wouldn't bring it up. I also see nothing wrong in be curious about opposite or even same sex. Nobody was forced to do this and probably both enjoyed it so just don't worry about it.

[Isabella_]

Tbh she probably though "about time they did"

[jheaven96]

i agree. she probally just accepted it as growing up

[Isabella_]

As she probably did the same or more
My good friend explored with her cousin and was comfortable doing more because she felt safe, like her first bj. But was just once, learned what she wanted to learn and didn't again for over a year until she had a bf

[twirlgurl]

This entire experience is disturbing. I enjoy hanging out with my cousins (guys and girls), but never in a million years would we be showing or touching each others goodies and asking questions like this.

^^^ This X2!

She's 15, he's 14. Incest NOT NORMAL!! It's ILLEGAL. It may be "normal" if they were both like under 6 yrs old, but not 15!

[lilg]

^^^ This X2!

She's 15, he's 14. Incest NOT NORMAL!! It's ILLEGAL. It may be "normal" if they were both like under 6 yrs old, but not 15!

it's actually not illegal everywhere though in most states it is between bro/sis but cousins can vary between 1st, 2nd, and 3rd.

[missy_moo]

Friends - yes, cousins - no. It's a slippery slope when family are involved. If you really want to experiment with someone your age, maybe ask a close friend?

[neledisapersonne]

is the problem touching the cousin or being seen for you?

[SCSS]

I wouldn't worry about it, unless his mom brings it up otherwise you're fine

[Babs]

Please don't bump threads that have been inactive for over 2 months. :locked: