After no contact for 5/6 weeks my ex messages me ..

[Paladino]

& tells me she is fucking pregnant, I don't know what to do, I am shitting my self, anyone ever had this??? my mind is doing overtime :confused::confused::confused:

[MasterOfPuppets]

Not that I can really help, but I belive that the last thing you need at this moment is to freak out that bad. Your next move should be to talk to her in person as soon as possible. It's not the end of the world though it looks like it at this moment.

[Paladino]

I cant stop freaking out man.

[SethfromMI]

you will have to talk to her. if it is your baby, will the two of you will have to decide what the best course of action is to take. but it won't help anyone to freakout. try to take a deep breathe, the world is not ending as scary as it probably is for you right now

[MasterOfPuppets]

Seth's right. I can't imagine how you feel, but now is the moment when you need to be stronger than you ever had to be, no matter how traumatic it all seems. After all, chances are that your whole world is gonna change big time, but that's ok. I guess that from this point on you can only feel better.

[maniamsmart]

The real question here is, is it your baby? The fact that she is texting you about it after she found out herself could mean that she is unsure herself and could be thinking that it could be yours. I'd talk to her and ask her if she's done anything with any other guy. If this is the same girl you spoke of before, the one that didn't want to go out with you anymore. then I am sure it would hurt you if you found out she has been fooling around with others, but you're going to have to find out if it's yours. If you know for a fact it isn't yours then why are you freaking out?

I've never been in a situation like this, but I know several others who have been. If anything go check with a doctor if both of you are unsure about things.

[Paladino]

She says she hasn't done anything with any other guy & tbh I wouldn't care less & I believe her she, I spoke to her for an hour or so on the phone last night and from the way she sounded it was definitely mine & I sort of have a new gf. It's quite a bombshell to receive on christmas eve you know .. Happy xmas anyway guys hope its a good one. Oh and if you read the previous threads about her then you'll have seen how heartless she acted and she started to realise how much of a cunt she was but its too late now.

[maniamsmart]

She says she hasn't done anything with any other guy & tbh I wouldn't care less & I believe her she, I spoke to her for an hour or so on the phone last night and from the way she sounded it was definitely mine & I sort of have a new gf. It's quite a bombshell to receive on christmas eve you know .. Happy xmas anyway guys hope its a good one. Oh and if you read the previous threads about her then you'll have seen how heartless she acted and she started to realise how much of a cunt she was but its too late now.

Wow, this really is a sticky situation you're in. You have a new girlfriend now, but you also have a baby that could be yours with another girl. Have any idea on what you're going to do? Hope you had a good Christmas too :)

[Paladino]

Wow, this really is a sticky situation you're in. You have a new girlfriend now, but you also have a baby that could be yours with another girl. Have any idea on what you're going to do? Hope you had a good Christmas too :)

Thanks, not a clue man.