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NaOcean
December 23rd, 2014, 07:47 PM
Hey everyone, so my girlfriend (15) and I (16) have been dating for close to 3 months now. We are happy very happy together and we have some distance between us but we are hoping to make the relationship work and have every intention of dong so. But why i'm here is, her parents are treating her like shes nothing. She has a younger brother and an older sister along with of course her parents. And her parents basically shower her siblings with gifts and whatever they want basically. While she is left out in the cold so to speak with nothing. And shes getting really sad about it because her parents and sister are taunting her over it. I don't like seeing her be sad, and It hurts to see it be this way, and I want to see her be happy. And she says i'm the only thing keeping her alive. I would like to know if there is anything I could do to help her out, I love her to death and I want to see her be happy.
Thank you for reading and any ideas you may have, it means a lot to me.

SethfromMI
December 25th, 2014, 11:29 PM
sadly there is not too much we can do. is there anyone else she can live with? if you can tell she is being abused physically or something you can all the police/ harder to prov if it is just mental and such.

Dalcourt
December 25th, 2014, 11:39 PM
As Seth said it's difficult. I don't think you can really do anything about this situation except supporting her and giving her love.
Does she have any other family or adults she can trust around? Maybe she could stay with them?
Has she talked to her parents why they act like that?

As I said it's difficult to give you any advice...maybe I can think about something else later.

Freckles
December 26th, 2014, 03:45 PM
That happens a lot with middle children. About all you can do is surprise her with nice things like maybe a poem or a supporting note to keep her spirits up. If you are a praying person you can pray for her. I am and I will pray for her and you too.