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Baseball1999
December 23rd, 2014, 12:41 AM
So, I need help with figuring out my sexuality. I feel as though that I'm straight, but everyday I begin to question myself more and more.

I always felt kind of different than everyone else I guess, its just hard to explain. I don't think that it's a hormone thing because I have always felt this way before hitting puberty. I always pictured myself with a female, and having a family with her, yet here lately, I also have started developing the same feelings towards men slightly. My friends consider me straight, but other people in my school think that I'm gay. I have never really been sexually attracted to women, but I have torwards men. I have watched straight porn once and was not attracted at all, so I started watching gay porn. I am not homophobic at all, but I want to be straight and not gay. I don't know if I'm in denial and won't admit to myself that I'm gay or bi. I just need a little help.

Aajj333
December 23rd, 2014, 12:54 AM
Porn isn't really a good measure of sexuality because it is not real.

Zachary G
December 23rd, 2014, 11:22 AM
ultimately you have to make the decision on what your sexuality truly is. my best advice is to not be so quick to label yourself and just go with the feelings you are having. the only way you are going to find out anything is if you experience them (im not talking sex).

Foamy
December 23rd, 2014, 11:24 PM
Only time will tell what all this means for you. If you say that you've had a thing for guys for a while now, then there is a strong possibility that you could be bisexual. But again, there is no need to rush anything. Your experiences now and in the future will help you determine your sexuality.

Pablo
December 25th, 2014, 09:55 PM
I wouldn't label yourself now. After experiencing life some more it may become more clear to you which way you will go.

SethfromMI
December 25th, 2014, 11:04 PM
you have plenty of time to figure this out, don't rush it

Wyatt 13
December 26th, 2014, 04:16 PM
dude same here, dont label yourself

Straya
December 30th, 2014, 07:20 AM
So, I need help with figuring out my sexuality. I feel as though that I'm straight, but everyday I begin to question myself more and more.

I always felt kind of different than everyone else I guess, its just hard to explain. I don't think that it's a hormone thing because I have always felt this way before hitting puberty. I always pictured myself with a female, and having a family with her, yet here lately, I also have started developing the same feelings towards men slightly. My friends consider me straight, but other people in my school think that I'm gay. I have never really been sexually attracted to women, but I have torwards men. I have watched straight porn once and was not attracted at all, so I started watching gay porn. I am not homophobic at all, but I want to be straight and not gay. I don't know if I'm in denial and won't admit to myself that I'm gay or bi. I just need a little help.

you still have time to work things out but i kinda know how you feel i used to think the same way when i first started puberty