Little sister

[Appl]

So recently my 9yo sister has been asking me questions about masturbation. Yesterday she asked me if I could show her how I do it. I don't know if she's old enough for this and I want to know what you guys think. Does my sister need to know this stuff at 9yo? Let me know what you think

[lilg]

I don't see any problem with it, better you teach her than someone else.

[BabyGMarie]

Give it 2 more years I think

[Kelsey1031]

If shes old enough to ask, shes old enough to know! As long as you're both ok with it, go for it! One of my older cousins showed me when I was 8, and I showed one of my younger cousins when she was 8 so i think its perfectly fine.

[saxmatic16]

I would just show her but explain to her to only do it at home and to not go around school discussing how you taught her cause yall both might get in trouble.

[Daniella98]

If shes old enough to ask, shes old enough to know! As long as you're both ok with it, go for it! One of my older cousins showed me when I was 8, and I showed one of my younger cousins when she was 8 so i think its perfectly fine.

Exactly. She is old enough when she keeps asking. And of course its better you show her, than if she seeks help from someone else.

[lilg]

i showed my younger cousin when i figured out how to do it, trust me, she's happy lol

[txtwister13]

i don't see anything wrong with talking to your sister about masturbating. Since she's asking about it she'll get the information somewhere and it might as well be you...... but part of the conversation should be about making sure she understands its an activity that should be done in private. I don't think you need to show her, like most of us, once she has a little information she will figure out things for herself.

[vickilynn]

I say it was fine. I am the youngest of my family. My sister showed me how she did hers. We have a couple of 8 year old girls over here and they had kids. So I don't t see why not show her. It is better than a boy show her. At least she is asking for help and want to reach out. So it is better for her to come forward than being secretive and going to people who won't look out for her.

[Appl]

So it seems like most people said I should show her. I definitely agree that I should. How did you guys "show" your cousin, sister, etc. I'm just worried that she maybe shouldn't know certain "things" lol

[Ninni]

She had the courage to ask you. It shows that she trusts you a lot. So i think you should show her but only if you want to. It is something very privat and i think not everyone feels comfortable talking about it and stuff. How mich you show and how far you will go is totaly up to you ... and to her ofcourse.

[Jennboh]

I was 10 when i started, so shes not too young. And nothing wrong with you showing her.

[ozteen]

Bff showed me when l was about 11, if she's asking, she's got some idea about it. l don't see any harm in showing her and explaining about keeping it private.

[suzzysmith2012]

It really depends. If she understands about it, and when/where to do and not to do it, etc. I personally was about 8 when I self taught myself about masturbation.

[lilg]

just show her how you do it and show her different things to try and tell her what's what

[Lauraaa]

I don't think its a problem to talk about with your sister. It depends on your relationship with her but she will learn it either way, so maybe its better if you explain it correctly?

[Appl]

I don't think its a problem to talk about with your sister. It depends on your relationship with her but she will learn it either way, so maybe its better if you explain it correctly?

Yeah I think it's better if it comes from me. I'm still a bit nervous about what to show her though

[Emerald Dream]

The OP is banned. :locked: