Clingy girlfriend...

[Redrocket]

My girlfriend is so clingy I don't know what to do. She sends me a whole lotta messages and if I don't answer right away she sends me over 12 messages and she likes to spend all day texting me and at bedtime she kept saying I love you allot and she said goodnight to me 3 times. We have this friend who is my ex and she doesn't want me to talk to her or see her anymore because my ex knows a secret that my girlfriend is boy crazy but I still have feelings for my ex. My girlfriend wants me to get rid of my ex and wants to start a life without her but my girlfriend and I still like each other and were in seperate relationships but my girlfiend and I live far apart on a long distance relationship and I am just studying for my drivers licence I don't know how my girlfriend and I could have a relationship

[hockeyfan]

If ur her first bf then maybe she's just exited.

If not, u know wat caused her last break up. I would end it quickly. Who knows wat she'll do next. End it quickly, it will only get harder.

[maniamsmart]

Long distance relationships can work. I am not sure if you want it to work. You have to ask this yourself. She seems pretty into you, how long have you been dating? Some girls that are clingy like that are either really into you, have you as their first boyfriend, or is a side effect of the the first few weeks of the start of a relationship. If you can tell me a few more details about the time frames between your relationships I can give you better advice.

Also are you saying you are into two separate relationships, one with your ex and one with your current gf in long distance? If so I don't support that at all, and it could hurt someone, you need to make your choice. She's your ex for a reason, and if your current gf wants you to not talk to her, she has a reason and does have the right to ask for that favor, and as a respectful bf you should listen. However, like I said, I don't know much about your relationship yet, and if you'd be able to give more details I can give you a much better answer that could be able to help you :)

Let me know, thanks.