Liking girls.

[ajsd9]

I really don't look at girls very often in a sexual way (except on the rare chance where I think a girl is hot.) I prefer cute girls, and I 10/10 choose personality over looks. That is, when I actually DO like someone.

I have only liked two girls in my life... and one was a little 6 year old first grade thing, and the other was in 7th grade where I always thought of myself as gay (i watched gay porn, but I never liked or looked at guys in the world. Very strange.)

I don't think I look cute or hot or anything (only one girl has ever told me I'm cute). I've only liked two girls, and neither of them reciprocated the "like".
I am an introverted person most of the time, but when I actually want to talk, because of this, I have no social skills. I have plenty of friends, but no social skills, especially when it comes to girls. Kinda ironic. Anyways, I think I stand too close to people when speak to them.
When the inevitable time comes that I do like another girl, I want to be prepared. Can you guys help me out? What should I do to improve my skills? I don't want to be that one kid every girl avoids, so plsh elp i wuv u bbz :wub:

[hockeyfan]

U could b asexual. Meaning u just don't want or need sex in ur life.

I know someone that had a hormone imbalance. Ur dr might also be of help.

[James Dean]

Be yourself and don't make it a journey to find a relationship. Focus on more important things if you have to. Let things like this come naturally if you want to go that far. Male, female or whatever. Sexuality is only a sliver of you. Good relationships start on chemistry and communication. Love yourself and be self confident. If you have a certain feeling about someone, take the chance. Rejection might happen as you said, but don't let it get to you. Keep on moving and accept it. Wishing you all the best though. Keep your head up though. Going through many of the same problems as you so we can get through this together.

Don't worry. :)

[Saint of Sinners]

It's not a quest mate, you don't have to be prepared. Be confident, be yourself, and if you think you're doing something wrong just observe others, or ask.

Like CELT said, Don't worry.

[Owen727]

you sound a lot like me, dude! I am sort of shy except with my friends. I used to have all of these girl friends when I was younger - in 3 and 4th grade - and we used to hang out together and do stuff (not sexual) and it was really cool. Now most of them pretty much ignore me. They don't make fun of me or anything but they just dont pay attention to me. I want to talk to my old friends but I dont want to pretend to be someone else just cuz I am supposed to be girl crazy now. be yourself!

[danielgrand]

girls stop noticing guys the same age once they start puberty. they're looking for older guys who are more developed. when your body starts to fill out, they'll notice you again. just be yourself though, don't try to be someone you aren't.

[Owen727]

girls stop noticing guys the same age once they start puberty. they're looking for older guys who are more developed. when your body starts to fill out, they'll notice you again. just be yourself though, don't try to be someone you aren't.

thanks Daniel. i kind of figure that they will notice me again - its just sort of weird cuz all of a sudden their whole attitude is different
plus my parents keep talking like i should be attracted to them, but im not really
at least not yet. i guess that will come?

[ajsd9]

Thanks for all of this. I just don't like the feeling that girls seem to AVOID me rather than want to know more about me (not even in that way, I mean just as friends)

[danielgrand]

thanks Daniel. i kind of figure that they will notice me again - its just sort of weird cuz all of a sudden their whole attitude is different
plus my parents keep talking like i should be attracted to them, but im not really
at least not yet. i guess that will come?

parents worry about everything. you'll know when you're ready to date.

[dirtyboxer55]

you could be gay or low t