what is this i dont even

[ajsd9]

I literally have no idea what I am. I honestly don't worry about my sexuality often, but when I think about what I am, i just get so damn confused! I can't even understand myself. :(

So, somebody, help me out.

So basically when I first hit puberty, I was gay. It was strange, though, as I didn't like any type of boy or guy irl. When I watched porn, it only had guys who would be considered "masculine" (body hair, muscles but not ridiculous obvious steroid muscles, hell that would turns me off :rolleyes:). That was for a good year and a half up until now. Now, I'm starting to lose interest in it. I don't look at it the same way, and I easily don't like it as much. I began looking at some straight porn (guy had same form in it, girl is hot), and it worked a lot better. Lesbian was more of an on/off thing for me, and it only gets me going a couple of times, and when it does not nearly as strong as straight.


In the real world, I've only liked girls (even during my entirely gay phase). I love a girl with a nice personality, regardless of looks, and I don't ever think about sex with them (unless it's that 12 o clock I can't sleep thing I usually have) If I DO ever see a girl i see as "hot" (which is like NEVER, but say it does), I'll be looking and staring. But if I see a guy as if I stated above, I look, but then I'm just like... I don't really care.

I don't get it. I'd say i'm becoming bi, but I just need your opinion. Thanks for listening to this mass effect 3 ending of a post! :P

[txtwister13]

puberty can be a very confusing time, sometimes you like only guys, sometimes only girls sometimes it changes almost on a daily basis. this is the time when lots of people explore their sexulality. i'd say you may be bi or becoming bi but i'd just go with it and don't worry about putting a label on yourself. i'd also say go easy on the porn or at least remember that most porn is totally fake.

[CosmicNoodle]

Your young, even if we gave you a label, it would change within the year don't worry about it, your young, your still figuring yourself out, it's perfectly normal to be confused, or to have no idea, just give yourself time and you'll figure it out, don't worry about labels at such a young age. Just give yourself time, you'll figure it out.

[James Dean]

You can't really compare that to real life experiences and meetings. Could be the people who you come across in real life aren't attractive to you, male or female. I suggest just loving yourself and not worrying about how your sexuality compares to different things. If you happen to come across someone you like, then take it from there. As time goes on you will figure out who you are as a person.

I mean, usually bisexuality is very complicated and it's hard to understand sometimes. But you like what you like, it's hard.

[ajsd9]

puberty can be a very confusing time, sometimes you like only guys, sometimes only girls sometimes it changes almost on a daily basis. this is the time when lots of people explore their sexulality. i'd say you may be bi or becoming bi but i'd just go with it and don't worry about putting a label on yourself. i'd also say go easy on the porn or at least remember that most porn is totally fake.

Porn is fake, what do you mean? :rolleyes:
Doesn't matter what sexuality you are, all porn has different situations. All of those are 100% not what happens in real sex. I honestly don't really like the porn, but the problem is, *looks down* Mr. hormones over here, who won't give me a break with the random boners that won't go away. :P

EDIT: By the way, I think I'll be bi too. But this whole sexuality thing is ridiculous. Being the curious person I am, I wonder if other animals go through this as well. Maybe it's just a human thing, I dunno. Anyway, thanks for the reply :)

[Zachary G]

puberty can be a very confusing time, sometimes you like only guys, sometimes only girls sometimes it changes almost on a daily basis. this is the time when lots of people explore their sexulality. i'd say you may be bi or becoming bi but i'd just go with it and don't worry about putting a label on yourself. i'd also say go easy on the porn or at least remember that most porn is totally fake.

I couldnt have said it better myself. I think this sums it up in a nutshell and is the simplest answer.

[SethfromMI]

you might be even bi-curious. who knows. don't be in a rush to label yourself

[TroyH]

I had the same changing interests when I was going through puberty as well. It wasn't until last year when I was 18 that I really sort of "settled" on a label. So give yourself more time, you have a long life ahead of you!