View Full Version : 16 year old and 11 year old male friends help?
bendawson
December 19th, 2014, 10:48 AM
i am 16 boy and i have an friend 11 boy and we were talking and it turned into talking about porn and then mastrubation and he asked me how to mastrubate what should i do
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richie909
December 19th, 2014, 11:10 AM
Show him.
NeuroTiger
December 19th, 2014, 11:14 AM
Teach him
raven_student
December 19th, 2014, 11:32 AM
well i think it pretty much depends on how close you guys are... if you barely know him just tell him to ask someone which he is closer to. now if he is really close to you, be a good friend and teach him! there's nothing wrong with that! explain him everything he asks and that's it! now if he wants to see it by you or a video or something, which i dont think its going to happen, its up to you,
Bull
December 19th, 2014, 12:51 PM
Okay to tell him how, just keep your hands to yourself.
SethfromMI
December 19th, 2014, 02:38 PM
Okay to tell him how, just keep your hands to yourself.
this. if he is 11, I do not know if you should even have him see you do it. there might not be a real problem with it, then again, if he (for whatever the reason) told one of his parents, it might cause trouble. but yea hands off him definitely
SonOfAnarchy
December 19th, 2014, 04:39 PM
Do it first, let him watch for little then tell.him to.do what u did and maybe leave the room or tell him to do.it at night in his bed
hockeyfan
December 19th, 2014, 04:44 PM
U could b with him when he googles it
Zachary G
December 19th, 2014, 05:18 PM
you could always tell him about it, maybe use a prop to show him how to do it, but dont show him by your doing it yourself or on him. there are youtube videos about it if you want be with him when he looks it up.
canadienudist
December 19th, 2014, 09:47 PM
Yes what zach, do not show him how to do it, let him look it up.
DavidNorton
December 19th, 2014, 10:25 PM
Just show him
Meh Guy
December 19th, 2014, 10:33 PM
That's really up to you just understand that it's probably considered illegal where you live but if you're both good with it then I guess you can go further.
FameMonster
December 19th, 2014, 10:50 PM
I agree with some of the others- I would probably just explain it in basic terms to him and use a prop like someone suggested. Direct him to jackinworld too. Showing him is probably not a terrific idea as he is 11 and you are 16, even if you two are real close and good friends.
GoGoDiego
December 19th, 2014, 11:48 PM
Mutual masturbation would be good if you and your friend are close. If not, visualize.
Canadian Dream
December 20th, 2014, 02:04 AM
well i think it pretty much depends on how close you guys are... if you barely know him just tell him to ask someone which he is closer to. now if he is really close to you, be a good friend and teach him! there's nothing wrong with that! explain him everything he asks and that's it! now if he wants to see it by you or a video or something, which i dont think its going to happen, its up to you,
That's good advice right there. He's reached an age where he'll find out how to do it eventually, so i don't see any wrong in teaching him.
Saint of Sinners
December 20th, 2014, 03:14 AM
Tell him, or not. Not really your responsibility so whatever you do is fine.
Catholic Guy
December 20th, 2014, 05:37 AM
How do you know him? If you have a duty of care over him then showing him is a real issue
marko1707
December 20th, 2014, 07:49 AM
I would a agree with the posts before. i would say it is better not to show him how you do it. Just let him google it in the internet
Brian738
December 20th, 2014, 09:57 AM
Show him and enlighten him
Liam TWB
December 20th, 2014, 12:25 PM
You could explain it to him in words or mime a hand movement maybe on your finger. It's easy enough to understand without either of you taking any clothes off - and definitely do not touch each other! I don't know about where you live, but with him being 11 years old and you 16, in the UK you could end up in trouble with the police.
Jay98
December 24th, 2014, 09:39 AM
Normally I would say go for it, but given his age its probably in your best interest to avoid that subgect with him and keep your hands to yourself. It coud possible cause you somw real trouble.
swimmerbby
December 24th, 2014, 05:04 PM
First off who is the kid, If he's someone who you have known for you entire life and he is basically like a brother to you then honestly I would explain it and maybe show him like mutual masterbation, I don't think jerking him off is appropriate not is it going to help him or you. I think if he's someone who you're known for a while maybe someone you babysit then just explain it. It honestly depends on your guys' relationship and what you guys feel comfortable doing, discuss it, and do what ever you guys agree on
robbymas23
December 26th, 2014, 12:58 AM
If he says "Can you show me?" then i'd show him. otherwise maybe better not to given the age difference? I dunno'.
Sam-9876
December 29th, 2014, 05:28 AM
Agree with most of the others, tell him about it and show him youtube or jackinworld. Don't go whipping yours out in front of him, and definitely don't touch his.
If your friendship turned sour would you want him telling his (or your) parents what you did?
Johnking1996
December 29th, 2014, 02:05 PM
If you are good friends and you can talk openly, which it sounds like you can, just show him, you don't need to get your dick out just demonstrate with your hand, make sure that DONT touch him as that would be illegal
guy1233
December 29th, 2014, 09:56 PM
dont show him
Serioj8279
December 30th, 2014, 09:46 AM
I have the same problem I have an 11-year-old that always asking questions about sex and wanted to know what stuff is.
Crona
December 31st, 2014, 03:30 AM
In depends on what your relationship is like, but from the way you made it sound you two are pretty close. What I would do is I would try to describe it to him and show him only if he asked. If you show him you shouldn't let him touch you or touch him though.
Jordanchance1
December 31st, 2014, 03:40 AM
Teach him it'll be fun
aalleexx
January 1st, 2015, 03:16 PM
I go on the principle that everyone has to discover himself.
dario
January 1st, 2015, 05:17 PM
you can tell him, but don't show him, let him examine it by himself, i mean he's too young
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