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Wisam
December 19th, 2014, 08:48 AM
HI, i'm new here! and i have a question. so this this past few years i realized that i'm gay. This semester though, I sat next to a girl that i have known since last year. things went fine at first, but now i'm starting to like her. even the whole class thinks that we are dating! We were always on the same group in a group project, we make jokes, insult eachother on daily basis, and even do some inappropriate sexual humor. The weird thing is, when I'm Starting to like her, i already had a HUGE crush on a guy in my school. What does this mean?:confused:

SethfromMI
December 19th, 2014, 02:47 PM
you might be bi or bi-curious

Descene
December 19th, 2014, 11:07 PM
I really wouldn't assume bisexuality. It's totally up to you about labels, but one girl often =/= bisexual.

If I've only been attracted to one of that type of person, 1/100 or whatever, bisexual in its definition isn't accurate. I just go with the flow, date them if I want to, whatever. Don't feel locked into a sexuality if it isn't what you want. It doesn't necessarily mean anything, but sure, there's a chance. Almost 100% of the time with me, it is largely emotional attraction like what you describe sounds like. It depends if physical and sexual attraction are there or will be there as a result, or you're both cool with giving it a shot anyway.

James Dean
December 20th, 2014, 03:38 AM
To some people that would be considered bisexual. But this is your body and you know what you're attracted to. As long as you accept and believe in yourself, you should have no issues. Hoping the best for you and that you are able to be happy with finding friendships and relationships.

kay_jay
December 20th, 2014, 02:34 PM
You're probably bi.

Uranus
December 20th, 2014, 03:03 PM
Probably bi or bi curious

Meh Guy
December 20th, 2014, 10:27 PM
Either bisexual, bi-curious or you could just be growing close to her. If you haven't had many female friends, you may be confusing sexual attraction with attraction.

twirlgurl
December 27th, 2014, 11:45 PM
Im confused. Do you want to BE with her, like sexually?? Or are you very close friends. meaning, you connect personally and share a tight bond? Cause if its the last one then it doesnt mean anything other then you have a girl as a close friend is all. Does SHE know you're gay??

Zachary G
December 29th, 2014, 09:11 AM
To some people that would be considered bisexual. But this is your body and you know what you're attracted to. As long as you accept and believe in yourself, you should have no issues. Hoping the best for you and that you are able to be happy with finding friendships and relationships.

celt said it best, only you know and only you can decide.