Rejected

[plebble]

Ok so I kinda proposed to someone but she said no because she is in love with someone else which I had no idea about and now I'm sad. I kind of need someone right now.

[Body odah Man]

Ok so I kinda proposed to someone but she said no because she is in love with someone else which I had no idea about and now I'm sad. I kind of need someone right now.

I'm sorry man :(
I've been rejected loads of times and it still always hurts :( Have a good cry man and try to give it some time and you should feel better, but it still sucks

[plebble]

It's weird, we weren't dating. I thought she gave off a lot of hints, we were best friends at university then she told me she wanted to be engaged in 2015. Didn't realise she already had someone else that wasn't me.

[SethfromMI]

I am sorry man, it is a hard thing to find out. but it is better to know so you can try to begin to find someone else who you may be able to start a relationship with

[maniamsmart]

Wait, so you were just friends, and then you just decided to propose to her even though you guys weren't dating? Did she say that she wanted to be engaged with you, or that she just wanted to be engaged in 2015? In my honest opinion you kind of made a reckless decision, because it's always a bad idea to propose to someone when you aren't even dating them, it kind of breaks the rules (if you think of it like that) and skips the dating stepping stone, which is very important in relationships and love.

The only thing I can say is that you should take this as a learning experience and use it for the future to make better decisions and help you find a better girl. Perhaps you can enlighten us with some more details about this girl and how your connection was and maybe we can shed some light on it and maybe make you feel better.

[plebble]

Wait, so you were just friends, and then you just decided to propose to her even though you guys weren't dating? Did she say that she wanted to be engaged with you, or that she just wanted to be engaged in 2015? In my honest opinion you kind of made a reckless decision, because it's always a bad idea to propose to someone when you aren't even dating them, it kind of breaks the rules (if you think of it like that) and skips the dating stepping stone, which is very important in relationships and love.

The only thing I can say is that you should take this as a learning experience and use it for the future to make better decisions and help you find a better girl. Perhaps you can enlighten us with some more details about this girl and how your connection was and maybe we can shed some light on it and maybe make you feel better.

No no no I've only stated very brief details, there is a lot more stuff but I shouldn't discuss it. I know what I've written sounds reckless, but it's not. She's of a very different culture and is the sort of person who'd instantly make her mind up about someone immediately after meeting them. It's very difficult to explain. But as we weren't dating or anything, I'm not that hurt, I'm pretty much fine tbh and I respect her choices.

[queenofcontrariety]

I mean the only culture I can think of where dating isn't allowed is Islamic, even super fundamentalist Christians allow coucourtships with chaperoning. But if we was of that strict of a culture would really expect her to be able to be with someone outside of it? Go on, cry it out, not condoning anything else but get a pint of ice cream and anything else you need and take some you time if you need it. Definitely and interesting story though

[maniamsmart]

I mean the only culture I can think of where dating isn't allowed is Islamic, even super fundamentalist Christians allow coucourtships with chaperoning. But if we was of that strict of a culture would really expect her to be able to be with someone outside of it? Go on, cry it out, not condoning anything else but get a pint of ice cream and anything else you need and take some you time if you need it. Definitely and interesting story though

Agreed, this is a good coping method, however if you are doing fine then that's good :) I have never heard of such a religion either though, interesting nonetheless.