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Heisen8erg
December 18th, 2014, 06:57 PM
Okay, so i just wanna start this post off by mentioning that I have no physical attraction to males at all. I havent seen one man in my life that i find "attractive" I just need a little help figuring this out.

So ill start with this story, back a few years ago me and my best friend were having a sleep over, and one thing led to another and he asked me if he could give me a hand job. I didnt want too at first, but then i thought about how good it would feel and let him, while i gave him the same.

The first few times it was just that, but eventually he asked if he could suck me if i did it in return, so i said yes. We did that for years, never had gay sex, just sucking eachother off, and i loved it. Keep in mind that i had no physical attraction to him at all, i just loved the thought and feeling that we were so close friends helping eachother out. Eventually we stopped talking and a few months ago we saw eachother again, and he didnt want to do it anymore, so i respected that.

So in this present day, i have a friend who i know for sure is bisexual, he's accidentally left things signed onto my computer and its pretty obvious.. I want to do the same thing with him that me and my other friend used to do, but again im not physically attracted to him at all, and im not quite sure how to start something like that.

Ive never kissed a guy before, nor would i want too, and ive had sex with plenty girls but its just so much better when a guy does it because they know exactly what to do.. If anyone can help me itd be greatly appretiated. Im probably not gonna see him again until the weekend so im hoping i can figure it out by then.

SethfromMI
December 18th, 2014, 09:38 PM
like anyone else you are going to have sex with, be perfectly clear form the very beginning what the two of you want out of it. if it is just sex for sex, make sure it is stated very clearly form the get go

Heisen8erg
December 18th, 2014, 10:44 PM
Of course. I wouldnt want him thinking im gonna be in a relationship with him, and id have to make it obvious so he doesnt end up kissing me. I just dont know how i would even bring up the subject

Meh Guy
December 20th, 2014, 10:29 PM
You could always ask him. If you know he is bi. Like a friends with benefits kind of thing

Elysium
December 20th, 2014, 11:02 PM
We don't allow asking for advice on how to get someone to do something sexual with you. :locked: