Relationship Question

[tarheelboy8888]

Hi All,
I'm almost 18 years old, and I haven't ever really come close to having a girlfriend. It kinda has me worried that maybe I am not attractive at all, and that I may never have a GF. If it matters at all, I'm around 5' 10", have red hair and blue eyes.

Any advice on how to handle this situation would be welcome!

[SethfromMI]

relax. you have plenty of time to be in a relationship

[Luminous]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Uranus]

First, a real girl doesn't care what you look like. What they care about is who you are inside and your personality and if they can trust you and love them. Relationships come at different times for everyone, some in the teen years, some during adulthood. Don't worry, the time will come.

[maniamsmart]

First, a real girl doesn't care what you look like. What they care about is who you are inside and your personality and if they can trust you and love them. Relationships come at different times for everyone, some in the teen years, some during adulthood. Don't worry, the time will come.

Perfect answer, the exact same thing I would have said. Take your time and learn about yourself first and find out what you like then see if you can find a girl that matches those things that you like.

[Meh Guy]

I wouldn't worry too much. You sound pretty average (based on the statistics, since I can't see you :P) so it's probably not looks. If you're stressing a lot you could always try online dating, even if it doesn't work the way you plan. It's still a good way to meet people. They might know people who will connect with you, if they don't.

[Saint of Sinners]

Naw, you'll be fine. Heck you're taller than me, not that it really matters.

What maters the most is who you are as a person. Also different people have different ideas about what's attractive. So seriously, don't worry.