Is he actually interested?

[lonelysnowflake]

Hi everyone

So there's this guy I've been messaging on fb every day for the past week or so. I think I really like him, we met at this concert together. I sent a message yesterday and it says that he saw it at 7pm yesterday, and he still hasn't replied :( what's kinda awkward is that he's been on fb several times since yesterday and so he's obviously able to reply but just isn't. Am I just stressing over nothing or do u think he's tryna say he's not interested? ? :(

Thanks for reading and help would be so much appreciated :)

[Saint of Sinners]

I think you shouldn't worry. He might not be able to reply as he might be busy or just didn't notice your messages.

[Broken Toy]

Give it a day then start a conversation again, could be anything really. Sorry to say but i did actually hear a story where my friend met a lad in person then messaged him and hw just never replied. But that was a really odd thing so as i said, just start a conversation again and see what happens

[lonelysnowflake]

Thanks for your advice guys :) yh I guess I could just send him another message, won't it kind of show that I like him in that way though?

[Saint of Sinners]

Thanks for your advice guys :) yh I guess I could just send him another message, won't it kind of show that I like him in that way though?

No, I don't think it'll give it away. Good luck!

[lonelysnowflake]

Okay thanks :) yh I might try and send him another message or something, he still hasn't replied...

[SethfromMI]

just give it some time. I do not always respond to my messages right away, esp if I want to think about what it is I am going to say

[maniamsmart]

Considering the fact that he did see it, he's either ignoring it because he isn't interested or he's waiting till he isn't busy so he can actually talk to you and start a conversation and not just awkwardly send a message and then not be there to reply when you reply back. Either or, I think you should send him another message when he is online and just say hi and ask how he is doing and such. If he ignores it again, he isn't interested.

[lonelysnowflake]

Thanks for your help guys :) yh I'm considering waiting until christmas maybe so then I can send him a message saying 'happy Christmas, how are you' etc etc, I'm not trying to put it off, I just think it may be less awkward if he doesn't reply before xmas at least

[maniamsmart]

Thanks for your help guys :) yh I'm considering waiting until christmas maybe so then I can send him a message saying 'happy Christmas, how are you' etc etc, I'm not trying to put it off, I just think it may be less awkward if he doesn't reply before xmas at least

That's a great idea!

[Meh Guy]

Now, I understand that this is the point of anxiety for almost everyone in a relationship/friendship. Personally, don't worry about it. I find myself at times not wanting to talk to anyone even someone who I like. Those times I make an effort not to read messages so this exact situation doesn't occur. If you're really not sure, you can ask if he is free or something and if he does it again, then it might be an indication.