A question for lesbian and bi girls

[Juana]

I also like to watch girls in bikini and nude girls and compare their bodies to my body, but I don't know exactly if I'm bi, cos I like boys too.

I want to know if you when you're lesbian or bi, you feel attracted to a girl who is for a part or maybe completely the opposite of you regarding the character and/or appearance?!!!

For example you're blond and you like brunettes.

[Emerald Dream]

Puberty for Girls :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

This will probably get better answers here. :)

[Luminous]

Comparing your body to somebody else's is not the same as being sexually attracted to them. I compare my body to other girls because I'm insecure about my own, and I also look at girls and think "Wow, she's attractive." If you do the latter and could actually see yourself in a relationship, sexual and/or romantic, with a girl, then you may be bi.

I'm attracted to some girls similar to me in a way because it makes me feel like I can relate to them. For example, I prefer shorter girls and I'm short. I have a thing for girls with long, straight brown or blonde hair, which is a bit different from me. My hair is naturally extremely curly and is currently relaxed so still thick and wavy but not stick-straight like I prefer on a partner. Honestly, it just depends what sort of body part we're talking about. In the end, personality is the most important thing and I do like to have someone that sees the world similarly to me.

[Descene]

I don't compare bodies really, but maybe because I'm an adult and more secure with my body. And yeah, I would pay attention to your thoughts when you do that, as that's something straight girls do a lot too. If it's just "I wish I looked like her," then that would be the case.

Totally opposite, absolutely. I feel like there's a much stronger pull for me toward them, like I want to get to know them and see what makes them tick, but I'm curious by nature. I fall for similar people more often but it's the different people that fascinate me and that I stay with.