Would topping hurt with Phimosis?

[Dimentio]

Okay so for those of you who don't know Phimosis is just a tight foreskin, really annoying problem haha
But I've been speaking to a guy for a while now and it is going well and we are meeting in January or February and he asked me if i was a top of a bottom, and i said i had no idea then he bought up trying things out, but I'm just really worried about that XD
Like trying to bottom is easy, but I'm really worried that with Phimosis it could hurt quite bad! I've already had an experience with forceful rolling of the skin, but it caused great pain for about a week or so, and is not anything I'd like to experience any time soon!
So if anyone knows anything about that stuff it would be super helpful to know and augh, just, I'm so uncertain about these things and this has been one thing I've always wondered that'd make it easier! I'm trying my hardest to not make this sound like a sex story but, where he's a guy with only one hole down there that, well those holes aren't exactly loose, it could cause a load of pain, it'd be a while for this stuff to happen but future planning never hurts :D (Pun intended i think? Haha)

[marko1707]

Well I would say you just have to be careful. It is possible but I would talk to a doctor to give me advice if a circumsision would not be better. Maybe only a half circumsision.

[Abhorrence]

There are basic exercises that can help with Phimosis, google them. They take quite a long time to work but are apparently effective.

[Meh Guy]

Well, yes it may hurt. Your foreskin will roll back during sex however there is no real way to know just how much. So it may not be a problem, but it may be one. There are some steps/solutions to fix this;

1 Use a condom. This should prevent the rolling back of the foreskin, however it is not overly good for your penis and can make the application fairly tough.

2 Loosen the foreskin. You can do this with the use of a doctor, who can give you creams or surgery to loosen it. Or, by rolling it back as far as possible, every day for a couple months, this will loosen it.

3 Get a circumcision. Obviously this may not completely be your choice and its a pretty extreme answer to not being able to have sex, but it is an option.

[hockeyfan]

I'm uncut but u should look into getting circumcised.

[nklarke]

One solution for that it's called circumcision.

[lancezer]

One solution for that it's called circumcision.

I second that if the cream fails talk to doc and get cut because if its a result of a infections it will come and go as I learned and was told by a doc and I had one option at that piont and the urologist said at that piont as the last say yes its the only option left

[Catholic Guy]

When you're in the shower use lube and warm water and as gently as you can keep trying to roll your foreskin a bit further down until it loosens up that should help

[TapDancer]

Okay so for those of you who don't know Phimosis is just a tight foreskin, really annoying problem haha
But I've been speaking to a guy for a while now and it is going well and we are meeting in January or February and he asked me if i was a top of a bottom, and i said i had no idea then he bought up trying things out, but I'm just really worried about that XD
Like trying to bottom is easy, but I'm really worried that with Phimosis it could hurt quite bad! I've already had an experience with forceful rolling of the skin, but it caused great pain for about a week or so, and is not anything I'd like to experience any time soon!
So if anyone knows anything about that stuff it would be super helpful to know and augh, just, I'm so uncertain about these things and this has been one thing I've always wondered that'd make it easier! I'm trying my hardest to not make this sound like a sex story but, where he's a guy with only one hole down there that, well those holes aren't exactly loose, it could cause a load of pain, it'd be a while for this stuff to happen but future planning never hurts :D (Pun intended i think? Haha)

So I won't go into details, but when I first started going out with my boyfriend over two years ago, we both weren't really experienced and we had to figure out what worked for us. We discovered that I am the better top and he is the better bottom, although we did try it the other way around. When I first met him, he had an incredibly tight foreskin. He even had thought it was normal (till he saw mine). In the first year or so of our relationship though, we didn't really engage in anal sex - it just wasn't for us. Phimosis could be an issue but a condom can help you out. I can't go into details here (I'm sure you can use your own imagination) but gay sex doesn't have to be just anal. And you can please other guys using other methods which are just as satisfying. But as for my partner, overtime as we got intimate through touching, his foreskin did get naturally more loose as we "explored" each other.

Honestly I wouldn't be worried as any decent guy worth having in your life will be sensitive to you and your needs as well as being able to satisfy his own. (its not that hard, no pun intended :P )

But to answer your question, yes it would. A condom that fits you a little more tightly than it should, while making it far easier to break, might solve your issue. The best thing to do is to see a doctor to help you out. Believe me, doctors see a lot of penis, its worth the ten seconds of embarrassment. And I assure you, you can fix the issue completely without getting any kind of circumcision, partial or full (in my opinion, it is not worth the loss of sensitivity)

If you need anymore advice, let me know and I'll tell you what I can :)